blood on hpt = positive? Hmmm

[lele316]

ok will do lol

 

[lele316]

ladies I am sorry for being a pain in the ass but I am starting to get worried..
My test this morning with a 7 hr hold (at 6 am)is lighter then last nights with only a 3 hr hold and have done 2 more frer's today at 12 and then just now at 3 and I know this one is only with a 3 hr hold but the one at 12 was lighter then the one at 6 am and this one I just did is lighter then the 12...should I be worried?? I will have a digi to do at 7 which seems to be when I get my darkest whether its a 3 hr hold or 6 but should I be worried???

 

[SeeingDouble]

Lele... definitely call your doctor, if only because the stress could harm you. Everything is probably just fine, but better safe than sorry. And don't worry about being a "pain", early pregnancy can be nerve-wracking!! FXed and many hugs, hon!!

 

[lele316]

so if you were me you would be worried too ..lol

 

[Jaycrew]

I would not worry -I think there is a true science to pee- all things considered. I have had stronger BFP's on 2 hr holds than on an all day hold to be honest. I notice the longer i hold my pee seems more diluted- the shorter I hold the darker- thats what i notice for myself - but hold atleast 2 hrs I wouldn't hold anymore than 4. I think the old pee in the bladder mixes with new pee -LOL if that makes sense-

 

[lele316]

honestly it makes perfect sense to me lol thats kinda what I was thinking was going on with me when I woke up and saw it so much lighter then last night lol damn nerves lmao...also I dont really have a doc yet only moved here last yr and didnt find one yet but my sis works in the hosp 5 mins from the house so she is asking around which one s people like from there

 

[Lovelylace]

Hunny, try again tonight around same time yesterday. My.fmu was almost always negative than during evening positive. I.don't think you should worry.

 

[Jaycrew]

Aww- dont worry- I worried with each of my pregnancies - Its completely normal! Your carrying a baby!!!!! I was so worried with my twin pregnancy - I had nasty bleeding at 6 wks along major painful cramping couldnt walk - Everything turned out fine though. WOrd of mouth is the best way to find a Dr - and also make sure that the Dr you choose will not make you feel like a "pain" everytime you call - my Dr wanted me to call him ANYTIME something didnt feel right - he was open and honest with me- took his time with me and is well respected in the medical community. I LOVE HIM. Love him he is an ANGEL!!! SO dont worry mama - ask all the questions you want this is an exciting time to be in- Next time i succeed in getting pregnant- it would be my 12th pregnancy but prayfully the 7th full term pregnancy - and I guarantee you- I will be online googling my ass off - buying what to expect when your expecting, baby name books, pregnancy for dummies etc LOL - IM GOING IN!!!!! LOL LOL I got u boo!!! LOL - dont worry!!!

 

[lele316]

thank you ladies i dont remember being this nervous with my first...but then again I was surprised with the positive did 4 more $ store tests and hats was it because they were dark lines when I went to the doc i was 6 weeks so its probably just the worry cause i know and am aware of every lil twinges or whatnot this time lol

 

[Lovelylace]

The more times you get pregnant and watch others suffer, being on the site and seeing stories cause you to be paranoid.


I feel you on what your saying. I don't know your history or how your doctor works. I am high risk will have scans twice a month always been that way. Also blood work a lot.


Maybe you can get bloods done and a repeat one in 48 hours to ease mind?


I get my scan tomorrow but I already was told we won't see anything but want to make sure nothing is in ovaries with my shoulder pains etc. I get another one at 6 weeks which is when we will probably see baby bear in my tummy.

I am calling her a girl I believe its a girl.

 

[lele316]

well my history is no miscarriages or chemicals or anything I have only been pregnant once before in my life (mydd) me and my ex husband suffered 4 yrs ttc with unexplained infertility did clomid, 3 IUI's, tests up the wazoo nothing was wrong we took a break from the specialist in Nov, he got me a doggie that christmas to give me something else to focus on (and to baby I think lol) that valentines day we unknowingly conceived on our own.
We have since divorced with my OH almost 2 yrs been ttc on our own (timed sex and watching calendar) for a lil over a yr this past cycle we decided to seriously work on it but without doctors cause I dont see how they help me I am regular ovulate and everything so why bother with all that stress.
Joined on here to find some home remedy type of things read up o Soy Isoflavones decided to give them a try along with Geritol tonic and Conceive Plus and using OPK's and bam pregnant first try.
LOL a big part of me is having a hard time wrapping around how a few vitamins and stuff is all it took?!? Seriously?? Lol I think that is a big part of why i keep testing and doubting it just seemed way to easy...almost like I am waiting for the shoe to drop you know?

 

[Lovelylace]

Well, sometimes our bodies need stuff we don't know about til later, that little ompf.

 

[lele316]

yeah i guess your right lol

 

[SeeingDouble]

so if you were me you would be worried too ..lol

It's not that I would worry (or that you should worry) I just think that because you've spent the last couple days worrying, it's best to just get some peace of mind. Can you go to the hospital for bloods, since you don't have a doctor? I totally think everything is fine, but seeing you stress yourself makes me really feel for what you're going through!! So, you have to do whatever will give you comfort, because a happy mommy is a healthy mommy.

 

[lele316]

well my sis will be home in about 2 hrs and she is bringing me a digi so I think I will take that i will take that and see before I go to er

 

[Jaycrew]

I agree-that oompf factor is like getting an "oil change" LOL - my Dr described it to me like that -he says also being pregnant actually is like an oil change too on the body it restarts everything -

I know sometimes too we need not to focus on it - when me and DH TTC last year--it was unsuccessful the first 2 mos- I mean - hit the nail on the head with the dates and all. but the 3rd cycle was in June - July and i was like its summer - im going to relax and cool out enjoy some beers and bbq's and just relax and not stress because each time i got my period he was disappointed thinking something was wrong - but to my surprise I got pregnant the month were not trying- i had to take a relaxed approach to it i guess - because everytime we were intimate it was like am i going to get pregnant?? It was too much for me - THen I mc in AUgust - and we havent been trying but not preventing and if it happens it happens. I just enjoy learning my body and talking to the ladies up here who are not shy about their bodies and not afraid to ask questions or voice concerns. I love it!!! So when we do ttc then I have a lot of practice in before hand

 

[Jaycrew]

so if you were me you would be worried too ..lol

It's not that I would worry (or that you should worry) I just think that because you've spent the last couple days worrying, it's best to just get some peace of mind. Can you go to the hospital for bloods, since you don't have a doctor? I totally think everything is fine, but seeing you stress yourself makes me really feel for what you're going through!! So, you have to do whatever will give you comfort, because a happy mommy is a healthy mommy.

I agree- I went and got bloods at the hospital before seeing my dr too- Ive done that a couple of times- when ive turned like 5 wks or so because by then they should hear the heart by ultrasound and give numbers - it gave me a piece of mind -

 

[Jaycrew]

LOVELY!!! WHATS UP WITH YOU??!!! HOW ARE YOU FEELING?? Im glad things are going a lot better for you! I'm so excited - I have you in my prayers girlie!!!! Im so exicted for you ladies -- im dancing inside!!!

 

[lele316]

they do all that on an er visit?? I figured they would just give me a pg test and just send me on my way

 

[Lovelylace]

Mine won't do any of that unless in pain not even a test I don't think anyways. But, if you say your pregnant and in pain they do a scan and pregnancy test.



I am fine just shoulder pain again and tooth ache. I have scan tomorrow.