Yeah I feel more anxious to get ready with this one than I did with my son, I was fine waiting till last minute with him and he was born late. So maybe this one will come on her own, who knows.. Its really hard on me though knowing we cant do too much since we are moving at the end of next month but in the mean time I am doing what I can. My husband actually read about some kind of option to buy a house that makes it a little cheaper.. I don't remember what it was called but basically you would own the home but not the land, the land would be owned by like a bank or something. It makes it cheaper but the only thing is they can kick you off the land but apparently they dont.. I don't know if I want to go with that option unless we can purchase the land at some point too, it seems like theres some kind of a catch and I dont want to be worrying if they will kick us off or not (even if they usually dont) I'd rather just own the home and land out right but I guess either way is a better option than renting. Oh and I guess also you can't sell the home without the land owners permission.. seems sketchy to me I guess you could say..I'd rather go with a rent to own home.