April mummies baby club :-)

[MelanieSweets]

Bless you Sarah, i added you to my FB by the way incase u didnt know who it was
Well sweetie i had internal 3rd degree stitches and have done it ... i think you will be fine lots of lubrication and take it slowly, but only when your ready i asked OH if i was still 'tight' down there and he said yeh hahaha was worried about that too xx

Well done on the healthy eating you, i feel quite good on my first day of slim fast, i am going to really try to stick to it x x my aim is to get back to a size 10 as thats what i was pre pregnancy although i have a few 8 tops ... we'll see x x

Melly i hope your OH finds a new job soon it must be really hard for you both bless you x x

 

[mellllly]

There is a few jobs out there but soo many people are out of jobs due to the recession and applying for them really is crazy at the mo everone is just applying for everything!! It is really hard because he is really really down. I tel you what this year was meant to be great for us with Sophie being born, but then he has lost 2 jobs this year due to the garages not having enough work and then his bro goes and kills himself I just dont know what more can go wrong for us, sorry for feeling sorry for myself but I can talk to you guys about it where as I feel like I have to keep being the smiling happy wife for Graham. I am scared we are going to lose everything and then him do what his brother did.

Anyway, change of subject - Sophie has her injections tomorrow bless her.
Sarah I had sex after 3 weeks with a 2nd degree tear, as long as you feel ready you will be fine xx

 

[mummy to be]

ouchy... i am so happy that i didnt tear or anything I am so lucky!!! I only waited 10 days after Layla was born to have but that hurt a little.....
But wholey sex drive now!!! It is what i want all the time.... i am getting it every night this week so far hehehehe Allan is getting sick but i jumped him last night anyways lol hehehe cheeky me.....

God i have some packing to do before we go away. But i just cant get motivated to do anything.. it looks like it is going to rain the whole time we are away starting today fingers crossed Allan will get sent home from work so that he can help me pack hehehehe

 

[mummy to be]

check this out hehehehe i think it is super cute!!!!

grrrr i am trying to upload a pic of layla smiling but i cant add the pics is anyone else having problems.. it says that there is some kind of error

 

[MelanieSweets]

There is a few jobs out there but soo many people are out of jobs due to the recession and applying for them really is crazy at the mo everone is just applying for everything!! It is really hard because he is really really down. I tel you what this year was meant to be great for us with Sophie being born, but then he has lost 2 jobs this year due to the garages not having enough work and then his bro goes and kills himself I just dont know what more can go wrong for us, sorry for feeling sorry for myself but I can talk to you guys about it where as I feel like I have to keep being the smiling happy wife for Graham. I am scared we are going to lose everything and then him do what his brother did.

Anyway, change of subject - Sophie has her injections tomorrow bless her.
Sarah I had sex after 3 weeks with a 2nd degree tear, as long as you feel ready you will be fine xx

Melly you poor thing, it must be really hard for you, you have to look after little un and then support your hubby it must be really hard for you massive !! Dont worry i dont think Graham would bear to leave you and little Sophie your his lovely little family xx

Hope she is ok with the injections today.

My baby is doing my head in .. sorry to put it bluntly but he didnt sleep through last night ever since mum looked after him.... twice he woke up last night ans this morning he isjust screaming even tho he has been fed and changed ... arghhhhh!! ...i have put him in his bouncy chair and he is just whinging does anyone elses's baby just whinge but not actually cry?

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Aww melanie

Amelia has stopped sleeping through too but I think that is because of the weather.

OH is off work today so he took her whilst I slept more, because I'm still feeling super sick.. I felt fine when I woke up, had some lucozade (to keep my energy up) and blugh!

I would like to get down to 10 stone too.. but I can't remember the last time I was 10stone!

Off to get Amelia weighed later, if she has lost more weight I will actually cry! I am feeding her whenever she wants to be fed, most of the time I'm sat there for a good 45 mins! What is wrong with my milk!?

Well the nice weather lasted long didn't it!! .. I hate looking out the window and seeing grey skies it makes me want to just stay in bed!

How is everyone and what are we all up to today?!

xXx

 

[lyndsey3010]

Morning girls!

