we live in a 2 bedroom apartment, and so won't have a nursery for this baby. we didn't have one for our son, either, and i thought i would be sad about it, but the baby doesn't even use the nursery for months! we co-slept for a long time (still co-sleep a ton, actually) so having a nursery didn't make sense for us.
i haven't purchased one single item for this baby. just been busy with my toddler and the christmas season. once taxes come back, we'll buy a few baby items and then a few clothes, nothing much. we have so much from my son, who was born in april also.
it's starting to get surreal to imagine another new baby - having 2 kids. crazy!