Hellooooo!!
Hope everyone is good!
Loski, I can't believe a week tomorrow is prep!
How was reading PAR? How long was it? Bet it is surreal to see how much you actually cover during HS. Your SW is a gem
Milty, hope fingerprint is all checked a cleared asap! Sounds once that is boxed off you will progress fast
Butterfly, sounds like you are well informed at this stage. There are always many things to think about, and it is good that you can tackle some of the tricky things early on so that hopefully if you do decide you would like to progress you have answers to possible potential problems. Also I have found from my enquiries that agencies do vary and a problem to one may be a strength to another. Good luck with the path you chose
Hi Puppymom, hope you and LO are good
Had a fab holiday, just what we needed, sun, sand, relaxation, good food and lots of alcohol!! It was so cheap as Bulgaria are not in the euro so the exchange was brilliant. Pints were 50p, cocktails around £3, but always buy one get one free as happy hour lasts all day! We had lovely meals out on the seafront with around three drinks each to the equivalent of £12ish! It was mad!
We walked on the beach, visited the ancient town were the vines all grew, there were little fishing harbours, church and castle ruins and statues. The other way was the strip where all the touristy bits were for buying souvenirs and knock of clothes and sunglasses etc. We had one day of rain but other than that it was around 28 degrees but did get up to 30 one day which is too hot for me. That was a pool day! The complex was lovely, big rooms, very clean the maids made towel swans, fans, bows and rabbits on our bed every day. Only downside was the flight which was delayed a lot of the night on the way back. We had no sleep for 30 hours!! Most slept once we got on the plane but I was too terrified to relax (hate hate hate flying!!) When we got back Jedward were at the airport so everything took ages as a load of teenage girls were screaming and grabbing them while they ran around like crazy men, so security was tight!
DFs stepmum has been asking a lot about adoption. She seemed to think we would get a little baby and went on and on about shopping for baby b ooties etc etc. I had to tell her that this is very unlikely and gave the many reasons. I had to drum it into her many times but think she is better informed. DFs dad admitted he is concerned that our child will have many 'issues'. Again explained that while there are always many consideration when adoptiong a child from the care system, many difficulties can improve/developmentally catch up with the right input and care from us and help from our support network and SW and adoption team etc etc. I hope that they understand a little better, and know that these conversations will occur more and more frequently over the coming months.
Anyway, still catching up on emails etc so better run. Love to you all, Lolly xxxx