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nickyXjayno
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I haven't had my baby yet but when I do I hope to have as natural a birth as possible as I don't want to feel out of it or unable to move.
I also hope to breastfeed as have read many of the benefits.
I will be using non reusable nappies, I won't be co sleeping nor will I let my child cry it out.
I want to use both a pram and a sling/baby carrier.
I'd say this makes me a sort of middle ground between Natural parenting and the mainstream?
I was explaining my choices to a woman who has just got back from maternity leave and she pretty much shot me down.
She said breastfeeding isn't good for the child and you don't know how much they are eating.
They won't settle properly ever and baby slings are stupid as what happens if you fall over?
The way she said these things made me feel a bit stupid like my child would be malnourished and irritable, also in danger from me crushing it if I fall while carrying.
I didn't argue with her but gave a non commital reply.
I don't know where she got her breastfeeding facts from but ohwell I didn't want to argue so didn't ask.
I do think people need to think about how they phrase things as can lead to confusion/upset.
We are also very sensitive when it comes to our babies, even before they are born!
xxx
I also hope to breastfeed as have read many of the benefits.
I will be using non reusable nappies, I won't be co sleeping nor will I let my child cry it out.
I want to use both a pram and a sling/baby carrier.
I'd say this makes me a sort of middle ground between Natural parenting and the mainstream?
I was explaining my choices to a woman who has just got back from maternity leave and she pretty much shot me down.
She said breastfeeding isn't good for the child and you don't know how much they are eating.
They won't settle properly ever and baby slings are stupid as what happens if you fall over?
The way she said these things made me feel a bit stupid like my child would be malnourished and irritable, also in danger from me crushing it if I fall while carrying.
I didn't argue with her but gave a non commital reply.
I don't know where she got her breastfeeding facts from but ohwell I didn't want to argue so didn't ask.
I do think people need to think about how they phrase things as can lead to confusion/upset.
We are also very sensitive when it comes to our babies, even before they are born!
xxx