Anyone testing on the 30th?

[pdxmom]

Hi gals,
Its been a while but ive been on vacation and im back now...
Im confused and need your help....So as u gals know tht early this mth i found out i am preg but its not a viable pregnancy.....after 2 weeks of waiting for the levels to go down they r still fluctuating between 20 and 40...my doc now thinks he shud give me a metho shot on monday if my levels dont fall considerably...the confusion here is tht im not really happy abt having to wait for 3 mths to ttc after the shot...so im wondering whether i shud speak to my doc abt a d&c...im sure tht a d&c is more traumatic on the body but ive read tht u dont have to wait to ttc after having done it...wat do u girls think...shud i ask him for a d&c or just suck it up and do a metho shot and wait for another 3 mths to try???

 

[jury3]

pdx-That's a hard one. I would say talk to your doctor about your options. If you have to wait, but it will be better for your body that might be the better choice. I hate for your body to go through that and it cause you more problems down the road. I'm really sorry you have to go through that...I can't even imagine how hard that must be for you.

 

[7kt13]

Going to try to pick up some dollar store tests tomorrow! I have a FRER but I'm not going to use it until my AF is actually late or I get an obvious line on another test. It's still really early anyway!

 

[mrskatie80]

Hey my lovely ladies!
I thought I'd check into make sure no-one as testing *too* early
Such an exciting time, hoping there are quite a few BFP's this month!!
It's great following through the highs and lows together with the support that that entails.

AFM - it's been a rollercoaster of emotions so far!!
Initial hCG at 19 DPO was only 120 (fairly low).
First u/s scan at 7w0d showed a heart beat - WHOO HOO - of 134 BPM. HOWEVER baby peanut was only measuring 5w4d, so a full ten days behind.
And there is NO WAY I O'd that late as I got my BFP at 13 DPO and if the dating scan was right I would have only been 3 DPO!! Not a chance!!
Anyway, I haven't had bleeding, but the scan a fair sized sub-chorionic haematoma behind the placenta. I'm currently on pelvic rest and resting up until it subsides and starts to reabsorb.
Also have a mega cyst on my right ovary also.
The docs were very conservative and drew more bloods to try and determine 'viability of the pregnancy' - I hate that term
But the hCG came back with 19094 and a doubling time of 55.92 hours which is well within the 31-72 hour time frame they wanted.
So now we've been referred for a follow-up scan on Wednesday, at what should be 8w0d, at a specialist u/s clinic that only does pregnant women, to re-scan and re-measure bub and check growth and also the SCH size.
So nerve wracking!!!
Fingers crossed for the best right now.

 

[pdxmom]

Ya i know its such a tough decision to make...the only thing tht keep making me lean towards the d&c is tht i will know for sure tht my system is cleaned out and theres nothing stuck...im not sure how gud the metho shot is to clean the system...i need to do some more reading...i know tht it will defenitely get my levels down and do its job but i just keep wondering abt it cleaning up properly...if u know wat i mean..

Katie...all the best for your test...stay healthy and positive

 

[Ummi2boyz]

Hi ladies!

I too am hoping to see more bfp's in here.
Undortunately, I think I may join again.
My scan at 7+1 showed a sac measuring 4-5 weeks and no fetal pole. I am waiting for my body to do things naturally, will see my gp tomorrow and see what they reckon.
Pdxmom: I really feel for you. I hope this is over soon for you too xxx.
Katie: hope your lil bean is fine.

 

[mrskatie80]

Pdxmom - oh that's so tough. If it were me of lean towards waiting for things to clear out naturally. I turned the shot down after my blighted ovum that was discovered at 10 weeks and miscarried naturally a week later.
*hugs* very tough decision xx

Ummi - oh no! Hang in there though - will they re-scan just in case your dates are out? Massive positive vibes being sent your way, keep us updated please?
Thoughts are with you xx

 

[Ummi2boyz]

Thx katie.
Well, if you look at my chart, there's no way There could have been a2-3 weeks gap. I mean, I had my bfp at 11 dpo. I could be wrong within a few days, a week at the most. A tiny bit in my heart is hoping to see some progress (yes, I think they'll do another scan, that's what the sonographer recommended, but because it was private, it's *just* a recommendation).
I just want things over so I can start ttc again.

 

[LoveSunshine]

Sorry all you lovely ladies are having such a hard time - hugs xx

 

[mrskatie80]

Thx katie.
Well, if you look at my chart, there's no way There could have been a2-3 weeks gap. I mean, I had my bfp at 11 dpo. I could be wrong within a few days, a week at the most. A tiny bit in my heart is hoping to see some progress (yes, I think they'll do another scan, that's what the sonographer recommended, but because it was private, it's *just* a recommendation).
I just want things over so I can start ttc again.

