my appointment today was beyond terrible. they could not get the bloods. They went in through all the bruised places. and one of the nurses was extremely rude to me. when she couldn't get it at the first bruised point she went into the second one which was even more bruised and I told her oh is there any other entry point because that really hurts. and she said no there is no other entry point. And I said well it really hurts me a lot if you go in through this site it's so bruised. Then she belittled my pain and said oh come on does it really hurt that bad? she was shockingly insensitive and that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. I mean I am completely bruised up all yellow and blue from her repeated failure to get to my veins. and then adding to that that they didn't change the room The other day and I literally sat on someone else's blood! For me it's just shocking that she isn't super nice trying to make up for the fact of all the blatant errors. no instead she was rude! I told her you all need to be understanding that this is difficult for me and then she told me that I was difficult and that I don't know about her or what she has to go through. in my head I was like what is going on here?!? whatever she was referring to is irrelevant to the nurse patient relationship. I was just shocked that she told me that. she then said very aggressively well what do you want me to do. you keep saying it hurts. and I said I want to talk to the doctor. I was sick of staying
silent and not saying anything.
But instead of the doctor coming in, the embryologist came in and she was a super nice lady and was completely understanding and sympathetic and she tried to get the bloods going through a different area. She went in through the veins on my hand but she couldn't get them either but I was OK with that because she was so nice and understanding. I really liked her. I felt actually supported.
then the doctor came in and I was crying because I was just in pain from when the mean nurse was with me and also just because of how rude she had been and I decided to tell the doctor about how the room had not been changed and she seemed really surprised and apologized but I did not tell her how rude that nurse was and I regret it. So I am going to call back tomorrow to let her know because I don't Think it's right for that to go unsaid. I cried all afternoon and for an hour straight when I got home from work. and now tomorrow morning I'm going to have to go to a lab to see if they can get the blood out of me. So I was unable to get any blood work done today. now going to another clinic is going to be really time-consuming. Fortunately I can go early in the morning before work but I'm just going to be really tired. this is so stressful for me. I am in pain, I'm tired, I've been treated rudely. I mean this is really getting to be too much for me. I had no idea that trying to conceive would involve this much pain with the blood draws. all the bruises. I can still hardly lift my arm it's so badly bruised.