Windmills
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people really need to learn to live a little. like this fella..
https://farm4.static.flickr.com/3221/3099456407_981812e28b.jpg
That looks like a house elf!
people really need to learn to live a little. like this fella..
https://farm4.static.flickr.com/3221/3099456407_981812e28b.jpg
https://i540.photobucket.com/albums/gg322/polkadotsbewley/rmanthreatenssnakewithcucumberjigawhatnow.jpgI just think it's a shame that heated debates cannot be allowed to resolve themselves. IT CAN BE DONE!! We are all adults, we don't need to be stopped from having a heated debate. No one is forced to participate and if you feel someone is breaking forum rules with their posts then you click report and / or leave the thread.
Yeah, but the majority of the time it can't be done. As if you search all the past controversial threads .. they are all locked. This is the first FF/BF thread kept open in a long while. Even though it has gone in a tangent, noody has been left feeling like shit. Which they normally do
The fact is, that thread has stayed open not because of people being mature and debating in an adult manner but because predominently it is no longer a bf/ff thread at all, it's a spam thread so no need to shut it (except that spamming is meant to be against the rules).
Debates can go in a mature manner without getting locked but as I say, I rarely see it in baby club, perhaps because of the personalities here. Toddlers have had a few debates recently without getting personal or getting locked, it seems everyone is able to debate in a mature manner there which I'm thankful for
And what is the harm in that? Would you rather ANOTHER BF/FF thread whcih has been locked and everyone left feeling like shit Mothers? I certainly don't. With regards to spamming, i am sure if it was that bad we would have been asked to stop by now. But i feel ALOT of people's feelings have been spared because of the pictures.
I think baby club has been pretty fab recently. There are personalities all over the forum
I think that clearly wasn't my point. My point is that everyone's going on about this being the one bf/ff thread that hasn't been closed and attributing this to the temperature being kept down by goats. That's not the case, it's just not a debate thread anymore
So the long and short of this thread isnt so much that its annoying .. its that people feel "left out" and "noT in with the joke/crowd" or whatever? Because thats how this all reads to me?
@ Sarah!
Ohhh and if you dont all shusssh it with the bickering then this thread is going in the bin ... me and AB are tweeting with Matt Cardle ... leave us in fricking peace
Can I join in??
I think he can only handle the two of us
If there's something strange, on your BnB forum...
https://i53.tinypic.com/2rf4gwk.jpg
So the long and short of this thread isnt so much that its annoying .. its that people feel "left out" and "noT in with the joke/crowd" or whatever? Because thats how this all reads to me?
https://i540.photobucket.com/albums/gg322/polkadotsbewley/your-argument-is-invalid.jpg
https://i540.photobucket.com/albums/gg322/polkadotsbewley/your-argument-is-invalid.jpg
Sorry, that doesn't look like my sons.
Anyone fancy a circumcision debate?