Scerena & Nikkia-Glad to hear the op went well for you both. I remember having all the same questions you both had. I personally dont recall the first time I felt up to bd'ing after my proceedure. If I remember correctly it was at least a week. My iphone ap says we waited 12 days after but I dont think it was THAT long. But maybe. Ha.
As for the pain-the shoulder pain was the worst!! How I forgot about that until you guys mentioned it, I dont know. That was my biggest complaint. And I, being totally against pain meds (my first husband passed away because of them
), refused to take anything. I remember walking hunched for a few days in fear that I would rip a stitch or just because that felt more normal than standing all the way up. I bled a little when I peed for a few days but nothing like a period. Something that was odd-on day cd13 (counting surgery as cd1), I started af. I didnt ovulate but instead started my period. I then ovulated on my own 18 days later. Then the next cycle (the second cycle after the op) went completely normal and thats the cycle I got pregnant. Anyway-the worst part is over ladies and you should both be feeling back to normal in a few days!
Cridge-Im happy to hear that you guys are going to do that med. The name escapes me right now but the one that got you pregnant last time. This is SO very hopeful. I know here in the states we seriously pay WAAAAY to much for healthcare but just think that there is only 8 months left of this...and hopefully, not that many months needed.
Im so glad you have God in your life as I know personally just how healing that can be. As I mentioned above, I lost my first husband-my high school sweetheart-and without my faith, I would have been a lot worse off than I was. I've been through some stuff in my life (in and out of foster care as a kid, abuse, widowed at 25, etc) but God is a promising healer. I am SO grateful for everything He has pulled me out of and not only just merely survived it but rather came out above it with such a clearer picture of strength and who I was. God truely never lets go of you. He has been with you through-out this whole process and I love that you are letting Him lead the way. You got this girl!!
Mommymel-I commend you for taking a break from temping and all the meds. So many people said that when the pressure is off and your more relaxed about things-that is when good things usually happen.
Maria-I didnt know you had to ops. How is your pregnancy going? I know I feel weird sometimes talking about it however just trust that it will happen to each and everyone of these ladies as well. Your past the critical period right? I hope your breathing easier lady!! I just recently bought a pregnancy journal but have yet to let myself write directly on its pages. I am writing on post it notes and sticking it to the pages until I know were in the safe zone. I try not to be so fearful but it sneaks in and makes me so so scared. Did you do things like this?
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to you all!!