and welcome to the thread Barberwife.
You are definitely in the right place for support, we've all experienced the same range of emotions. You may have read through my story with the others - I had my drilling done on Dec 11 and fell pregnant in May 12. My OD baby is now 10 months old
I was very nervous of the op, but everything was fine, I had a little infection afterwards which i had antibiotics for. I didn't ovulate on my own after the operation, but I did respond to a combination of Metformin and Femara (aka Letrozole) and I got pregnant the first month I took both together. My PCOS symptoms have been loads better since the op too. I def recommend it and would have it done again should I ever need it. I have decided since having my baby to not take any contraception, and I did notice I have ovulated and my periods seem to be regulating - great news if ever we decided to go for No 3.
and we have some ladies here who are expecting their second OD baby.
The hardest thing after the op, for everyone I think, is to not expect instant results after the op. It takes a few months for our bodies to recover and begin to react to what has happened yet our minds want that miracle first month BFP. Relax, look after yourself and keep us posted
Cullen - Awwww. Bless little Ella! She's such a sweetheart!! Doesn't the time fly. I will mail you soon. Lovely to see you back on here.
Nikkia - I do get out to groups, a baby group locally and the ladies are lovely but everyone seems so busy with their own lives and going back to work it's hard to arrange to meet up with anyone for a coffee. Rory's doing well, it's a magical age.
Cridge - Your little ninja looks just gorgeous!
AFM - Still very down with the PND. My tablets are beginning to work but I am so tearful and feel hopeless. I went to a post natal support group but it wasn't very good so going to look in the new year for a different one. It's a horrible thing to have, I am so grateful to have baby Jude around but I have read so much about ladies with PND and how they feel that it's good to know I am not alone and why I feel how I do. It's been hard to get into Christmas even.
There's lots of OD Babies about to have their first and even second Christmas - What does everyone have planned? Sorry if I have missed everyone - thinking of you all