Just to throw in my update: I got AF this morning. I tested on 12 dpo like I mentioned previously and it was of course negative so I was pretty sad all day. Even though I got my period today I'm not as low because it's a new cycle, and a new chance. Testing during the two week wait, while you're in limbo and getting a negative is so dang hard.
Thanks for all the support this week, it's the only real support a lot of women get feeling too crazy to talk all this through with their husband or loved ones (or just sparing them from everything we go through, as not to put too much pressure on our husbands especially).
Anyway, best wishes to the pregnant mommies, and good luck to those trying in March!