Wow I had a lot to catch up on, I am bound to forget someone/something.

Mellllly - I'm so sorry you are having such a horrid time of it at the moment, big hugs to you and keeping fingers crossed that your OH has some better luck soon.

Han - great news on the weight loss! You will look amazing on Saturday night whatever you wear, so many of us are all bigger than we used to be and depressed about it (I know I am!!) but treat yourself to something glam and accessorise accessorise accessorise. Can hide a multitude of shapes with the right distractions!

Ash - You sound like our own personal Trinny and Susannah, I neeeeeeeeeed a consultation!! I did the shape test and I'm a vase, great way to shop though, I feel a spend coming on....

Mel - I feel like the only one with a baby that doesn't sleep through as everyone else seems to have great sleepers! Cooper whinges without crying, usually when I am wanting a nap and can't as the noise is too much!! They also have an uncanny ability to cry as soon as we want to eat don't they?!!

Mand - have a fabulous holiday! I'm soooooo jealous!

Kel - fingers crossed that you get another BFN. Sorry you are having a hard time too at the moment.

Anyone heard anything from Lana? She's not on much at all, hope she's ok

Cooper is poorly He had a cold which I went to the drs about on Monday and he told me to give him Calpol but come back this morning for a check up. This morning his chest is crackly so he now has anti biotics to nip it in the bud and we are due back on monday for another check up. We were supposed to be starting baby massage this morning but I called to cancel as I don't want him spreading his infection to the other little bubbas.

My big boy is poorly too (dog) he has an ear infection and a lump on his gum which may need to be removed and biopsied.

Between drs visits, vet visits, sleepless nights with Cooper, giving medication to them both, I'm blinking exhausted. Whoever said breast fed babies don't get sick is a big fat lair.
X

 

[lyndsey3010]

Ash - fingers crossed for Amelia.. I know its not what you want to do if trying to loseweight but chocolate pumps loads of fatty goodness in to your milk and could help fill her up. Since I've been pumping I can see a lot more of the creamy milk separates on top after a good chocolate feast. Might help your little monkey

 

[MelanieSweets]

Hahaha well Lyndsey maybe I just had a lucky few days he probbly sensed i likede him sleeping through too much .... he is really whinging this morning, maybe its the heat although he is only in his nappy ....

He is such a monkey, i guess the more he is awake the more he will sleep later .... maybe its just the whinging that i dont like, i will be glad when bubba starts talking then atleast i know what is wrong with him x

I hope your little one feels better soon though hun, i dont know how your managing you seem like a great multi tasker x

 

[lyndsey3010]

i said the same to my OH the other day, be great when then can tell you whats actually wrong rather than us trying to decipher cries/moans.

At the same time, I don't want him to get any bigger!! He's growing too fast already. Guess there's no pleasing me!!

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Ash - fingers crossed for Amelia.. I know its not what you want to do if trying to loseweight but chocolate pumps loads of fatty goodness in to your milk and could help fill her up. Since I've been pumping I can see a lot more of the creamy milk separates on top after a good chocolate feast. Might help your little monkey

Thank you

I couldn't eat chocolate at the moment even if I wanted to

I'm really annoyed with mothercare!! .. I had to return a bra last week because it broke, and they didn't have 1 single bra in stock in my size!! So they ordered me one and told me it would be at my house within 4 working days.. it has now been 7 working days! Takes the P!

I'm currently wearing a very uncomfortable bra in a complete wrong size!!

xXx

 

[mellllly]

Thanks Guys, Bit better today! Graham has an interview with an angency today who said that they have a job in mind for him!! So fingers crossed for that one! Luckliy he has a little bit of private work at the mo so he has been bringing some money in.

Sophie was a little trooper at her injections, cried for about a minute and then fell asleep soon after, the cry was horrible though - proper pain cry bless her.

Sophie slept from 10pm until 7.45 last night!!! Typical that it was daddies turn to get up, she will be up at 5am for me tomorrow any bets haha!!

I did read up the posts from my last one but I cant for the life of me think what anyone wrote - having one of them days today haha!

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Hey ladies..

