Merry Christmas and a blessed New Year!
May all your dreams and wishes come true, may the man above always be at your side, hold your hand and carry you through the years to come........
I am very well, baby just kicking my insides out,,,,,, hurts sometimes.
I am enjoying my pregnancy and so anxious to meet Jenna-Li, got almost everything ready for her.
I have to share something with you, just to get it off my chest, tell me if I am being dramatic?
I was very hurt by my cuzin wife, she has been trying to fall pregnant for as long as I was. The only difference is that I sought treatment and went to a RE, she also has PCOS and many of the symptoms I had, f not all of them. I gave her so much advice and everything I went through I told her about and explained it to her, we shared so much together, she helped me and I helped her, we even prayed for each other.
Now that I am pregnant, I don't hear from her nor do I see her. I invited her for supper in October and she accepted, but did not pitch up, not even a phoned call or text message, nothing at all.
Now I have heard by a friend that she says she can't handle the fact that I am pregnant, nor can she stand to see me with a bump,,, I was so hurt!
After all we have talked about, I really thought she, out of everyone would be happy for me and my husband, but now I feel as if I am being punished and lost her friendship.
The difference is that I sought medical intervention and did lots of research to get me where I am today. I even told her to join this site for advice from ladies who can relate.
I know is hard to be around pregnant ladies when you have been tiring for so long and nothing happens, I have been there also, I know it's not easy, but the why does she not go to a Gynae and start somewhere.
I believe that God helps those who helps themselves,,,,,, I just feel so hurt!
Am I just being hormonal and nagging like a pregnant woman ?
Why can't people be happy for your blessings, is it that difficult?