BFP at night then BFN this morning

[jtyler612]

This was the test I took on August 20th the day it got darker and then took another and got the same strength line

 

[jtyler612]

Tests from August 18th -August 20th and took other tests in between but couldn't get pic to show up to well. yesterday and today bfn's.

 

[jtyler612]

Trying to tell myself to get over it now

 

[hopefulfor1st]

Do u pee directly on a stick or in a cup? A contaminated cup can cause false positives (ie if washed with detergent etc)

 

[redlemonade]

Jtyler, I hope you can get some answers from your RE. I can see this is really frustrating you, the not knowing what happened. Secondly, I wouldn't go back to the other doctor/nurse you saw during the week - they should be a lot more empathetic and professional than that.

I hope you get some answers hun.

 

[jtyler612]

I pee on the stick. I heard about cup contamination a while ago and didn't want to be confusing myself anymore. I'm just going to call Re.

 

[jtyler612]

I spoke to RE nurse and she said it sounds like it was a chemical. I explained everything. I'm glad she wasn't rude either! That would have been the last thing I needed. Thank you all for your support and encouragement!!

 

[redlemonade]

I'm glad you got an answer at least, even though it's obviously not good news. I hope you're doing ok.

 

[faithforbaby]

Im glad that someone finally treated you with respect! You deserve it. As a nurse myself, it is never under any circumstances ok to make a pt feel the way you did. I experience staff being rude to me when I was in with pre term labor and then again when I went to get prescriptions after having a c section. I also had my obgyn office assistant mess up my appt time for my glucose test and after drinking it and getting there she RUDELY told me I was not supposed to be there that day. I handed her the appt card that SHE wrote out bc I had it in my pures and proved her wrong. Even after knowing that she messed up, she STILL made me feel like crap!

I know where you are coming from. I just hope you don't go back to that office if it can be avoided. If it can't be avoided, I would at LEAST say something!

Sending TONS AND TONS AND TONS of baby dust your way for that BFP next cycle. I will keep you in my prayers!

 

[jtyler612]

Thank you ladies!!! Yeah I definitely don't want to go back to that office! I believe you when you say they screwed up an they were still rude to you. It's ridiculous the way some medical professionals act especially with something like this. This has definitely been a roller coaster ride lol. Thank you for the support and encouragement!! You all have been sweet and helpful!!! Thank you!! Baby dust to all!!!

 

[punkn pie]

It can be so discouraging! Some offices act as though they are inconvenienced by our hope. WHen you've been trying so hard and so long, of COURSE you're going to be excited! So sorry to hear your discouragement. :fairydust:

 

[jtyler612]

Thank you!! I know! It's hard because our hopes were up and she said, "don't believe your tests" and that I'm reading them wrong. It's hard to deal with. But I am lucky to have you ladies to talk to!!! Thank you all!! This is a long journey but I know it'll be worth it!! Baby dust to all!!!

 

[hopefulfor1st]

I had a chemical last month- 4 days of positives and confirmed my doc on the first day then 2 days of negatives then bleeding. I'm now on cd19 and hoping what they say about being extra fertile the next month is true! Also ovulation can be earlier or later next cycle so cover all your bases!

 

[jtyler612]

Good luck and baby dust to you!!! I haven't started bleeding yet but bad pelvic pain and cramping and its only getting worse. I hope bleeding starts soon!

 

[hopefulfor1st]

Good luck and baby dust to you!!! I haven't started bleeding yet but bad pelvic pain and cramping and its only getting worse. I hope bleeding starts soon!

I was like that. My last faint pos (but still very noticeable, not at all a squinter) was on the Friday, didn't test Saturday, sun morning negatives on frer and digi, bleeding didn't start til 230pm Tuesday. I just wanted it to hurry up so I could start again!

 

[jtyler612]

Still no bleeding but bad pain and cramps. Hoping it starts soon! I have a lot of EWCM!! Very weird

 

[redlemonade]

How bad is the pain? I think I would check this out with my doctor if I were you.

 

[jtyler612]

Yeah, I was just thinking that. It's just my doctor is so insensitive and rude. I want to go to my specialist but I think it would be expenisive. But yeah I am definitely needing to have an exam because it hurts

 

[redlemonade]

Good luck with your doctor! I hope you feel better soon.

 

[jtyler612]

Thank you! Went and had more blood work taken. The RE wanted me to get more blood work a week after I got last one to just make sure. I feel like I am not allowed to grieve because it happened so early. Some people make me feel like it just happens and move on. I am trying to move on but it still hurts. Emotionally and physically