Thx Ginny. I don't feel brave at all believe me. Your second loss was much later, I don't know how I would cope in that situation. Any loss is difficult of course, but I'm sure you've been really brave too and did what you had to do to cope. We all have different coping mechanisms. *hugs*
It's weird in a way that the tragedies of life have brought us all together in here. Some of us have their rainbow, some veeeeery soon, some a bit later.
I'm having a look at holiday lodges atm, just need to convince hubby ;-)