It's funny isn't it, how it isn't always the 'opposite' gender that people desire as people expect.
So when will you know Wish..? I seem to remember you and I were due the same day(or almost) and then you got put forward a bit, so you must be 18-ish weeks now...?!
Yes I don't tend to throw it out there that I'm a Midwife really, because then I loose my license to ask stupid questions, haha! All logical midwifery sense goes out the window when you're pregnant yourself (me worrying about movements even though I have an anterior placenta is just one example!).
I'd actually love to train in Ultrasound though CMC - I've been looking at medical ultrasound courses (including obstetrics) but they're so expensive (around £3,000)
I think what I might do is put the feelers out when I go back to work next week... ask colleagues if they know how I can go about it, without doing it through my own midwife.
I'll still have to see her after I've had the baby though as she'll be my postnatal midwife, so it could still potentially be pretty awkward..!