*hugs* I see what you mean.
Are you going to re-scan do you think? Or see what your doc says?
I'm so sorry - never what you want to see at an ultrasound.
I cried at the 10 day measuring behind. It's so worrying.

xx

 

[Mrs.LCS]

Hi gals,
Its been a while but ive been on vacation and im back now...
Im confused and need your help....So as u gals know tht early this mth i found out i am preg but its not a viable pregnancy.....after 2 weeks of waiting for the levels to go down they r still fluctuating between 20 and 40...my doc now thinks he shud give me a metho shot on monday if my levels dont fall considerably...the confusion here is tht im not really happy abt having to wait for 3 mths to ttc after the shot...so im wondering whether i shud speak to my doc abt a d&c...im sure tht a d&c is more traumatic on the body but ive read tht u dont have to wait to ttc after having done it...wat do u girls think...shud i ask him for a d&c or just suck it up and do a metho shot and wait for another 3 mths to try???

i had a d&c..i had to wait two cycles..and im seeing why now bc my cy les that used to be a perfect 28 days are now screwy

 

[HawkLover]

Owh goodness.. I wish you ladies so much luck!!

 

[sirouseman]

Looks triaphasic. Never have had a chart quite like this before. Slow rise. O date is wrong though b/c not enough temps prior to O. Symptoms are keyed in colors. Came down with BV since post O. Naturally treating it. I heard this is a good sign of impending pregnancy!! Anyway, temps could plummet any day now. AF expected on cd 34 or 35**:O*https://FertilityFriend.com/home/427d81/

 

[7kt13]

Ummi so sorry to hear about your scan! I wish it was better news. That must have been heartbreaking for you

MrsKatie, hope everything turns out well with your repeat scan! Maybe you ovulated late, the HCG numbers sound great!

As for me, I took two more wondfos (the bad batch) and they were both very negative so at least I know some of mine are working ok lol. Tomorrow will be 10dpo so will test again. I had a temp dip yesterday, (?implantation) but could also have been because my sleep schedule was completely off. We will see!

FX for some BFPs and sticky beans on this thread!

 

[pdxmom]

Pdxmom - oh that's so tough. If it were me of lean towards waiting for things to clear out naturally. I turned the shot down after my blighted ovum that was discovered at 10 weeks and miscarried naturally a week later.
*hugs* very tough decision xx

Ummi - oh no! Hang in there though - will they re-scan just in case your dates are out? Massive positive vibes being sent your way, keep us updated please?
Thoughts are with you xx

I actually have been waiting for it to pass naturally for more than 2 weeks now and no progress...my numbers keepfluctuating between 20 and 40...i just dont want to keep waiting and land up with more complications incase the stuck tissue causes any other complications as i have just 1 tube left....bcos of my past record of an ectopic my dr is suggesting the shot as tht will defly clear my system even if its in the tubes....ahhh so stressed...have totally forgotten my vacation

Ummi honey...im sorry ur goin throthis...just just hope and pray the scan look gud and they can make sense of it wen u go in this time...

 

[7kt13]

I actually have been waiting for it to pass naturally for more than 2 weeks now and no progress...my numbers keepfluctuating between 20 and 40...i just dont want to keep waiting and land up with more complications incase the stuck tissue causes any other complications as i have just 1 tube left....bcos of my past record of an ectopic my dr is suggesting the shot as tht will defly clear my system even if its in the tubes....ahhh so stressed...have totally forgotten my vacation

Ummi honey...im sorry ur goin throthis...just just hope and pray the scan look gud and they can make sense of it wen u go in this time...

That sounds awful pdxmom! Those numbers seem so low too, so you think they would be coming down soon. Such a tough decision to make. When is your vacation? You need some R&R soon!

 

[jury3]

kt-I'm glad you're staying positive! That's such a horrible malfunction...nothing like some good old mind tricks...

ummi-I'm sorry, that must be so disappointing...why can't things just work out the way we want! Ugh!

pdx-Definitely talk to your doc. Keep us updated...thinking of you!

AFM I am 8 dpo. I tested this morning and bfn. I know it's still early though. However, I just noticed the lightest bit of pink when I wiped. I looked at my cervix and there is a slight bit of darkness (spotting) and a spot of creamy/yellowish mucus. The spotting happened for me last month and I thought I was 10 dpo, but after looking back I think I o'd earlier which would have made it a 13 lp (which is what I usually have). Now I'm freaking out a little...I know it could be implantation bleeding, but after what happened last month I'm afraid I'm getting ready for AF...That would give me a 9 day lp.....I am freaking out a little..... Of course if I'm not preggers that will suck, but it freaks me out because I'm afraid that my lp is messed up. What if my lp is getting shorter? Ugh.

 

[7kt13]

jury, hope it's implantation bleeding! Sounds like it could be the right time frame. I've been taking B vitamins and my LP has gotten a bit longer so you could try that if it does end up being short. GL!

 

[HawkLover]

Jury, My fingers are crossed for you.

 

[jury3]

Kt-The funny thing is I've started taking B6 this month. Not everyday, but every other day I take 100 mg. My lp is always 13 days...it's just frustrating when things change! I haven't noticed any spotting today. I will check cervix tonight and see what's going on. I'll just have to wait and see if AF shows up or if I get a BFP....