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[PeaceLoveBaby]

I am 26 and DH is 27. lol...Been married for 3.5 years.

I think is problem is actually a chemical/libido thing. He is VERY loving and affectionate..but when it comes to BD'ing, he just doesn't have it in him. I love him to bits, just need to fix that lil imbalance He deals with a lot of stress daily, so it's not too surprising.

Not complaining too much though..I am his world and he still lets me know that.

 

[shaerichelle]

BD everyday? I don't think I could do that either! And I *KNOW* DH couldn't lol, he has a hard enough time keeping up with me

We've been BDing every day since we decided to ttc (every day that I'm not bleeding, that is), but neither of us likes it much.
We're typically more of a "once a week" type of couple.

BDing has come to consist of OH masturbating until he's almost ready, and then finishing in me.
Which makes it a lot easier on both of us.
It's distasteful, but I'm not fooling around: I was to be pregnant within the next few months. I intend to be.
At my age, I don't feel like I have a lot of time.
This is necessary right now to accomplish our goal, and that's how we're looking at it.
Time enough to worry about our sex life later; right now, the name of the game is "procreation", baby!

You are a funny gal. How long have you been trying again? Do you feel any symptoms even though those tests did that.

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Brandy I see you are ttc#2? Me too.

Yes

I have a 10 yr old daughter from a previous relationship. This will be his first baby!

 

[shaerichelle]

I am 26 and DH is 27. lol...Been married for 3.5 years.

I think is problem is actually a chemical/libido thing. He is VERY loving and affectionate..but when it comes to BD'ing, he just doesn't have it in him. I love him to bits, just need to fix that lil imbalance He deals with a lot of stress daily, so it's not too surprising.

Not complaining too much though..I am his world and he still lets me know that.

Aww my hubby is the same way. Have you tried vitamins for him?
Stress can kill the libido.

When I was married to my ex ..well we had so little sex I wonder how I got pregnant.. he just didnt care too.

 

[meeshey]

im think we're (i'm!) going to try for every other day next month and see where that gets us... also want to start charting... how exciting! i like the idea of doing something every day... this sitting and symptom spotting just gets you excited for nothing and i think puts symptoms in your brain when you dont actually have them! i told my hub and he said " you're just feeling things you've read about... let mother nature take her course and relax" ... i think he's on to me!...lol!

 

[shaerichelle]

Brandy I see you are ttc#2? Me too.

Yes

I have a 10 yr old daughter from a previous relationship. This will be his first baby!

Aww. This will be my hubbies 3rd. his daughters are 10 &12 from his previous marriage(hes in trouble they are beautiful) and my son is 7 from my previous marriage. They first met let april and started in as siblings that were so perfect for each other

 

[shaerichelle]

im think we're (i'm!) going to try for every other day next month and see where that gets us... also want to start charting... how exciting! i like the idea of doing something every day... this sitting and symptom spotting just gets you excited for nothing and i think puts symptoms in your brain when you dont actually have them! i told my hub and he said " you're just feeling things you've read about... let mother nature take her course and relax" ... i think he's on to me!...lol!

my hubby said that until he saw the leakage on my shirt
Temping is a great way to get to know your body.

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

I am 26 and DH is 27. lol...Been married for 3.5 years.

I think is problem is actually a chemical/libido thing. He is VERY loving and affectionate..but when it comes to BD'ing, he just doesn't have it in him. I love him to bits, just need to fix that lil imbalance He deals with a lot of stress daily, so it's not too surprising.

Not complaining too much though..I am his world and he still lets me know that.

Aww my hubby is the same way. Have you tried vitamins for him?
Stress can kill the libido.

When I was married to my ex ..well we had so little sex I wonder how I got pregnant.. he just didnt care too.

We have just started him on vitamins. Stress is the killer for sure..but hard to avoid that. I'm really trying to just be relaxed and remind him that he's my Wonderwall Of course, I get crazy obsessed with TTC but try not to pressure him at all about it. Ah this lovely baby making game that we ladies have to deal with!

 

[meeshey]

i keep pulling up my shirt in the bedroom going..."they're bigger aren't they?"

 

[grrlmom]

You are a funny gal. How long have you been trying again? Do you feel any symptoms even though those tests did that.

