April mummies baby club :-)

[kellysays2u]

uh oh... I think I may be pregnant... we were using condoms but there was a slippage with one of them and now I still havent gotten my period even though I stopped pumping and what not.... I cant have a baby... I get so frustrated with my life now I couldnt have another one yet... What to do...

 

[sarah_george]

Melanie - I Tried the slimfast diet before, it worked but it makes me feel so drained! I have soo much to do in a day now that I cant survive on milkshakes alone anymore I'm just literally trying to eat healthy which would be a start! its half the baby and half giving up the fags thats done me, I just want to be back to pre preg me, let me know how you get on with it we will all have to encourage each other!


Ash - I do that too! I was soo thin but in my head I was still seeing myself as fat, why do us women do that? I really have got a spare tyre now and i'm soo paranoid about it! ive got that unsightly bulge over the top of the jeans going on no matter what size i try on cos everythings so fat and baggy! hope you feel better soon hun

 

[sarah_george]

Kel - you need to test hun! I doubt you would be so soon after giving birth, your cycles wouldnt be back on track yet so I wouldnt worry too much unless you get a BFP, Hope your all clear if thats what you want xx

 

[kellysays2u]

Alright I tested and got a BFN... it was about 3 weeks ago so that should be accurate. Will check again in the morning as its a two pack test. So happy to not see two lines though. Sadly though I cracked and had a cig with all the stress.... OH still smokes so they were in the house (need to make sure he takes them from now on) and now I want another and another and another.... I seriously have an addiction... Hopefully will be able to crack it on my own... At least I didnt drink though... I wanted to but was smart enough to know that I really am an alcoholic so I didnt have anything.

So how is everyone else?

 

[mummy to be]

ohhhhh hun.... have you dont another test yet??? I have everything crossed that your not pregnant... I have the same fear.. i dont want another baby for a long time..
I am hoping that this mini pill is doing its job lol... :eeep:

How is everyone else???
God i missed this site when it was down I felt different and like i was missing something lol....

 

[HannahGraceee]

Sarah - I feel the exact way when my OH says I'm beautiful etc etc.. I was looking at pre preg pictures earlier and I was thinking 'why the hell did I think I was fat?!' ..

Han - Go you girlie!! .. So proud of you .. I have until Friday to weigh myself and I'm refusing to do it any sooner! .. You are going to have to tell me what you are eating please

..

I'm poorly!!! Started yesterday I suddenly went really weak/shaky then got a massive headache that refused to go away. Keep going hot and cold.. Yes cold even in this weather! My appetite is totally gone and trying to eat anything makes me feel so so sick

..

Amelia is still feeding all the time, had to take her to the doctors because she has a rash.. doctor isn't concerned about the rash, said it is probably just heat rash/slight viral infection.

BUT she is worried about her weight.. Basically we have two weeks to get her weight up and if she stays the same/loses/only puts on a slight amount.. I'm going to have to re-think how I feed her and possibly go back to expressing and bottle feeding

I don't think I can do it again.. it is so soul destroying! .. So I'm keeping my fingers crossed for the next two weeks!!

How are you all??



xXx

i eat everything lol, i had a friday i had Chinese and yesterday i had mcdonalds lol everything i normally have lol

i mad 0 point soup yesterday love it

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Han you lucky sod! Hopefully I will have lost some more this week!

Mum made me some tuna pasta yesterday.. I had three mouthfuls and nearly threw up! .. I ended up getting my sister to look after Amelia and I went to bed before 9 and didn't wake up until Amelia woke me up at 4.45.. it was nice to get more than 4 hours sleep at once..

Still feeling rubbish though.. I'm actually scared to get anything to eat because I hate feeling sick!!

Kelly - Bless you sweetie! I hope you get another BFN!!

xXx

 

[HannahGraceee]

Han you lucky sod! Hopefully I will have lost some more this week!

Mum made me some tuna pasta yesterday.. I had three mouthfuls and nearly threw up! .. I ended up getting my sister to look after Amelia and I went to bed before 9 and didn't wake up until Amelia woke me up at 4.45.. it was nice to get more than 4 hours sleep at once..

Still feeling rubbish though.. I'm actually scared to get anything to eat because I hate feeling sick!!

Kelly - Bless you sweetie! I hope you get another BFN!!

xXx

make some 0 point soup hun, you can eat as much as you like and it will fill you up! and soup always make you get better

 

[mellllly]

Morning Ladies, I am feeling much better today, Me and OH had an argument last night and cleared the air. I think alot is on top of us at the mo with him not having a job, still getting over his brother etc. But things are looking up, Graham has an interview today at 11 so fingers crossed for that!! I also had a nice hot bath last night so I feel much better.

