Yeah, I don't know how you're doing it! I still can't imagine.
So, Mike's been contacting me all morning, telling me to leave, threatening me with CAS and all this other silly bullcrap, and that he's not going to get help, so I called CAS myself. I told them the situation, that he's depressed, suicidal, and it's escalating into anger and violence and they told me to call the women's shelter, so I did. I set up an appointment for myself for counselling, and they said they can help him too by setting him up with counselling. I sent him the number and since he knows I'm not taking the crap anymore and now he knows there's no bluff, he's suddenly willing to do counselling. I just wish I didn't have to jump so many hurdles to get him to do it. I told him I'll still give him a divorce, but there's no way in hell I'm giving him the kids until he can prove that he's making an effort to get some help. I just hope he's on the phone now setting up an appointment for himself. I told him to message me back when he has, let me know the date and time so I can take him, and then and only then, will I allow him around the kids.
I know he loves them, but I can't let him keep spiralling downward like this, not in front of the kids. I can't let him hurt the kids.