Girl. Me and my husband just got into a legit argument over tests. I see a faint and he doesn't. It started as frustrated with each other and it just grew. (I keep having on and off symptoms with bfn or vvvfaints) Not proud but it's true. It's not worth it. It's stressful enough on its own and how hard it is to stop thinking about, that's what we have to do. Our situations are different but the nervousness and thinking is the same. It's like we're trying to protect ourselves from heartbreak but we are kind of causing a smaller heartache if you know what I mean. Best to stay busy for me. Hugs to you. I know how you feel.Thanks ladies it is hard not to worry about every single thing. I'm a ball of nerves one minute then cool as a cucumber the next. I have still been doing my temps yes I know crazzzzyyyy and sure enough this morning it dropped well below my coverline so once again something to freak out about it dropped so low I checked it twice stayed the same then I got up to see if the temperature would change because seriously scared s**tless and of course temp went up when i was standing so thermometer is functioning just fine. I will temp Tomorrow just to see if it rises if it does the thermometer is being put away. I only continued to temp because with all my cp's and or miscarriages and ectopics my temps were such a big clue something was wrong. Even last cp I started temping after the bfp just to see and sure enough I had 2days of very low temps my usual pre o temps I then had a full blown bleed and a cp was the result. With my ectopics temps were very erratic. Idk DH is so frustrated with me at this point because I wont just relax and stop trying to "predict everything" sorry girls just have to get that out you girls have become my sense of reasoning. Your thoughts?!?!
Nothing since this morning, and all of you all are so right just have to stop worrying myself and let be what will be, thanks girls...I know it's hard but stop testing and temping only going to drive yourself nuts with worry. What's ment to be will be...stress is bad for baby!!
How is the spotting did it pick up or stop..is it still red??
Prayers for you
Thanks so much hunIt's totally normal to analyse and question everything ...I would be exactly the same if I got a BFP now. But you can't change things no matter how much you worry so you just have to let try to relax and let nature and the above do their thing no matter what is planned out for you.
Sending you a ton of positivity and sticky dust
Oh my goodness you are just the sweetestput that thermometer away girl! I’m pretty sure we’re only really meant to bbt to pinpoint and/or confirm ov, so pleeeease don’t focus on temp anymore! Also, your test looks lovely. It’s still progressed since the last. Roll on Friday!! xx