Got Amelia weighed and she is now 9lb 9oz!! .. That is the biggest she has ever been!!

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I can't believe how much I've changed in myself.. I have no confidence what so ever. When we went to the surestart centre to get her weighed I felt so out of place and I just wanted to hide in a corner so no one could see me

I used to be so confident and happy!

OH was asking me why I haven't been to any of the mother and baby groups yet and I'm too scared to, I don't want other mothers judging me. Grr I'm so annoyed with myself for being so pathetic!!

xXx

 

[chel27]

hi girls....well amy had her skin tag removed yesterday and she was as good as gold...i cried more than she did she had to have an injection in her cheek and then we walked her down to theatre, then had to hand her over but it took 5 minutes and she was perfectly fine

she now has a groovy little plaster and she didnt even need any stitches...im soooo proud of her

well im still a size 12-14 and eating like a horse might have a chinese tonight

hope your all ok xxx

 

[lyndsey3010]

Ash thats fab news!!!! I'm so happy for you as its been such a long journey for you to get this far, you're doing such an amazing job. You should be proud as punch with yourself and full of confidence. I hope you get back to your old self soon as you have nothing to be scared about. I don't like going to group things on my own, but then i think well everyone else is in the same boat as me so sod it, jump in head first. Are you feeling any better or still rotten?

Chel - fab news that amy is such a brave little girl

Mellly - keeping it all crossed for your OH for tomorrow.

 

[hayley x]

Hi girls hope everyone's ok. I've been trying to read all your dieting talk and I'm so jealous... just cant do it... I love food too much I fit into my pre pregnancy clothes but I admit they feel a little tighter than they used to but im not too fussed right now. I really want to go swimming too but I still have a bit of a mummy tummy and no baby to show for it so I dont have the confidence.

What have you all been up to?? xxx

 

[mama2b]

Ash - fingers crossed for Amelia.. I know its not what you want to do if trying to loseweight but chocolate pumps loads of fatty goodness in to your milk and could help fill her up. Since I've been pumping I can see a lot more of the creamy milk separates on top after a good chocolate feast. Might help your little monkey

Thank you

I couldn't eat chocolate at the moment even if I wanted to

I'm really annoyed with mothercare!! .. I had to return a bra last week because it broke, and they didn't have 1 single bra in stock in my size!! So they ordered me one and told me it would be at my house within 4 working days.. it has now been 7 working days! Takes the P!

I'm currently wearing a very uncomfortable bra in a complete wrong size!!

xXx

Bloody mothercare ! One of my nursing bras broke to and had to take it back, I did get some really nice sleep bras from there tho, I pprefer them to the normal nursing bras and they were cheaper

 

[mama2b]

Hi girls hope everyone's ok. I've been trying to read all your dieting talk and I'm so jealous... just cant do it... I love food too much I fit into my pre pregnancy clothes but I admit they feel a little tighter than they used to but im not too fussed right now. I really want to go swimming too but I still have a bit of a mummy tummy and no baby to show for it so I dont have the confidence.

What have you all been up to?? xxx

I love food to much to, im a bridesmaid in less than 2 weeks and im to big for the dress but i just can't diet, im better at excercising but i just don't have the time, how are you ? xx

 

[sarah_george]

Hi girls hope everyone's ok. I've been trying to read all your dieting talk and I'm so jealous... just cant do it... I love food too much I fit into my pre pregnancy clothes but I admit they feel a little tighter than they used to but im not too fussed right now. I really want to go swimming too but I still have a bit of a mummy tummy and no baby to show for it so I dont have the confidence.

What have you all been up to?? xxx

Aww hun, your post has put my weight issues into perspective, your so brave xx

 

[mz_jackie86]

Hi ladies i miss u guys, but i always busy so nt get to come on here s much but ask me what i do all day and i honestly couldnt tell u lol!

So everyone tryin to loose weight.....me too then i munch on crisps lol...so i bought carrot sticks peppers and cucumber with dips and instead of eatin crap i eat them!!! I need to check if i actually lost any weight..shud stop drinkin irn bru lol but it is diet!!

So whats everyone been gettin up to?