April mummies baby club :-)

[mummy to be]

Thanks Lyndsey.... nope i havent heard anything and i can put money on it that he will come home from work and act like nothing has happened!!!

Unfortuantley i am just breast feeding so i cant just go out for the day... Which sucks. And she hates bottles So i kinda have to stay around for that.. But i mean there are other things that he can do that isnt feeding..... He was great for the first 2 weeks but all of a sudden things have changed And i hate it.... It took the 2 of us to bring her into this world.... it should be both of us that look after her.... right????

Thanks for your support and cuddles Lyndsey
-xox-

 

[HannahGraceee]

hi girlies

how are you all?

me and marc are having sex on sat OMG and he was the one that said lets omg first time since november

 

[MelanieSweets]

Hey there ladies...
Melly - ohhh yes i had words with Allan.... grrrrr he didnt end up going out last night which was great... he now understand that i am still a little emotionally all over the place.. and that I NEED his help!!!

Is anyone still kinda all over the place???? Or is it just me?

Sweetie i am the same hun..... i got annoyed last night as OH had been at work all day then came home and was working .... and he couldnt see it I had a headache and i was waiting for babe to wake so i could feed him, and i got stressy with him and he 'finally' offered to feed him .... i actually think our men seem to think that after looking after our babies all day they think we want to do it all night too which i dont know about you hun but i like to have a break and really when there home from work there should be a bit of daddy time! its been constant for me since i had him apart from Monday afternoon .....its tough this mummy malarky theres no doubt about it xx massive hun x

 

[mellllly]

Mandy that text is fine hun, gets your point accross, they really dont understand!

I am quite lucky and Graham is doing his fair share in everything, he goes back to work again next week though so I dont know if things will change. Due to what happened with his bro he has only worked 1 week since we have had her, its been noce to have him around. I am not as nervous this time as I was when he went back when she was a week old.

I am also very lucky that I have gone back to netball soo quick as that is my 'me' time and then when I get home I have a nice hot bath and then back to being a mummy! It sounds harsh but I like playing netball and not thinking about anything else but playing.

I still get emotional now, but not sue if that is my hormones or just everthing getting ontop of me

Sophie has a little cold bless her, but I think she has passed it onto me!
Any plans for the weekend?

 

[mummy to be]

thanks ladies...... Mel - kinda sucks hey!!! i just dont know what else to say to him to try and make him understand...

Melly - your so lucky! i am jealous! Can you make your OH talk to my OH lol.... Give him a few pointers lol.

what do you know... it is friday night and guess where Allan is........... TITTY BAR!!! I am furious... even after i actually spoke to him about how i was feeling and everything.... i am soooo pissed off and so hurt.... it is like everything i say to him just go in one ear and straight out the other!!

 

[mellllly]

Aww hun, Has he text you back?
If you lived over here, and quite close I would come round and keep you company! Then I would have words with him when he got in as well haha!

Its raining here today, booo!!

 

[mellllly]

Ooo I cant remember if I told you or not, Sophie smiled at us properly for the first time on Tuesday!! Not wind!! It was soo cute
She has done at least 1 proper smile a day for us, I love it

 

[lyndsey3010]

wow mandy that really sucks, im so sorry he didnt appear to take any notice. Arent you close to his mum, would she be able to talk any sense in to him if you had a word with her about it? Sometimes your own mum is the only person that can get through.

 

[mummy to be]

Awww thanks babe.
He has been home, Ate dinner, Showered and left to go drinking..... Not impressed... I just dont know how to get through to him!!!!

 

[chel27]

hi girlies

how are you all?

me and marc are having sex on sat OMG and he was the one that said lets omg first time since november

hi hanny OMG your gunna have sex again!!! im so happy for you!!!! just watch the good ole scar

for some very strange reason im alot tighter down there now...christ knows why!!!!

 

[lyndsey3010]

Ooo I cant remember if I told you or not, Sophie smiled at us properly for the first time on Tuesday!! Not wind!! It was soo cute
She has done at least 1 proper smile a day for us, I love it

Soooo cute!! I love baby smiles. We've had a few and i was waiting for the fart/splat in nappy and nothing HV even commented yesterday on how he is smiling.

I love it!

