So we are going for our 12w scan on the 4th. DH bday is on the 17th so we are having a BBQ on the 15th with his fam and mine. We've told our parents but not anyone else. I need some advice on how to reveal to a group. Have thought of a welcome drink with something baby - maybe a swivel stick if I can find. Otherwise a 'we're expecting' cake in the place of a bday cake, but will then have to wait till later the day. Don't really want to do the group photo thing as it's not our/families style. Any other nice ideas??