Beach Bump Graduates!

[mummySS]

you are kelz - once a beach bump, always a beach bump. You are on the front page so you are a grad. I'm so happy that you are keeping in touch

 

[kelzyboo]

i kinda have to, your all amazing and i can't find a thread as supportive as you all are of each other. Its a bit difficult at the minute as babies are arriving but once they're all here and you all become 'boring' parents (lol) i'm sure i'll be able to rejoin without difficulty!
Perhaps if the beach bumps stick together long enough, i'll be in the next round of beach babies x

 

[sparky32]

You'd never depress us Kelzy, what you have gone through is unbelievably distressing and you will always have our support. I remember checking in on all my november sparklers and it was hard hearing about their babies but it also gave me hope that there are babies that are born safetly into this world. Your emotions are still very raw and i think your doing extremley well. Have you got a counsellor? I had a breavement midwife and she was amazing!! That and a book called "empty cradle, broken heart" got me through some very tough days. I still have the book & i can send it too you if you like. Never be afraid of the bad days & always make the most of the good days xxx

 

[mummySS]

Exactly, you never depress us, we are always here for support. It's a great bunch of gals, and we are here to support everything no matter how big or small x x x

 

[dan-o]

Wow I had no idea anyone had given birth to their babies yet! I've struggled to keep up with the july thread, too busy for my dyslexic brain lol!

Congrats ladies!! Fingers crossed I don't join you for a couple of weeks yet, still loads to do! x

 

[kelzyboo]

Thanks sparky, i hope once all the babies are here it will give me a bit of hope too, i know there are others with beautiful angel babies on here who are now having their rainbow's (including you, so i'm waiting for your news lol) so i know that somewhere in the distance theres hope. That book sounds like it did you good, i'm going to try searching for it on amazon now, even the title has me in floods but i know i have to cry when i need to. I don't have a councellor but i have an appointment for assesment but i'm not sure if i'm going to go, i'm not so good at talking and i've always bottled things up which isn't good but i'm not sure i can break the habbit now. I'll give it a go since it can't make me any worse!
Good luck everyone, this thread will be filling up in no time xx

 

[dan-o]

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss kelzyboo Thinking of you xx

 

[DragonMummy]

hey kelz, don't ever feel like you're depressing us. I think every one of us would be more sad if you felt you couldn't come back to us. It feels like we've all been on a journey together and i feel like i have a special bond with you all now.

 

[kelzyboo]

We have i just took a wrong turn on mine, i will come back but i'll try to be positive when i do x

 

[DragonMummy]

we'll all be here for you mate. xxxx


Just got pissed on..... had to happen eventually!

 

[melissasbump]

Love you all!!!!

 

[mummymarsh]

how many of you are planning your next already

 

[kelzyboo]

HaHa DM can't say that hasn't cheered me up ever so slightly!! x

 

[MrsWez]

Congrats to Claire and DM. I'm hoping Jonathan decides to come soon or I'm going to drag him out!!

 

[Blue_bear]

I cant bear much more of this teasing....

 

[Hann12]

BB - you are so close, hang in there!

One of my NCT girls told me that 75% of first babies are on time or late. How depressing!! I am definitely sure I'll be late, even with some of the pressure and cramping I think its just teasing me and won't pop out until I'm at least 41 weeks. I don't want an induction though so it better not be any later than that!

 

[MrsWez]

We have to hang in there, BB!! We can do it!

 

[SugarBeth]

Why do all these babies seem to enjoy teasing us?? Two days of teasing and I'm already going crazy.

 

[DragonMummy]

Tell me about it, I've had weeks of it! We got there in the end though....

 

[SugarBeth]

I've had well over a week of bad cramping and contractions, with two days of serious ones. I didn't think I'd feel so much pain for so long before real labor even started! Definitely was not expecting that.

Though I never thought I'd be such a glutton for pain. Every time things start to really hurt, I start groaning and such which makes DH ask if there's anything he can do to help or ask what's going on. I keep telling him I'm really hurting - but not enough! Even when I'm doubling over in pain, I keep saying it's not enough and encourage my body to give me more. Apparently my body is being too kind...