 

[lyndsey3010]

hi girlies

how are you all?

me and marc are having sex on sat OMG and he was the one that said lets omg first time since november

Say no and make him wait!! revenge even if you are cutting off your nose to spite your face!!!

 

[chel27]

Awww thanks babe.
He has been home, Ate dinner, Showered and left to go drinking..... Not impressed... I just dont know how to get through to him!!!!

awww hun massive and i certainly wouldnt put up with his..infact i woullb be kicking his ass out the door if he refused to listen to me. who is he meeting down the pub then?

 

[mummy to be]

wow mandy that really sucks, im so sorry he didnt appear to take any notice. Arent you close to his mum, would she be able to talk any sense in to him if you had a word with her about it? Sometimes your own mum is the only person that can get through.

Yes that is true... i am close to his mum.. but i know that she will just make some excuse for him.. he is the baby of the family so they are really close
So yeah... good idea but i thought about that....

I have spoken to my mum about it and she said that unfortuantly some men go a little silly after their first as they are not sure how to deal with the new lifestyle change......

LIFESTYLE CHANGE!!! hahahahahaha righto!!!! Welcome to reality i say....

 

[mummy to be]

Awww thanks babe.
He has been home, Ate dinner, Showered and left to go drinking..... Not impressed... I just dont know how to get through to him!!!!

awww hun massive and i certainly wouldnt put up with his..infact i woullb be kicking his ass out the door if he refused to listen to me. who is he meeting down the pub then?

He is meeting some of MY mates down there.... Grrrr... Trust me.. i want to kick his arse out!!! If he doesnt listen to me tomorrow when we talk about it he can piss off... I have been doing everything alone and by myself so far... why cant i do it full time ALONE!!! I dont need him! We dont need him!

 

[chel27]

He is meeting some of MY mates down there.... Grrrr... Trust me.. i want to kick his arse out!!! If he doesnt listen to me tomorrow when we talk about it he can piss off... I have been doing everything alone and by myself so far... why cant i do it full time ALONE!!! I dont need him! We dont need him!

wtf??? meeting your mates down the pub?? oh my. i would be screwing. what about you having a night off??? i really dont understand how some men just wwouldnt want to soend every possible minute with their babys.
my OH does more than his fairshare and never goes out without me. x

 

[jenny_wren]

i had a HUGE argument with jason
yesterday over the fact hes becoming
lazy and i feel alone in this
so he toke the day off work and looked
after her all day just to give me a break!!


so i spent 6 hours making a
scrapbook for emily

and the bloody doctor told me
they wont be able to give me the implant
for another month!!
you'd think they'd want to give
out contraception!!!

argh mandy give the man a reality slap
bloody men

xx​

 

[mummy to be]

Chel... i know.. They are MY mates and he hardly knew them untill the other weekend. It is annoying!!!
I would love to take time away.. but cause i am breast feeding still i cant really go anywhere.. Or drink Plus there is no where really to go in the god for saken town!!!
I would love to be able to take my book and go upstair and spend some alone time without Layla or Allan... Is that wrong??? I sound like a horrible mum... I dont want to be around my baby for a few hours......

I thought Allan would never want to be away from his daughter! But apparently i was ohhh so wrong. It is like when he is home i even have to ask him to change her....

I just dont know what to do..... I am exhausted!

Jen - your so lucky your man took to day off work... Allan would not do that in a pink fit!

 

[jenny_wren]

it did take alot of screaming
bitching and crying!
and he had to lie to his boss lol

and chel .... call me a bitch bag
YOU WILLY FACE!!



its not wrong to want to escape
i go and take baths shut the
door and its great for an hour or so!!
and i have to ask jason to do things
as well otherwise he'd spend his life
on the bloody xbox

xx​

 

[chel27]

i had a HUGE argument with jason
yesterday over the fact hes becoming
lazy and i feel alone in this
so he toke the day off work and looked
after her all day just to give me a break!!


so i spent 6 hours making a
scrapbook for emily

and the bloody doctor told me
they wont be able to give me the implant
for another month!!
you'd think they'd want to give
out contraception!!!

argh mandy give the man a reality slap
bloody men

xx​

you been picking on your OH jen...tut tut naughty girl i wondered where you was yesterday

awww bless@ you making a scrapbook for emily

why you gotta wait for the implant hun?