Going to get Sophie weighed in a min, I think she is going to be 12lbs something!! hehe little piggy!! I love her soo much

 

[mellllly]

Oh and we have been together 6 years today!!!!!!

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Han you lucky sod! Hopefully I will have lost some more this week!

Mum made me some tuna pasta yesterday.. I had three mouthfuls and nearly threw up! .. I ended up getting my sister to look after Amelia and I went to bed before 9 and didn't wake up until Amelia woke me up at 4.45.. it was nice to get more than 4 hours sleep at once..

Still feeling rubbish though.. I'm actually scared to get anything to eat because I hate feeling sick!!

Kelly - Bless you sweetie! I hope you get another BFN!!

xXx

make some 0 point soup hun, you can eat as much as you like and it will fill you up! and soup always make you get better

What did you put in yours hun?

I have no imagination at the moment, I can't think straight

xXx

 

[HannahGraceee]

Han you lucky sod! Hopefully I will have lost some more this week!

Mum made me some tuna pasta yesterday.. I had three mouthfuls and nearly threw up! .. I ended up getting my sister to look after Amelia and I went to bed before 9 and didn't wake up until Amelia woke me up at 4.45.. it was nice to get more than 4 hours sleep at once..

Still feeling rubbish though.. I'm actually scared to get anything to eat because I hate feeling sick!!

Kelly - Bless you sweetie! I hope you get another BFN!!

xXx

make some 0 point soup hun, you can eat as much as you like and it will fill you up! and soup always make you get better

What did you put in yours hun?

I have no imagination at the moment, I can't think straight

xXx

i put, 5 carrots, 2 peppers, 2 onions, 2 cans of chopped tomatoes, 2 pints of stock and simmer for 25 mins

 

[mama2b]

Morning everyone !

Hope everyone ok, just been reading through all the posts seems we are all having weight problems I seem to have developed this jelly belly/muffin top that sticks out over all my skirts/jeans but even worse than that are the stretchmarks, they are just in one place all around my belly button, i hate them. At least I know I can tone up my tummy eventually but the stretchmarks are here to stay.

Oh and to make matters worse I am a bridesmaid in less than 2 weeks, the dress is so tight I can't sit down and I have to wear it ALL friggin day, not impressed.

Kelly hope you get the bfn, sure everything will be ok.

Lynds I am planning on bf exclusively until 3 months minimum and will maybe introduce formula at some point after and then just do a 3/4 feeds myself. How about you ?

 

[HannahGraceee]

i need help finding somthing slimming and sexy to wear clubbing saturday hellpp me

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Han...

https://www.newlook.co.uk/1628124/162812483/ProductDetails.aspx

A dress like this would be good..

The little sleeves will make arms looks smaller..

V neck will show off fab boobs

And the cut off the dress will skim your stomach.

In this weather you don't want to be stuck in jeans!!

Then if you can manage high heels stick on some high high heels.

And everyone should own a pair of slimming pants!!

xXx

 

[HannahGraceee]

thanks hun, ill have to go try that on x x x

 

[danapeter36]

congrats melly so happy for you honey.

 

[HannahGraceee]

i dont think im gonna go on saturday anymore im just too fat

marcs still going which i think is pretty unfair

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Hannah don't be crazy! You are not too fat for anything!!

You are gorgeous and fricking awesome and you deserve to go out and have a fantastic time!

If you can't find a dress you like then wear jeans and a sexy floaty top! .. If your boobs are anything like mine they will now be HUGE.. take advantage

xXx

Congratulations Melly and Graham!! 6 years is a loooong time

 

[MelanieSweets]

Morning ladies xxx

Sarah - Glad it worked lets hope it works for me, yeh definatly keep me informed on how your healthy eating goes today, they weighed me yesterday at my postnatal check ....i have a long way to go put it that way! We've all just got to keep each other motivated i guess!

Ash - Poor you i hope you feel better soon chik, i know you dont feel like eating but honestly you must try otherwise you will be constantly tired x

Han - luckily dresses this season are either long (maxi) and floaty or knee length and loose ... your bound to find something that will fit you perfectly xx Ash is right new look have lots in, also if you have TK Maxx they have stacks of dresses i bought a couple the other day x

Hope everyone else is ok xxx