Hey I'm a big girl ttc. I weighed 240 lbs when I concieved my son. Thanks to deppo and not the best of diets I gained 40 lbs after him and I haven't been able to lose it. I can't seem to keep myself motivated to try and lose weight. I've done little things like drop soda from my diet and try to cut down but still nothing. I think I need to really work out hard 5 days a week to see any weight loss but I suck at keeping up with that too. I'm worried my weight is keeping me from conceiving now even though I have pretty regular periods. I think I am really going to try my best to buckle down and lose some weight this year I'm getting married in august and I am NOT having pictures taken because I am so embarrassed about my weight..ugh
Hi, I can also understand you not wanting to have your photo taken, however, 4 years ago, I was about 300 lbs and I got married. I didn't arrange for a photographer, but all my guests had their own digital cameras, so we still had lots of pictures taken. Seeing those pictures has really made me focus more on losing weight though! We are planning to renew our vows when I have lost more weight. Hubby has lost around 100 lbs since then and I've lost 75 lbs, but I still have a long way to go.
Whatevery you decide, the most important thing is that you have a fantastic, happy day.
I'll also repeat what the others have said, going by your profile pic, you're gorgeous anyway, so you shouldn't feel you 'have to' shy away from the cameras.
TerriLou
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