Best I remember, we decided to start trying on Dec 11th. It was a Friday.
And we started that very day.
So... a cycle and a half, now?

I don't know about symptoms. My spotting has tapered off again to nothing... usually by this time it would've picked up and gone into full AF mode by now.
My boobs seem swollen, which is unusual, because I'm generally a pretty small-boobed person, so this is quite noticeable. But they're not sore anymore.

I don't know. *sigh*

We shall just have to wait a few more days and see.
OH is taking me to a movie tonight, to get my mind off this!

 

[shaerichelle]

You are a funny gal. How long have you been trying again? Do you feel any symptoms even though those tests did that.

Best I remember, we decided to start trying on Dec 11th. It was a Friday.
And we started that very day.
So... a cycle and a half, now?

I don't know about symptoms. My spotting has tapered off again to nothing... usually by this time it would've picked up and gone into full AF mode by now.
My boobs seem swollen, which is unusual, because I'm generally a pretty small-boobed person, so this is quite noticeable. But they're not sore anymore.

I don't know. *sigh*

We shall just have to wait a few more days and see.
OH is taking me to a movie tonight, to get my mind off this!

Mine were too they are going down. My nipples still hurt. Sometimes you spot around your period. Do you know for sure when you Oed.

I wish my hubby was here to take me somewhere. I am going crazy.

 

[shaerichelle]

i keep pulling up my shirt in the bedroom going..."they're bigger aren't they?"

lol I am sure he likes getting flashed!

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Oh my goodness..I wish I could get into the chatroom, itd be cool to chat realtime with all of you lovely ladies. Have to be a member for a month though. Rawr

 

[grrlmom]

You are a funny gal. How long have you been trying again? Do you feel any symptoms even though those tests did that.

Best I remember, we decided to start trying on Dec 11th. It was a Friday.
And we started that very day.
So... a cycle and a half, now?

I don't know about symptoms. My spotting has tapered off again to nothing... usually by this time it would've picked up and gone into full AF mode by now.
My boobs seem swollen, which is unusual, because I'm generally a pretty small-boobed person, so this is quite noticeable. But they're not sore anymore.

I don't know. *sigh*

We shall just have to wait a few more days and see.
OH is taking me to a movie tonight, to get my mind off this!

Mine were too they are going down. My nipples still hurt. Sometimes you spot around your period. Do you know for sure when you Oed.

I wish my hubby was here to take me somewhere. I am going crazy.

No. I don't know for sure that I did. I don't temp or any of that.
I hope I did.
I don't see any evidence that I didn't. But who knows?

 

[shaerichelle]

We have just started him on vitamins. Stress is the killer for sure..but hard to avoid that. I'm really trying to just be relaxed and remind him that he's my Wonderwall Of course, I get crazy obsessed with TTC but try not to pressure him at all about it. Ah this lovely baby making game that we ladies have to deal with!

Maybe they will help. I heard GNC has some good ones with horny goat weed in it its supposed to be something like viagra/

Its is awesome. I call it the rollercoaster ride. With my son tried once and knew i was pregnant within 3 weeks. I felt I was though...

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Hmm.changed my Ov date manually on FF..only cuz I'm pretty sure I miscalculated bigtime. It's still prob not accurate, so I'm not taking it as fact either way. Just waiting for AF!

 

[shaerichelle]

Oh my goodness..I wish I could get into the chatroom, itd be cool to chat realtime with all of you lovely ladies. Have to be a member for a month though. Rawr

Or I thought 100 posts. have you tried?

 

[shaerichelle]

Hmm.changed my Ov date manually on FF..only cuz I'm pretty sure I miscalculated bigtime. It's still prob not accurate, so I'm not taking it as fact either way. Just waiting for AF!

Dips are good I guess during o as long as they stay above the coverline.

 

[meeshey]

you ladies can't leave me here when you go to the chatrooms!! i only joined a couple of days ago!!! eek!!
grrlmom: i agree , im not temping but think i felt myself ovulate.. sharp twinge in ovary area... then about 3 days after that, i decided to pee on an ovulation stick, just to see what would happen... it was negative... lol!!!

 

[meeshey]

i think its 1 month membership and 100+ posts...