Bazz- when I asked my OB about temping after my loss, she really wanted me to not do it so I didn't. She said I'd gotten prego without really trying/tracking anything so fertility wasn't the issue. She said temping is confusing and can cause extra stress. She was OK with the OPKs, but didn't really want me to temp unless I had been trying for 6+ months with no luck. She really was not a fan of it AT ALL and really stressed that it causes stress. Of course it's up to each person what they do, but I felt reassured that she was so against temping.
Ivy - Girl I'm thinking of you and praying you get a turn soon. I tracked everything, but I didn't want to TTC yet the month after my m/c. My ovulation and AF were on the dot on time and the OPKs worked perfect, 2 days of increase than bam positive just like the instructions said it'd happen. Then the week after my first AF I had such bad cramps that I was on pain meds and missed 2 days of work, my OPKs got darker for several days, then I thought I missed it, but I just kept using the OPKs because I had a POAS addiction and got my positive after another increase days later after I expected it. I was beating myself up so much for skipping ttc my 'perfect' month and thought for sure I was so out for November. Pretty sure it was the most roller coaster emotional month of my life. You never know how things will turn out. I'll be thinking of you.