Crazy March Tester's Seeking A Christmas Baby!

[c beary83]

Good luck for tomorrow cnswilliams!

 

[Hoping girl 2]

Good luck, cnswilliams!!! Hoping for good news!!!!

 

[Hoping girl 2]

Wag sorry I didn't answer before, had to wait til this morning to check

I take one tablet of 75mg of q-10 a day and one of 500mg maca root tablets a day

Don't know much about supplements but this I what I found on the net to take, as well as following the packaging instructions

 

[SilasLove]

Well, 3dpo here. Its going by kind of fast...but now I've probably jinxed myself.

I'm at work, and I'm over it already. Still have 5 hours left.

I was crampy yesterday, but I think it was mostly gas. (What else would it be?) & my bb's are sore but its too early for any symptoms so its all coincidence.

 

[cnswilliams]

Bfn :'(

 

[xxmyheartxx]

Bfn :'(

 

[Mom2sam]

Ladybumpkin that's a definite bfp congrats hun

11dpo & bfn for me tosay ladies af is due on 13dpo & i'm surw she'l be here on time.

I too cant help but think did the d&c damage me. Tried for few cycles last year & no success then went on a break as i had sirgery sheduled then started ttc again this Jan doing opks, started temping this cycle, using preseed had loads of sex lol & still no success. It's starting to worry me too. My mc was in Nov 2013 & ds is 8 now & the gaps just getting bigger & bigger.

I'm also going to turn 37 this June & keep worrying about the age thing too. Conceived ds with clomid after trying for years only problem they found was low ovulation levels. Anyway when decided to tey for second (big gap because i suffer from hyperemesis in pregnancy) anyway went off bc pill & conceived straight away. I just dont understand why it's taking so long again.

Anyway my plan is to try the soya isoflavones (natures clomid) cd3-7 next cycle & hoping it works alot of women have had success with it.

If i still haven't conceived in another 3 cycles going to go to docs & see what's wrong. After the age of 35 they say if you've actively been trying for 6 months with no success you can go get help. I dont know if they will do tests etc on nhs as i already have a child that i got help with & did conceive after that too.

Ugh sorry for long post just feeling sorry for myself & getting worried now why it isn't happening

 

[Mom2sam]

Sorry about all my typing errors

 

[wantingagirl]

Sorry for bfn cnswilliams

Silas good luck this cycle!

Mom2sam I'm exactly the same the worrying sucks I might give it the 6 cycles then ask consultant for a scan to double check I'm sure it's ok tho and every pregnancy is different!

 

[Hoping girl 2]

Csnwilliams, I'm so sorry for your bfn, they suck!!!! Join us in the April thread and let's see if we get lucky then!!!

 

[wantingagirl]

Wag sorry I didn't answer before, had to wait til this morning to check

I take one tablet of 75mg of q-10 a day and one of 500mg maca root tablets a day

Don't know much about supplements but this I what I found on the net to take, as well as following the packaging instructions

Hun I was looking online and from my friend that just took,supplements and her friend that was told by a fertility specialist and this is what I found.

1. Bcomplex at the normal tub dosage

2. For Co Enzyme Q-10 for it to benefit needs to be 600mg

3. Royal Jelly me and hubby are going to take 1000mg each

4. Maca Root capsule vegetable 100% organic I'm going to take 3000mg he will take 1500mg/2000mg

5. I also take a vitamin d 25ug supplement incase I'm deficient not enough in my prenatal

6. He takes wellman conception I take pregnacare conception

Royal jelly I will only take to ovulation as your suppose,to take a break if on it a month at a time and start again when af arrives and the rest you stay on til pregnant

Phew

 

[Hoping girl 2]

Mom2sam, I get where you're coming from. I've made an appt with my gp for a week on Tuesday as this was my 6th cycles once my first mc. But not sure they'll help me because I did get pregnant in January so I don't know if they'll say that resets the counter.

Tried looking at going private but Bupa won't cover it and paying for it is extortionate. Feeling a bit desperate, actually thinking of going back home for a month and get all my tests done there, which is crazy.

Don't know why there are so many problems with d&c here. Back home there is pretty much no other option, you mc you get a d&c and no one has issues later (I researched it after mine). Also, if you start bleeding in pregnancy they don't say there's nothing they can do, they keep you in bed rest in hospital for a few days and they manage to save the babies somehow. (My friend lost one and then her second one was a threatened mc with heavy bleeding and they stopped it from happening, now my other friend was going through the same and she's now almost 12 weeks with a Healthy baby). One of the few things I miss from home, private medicine there is affordable and excellent

Feel so discouraged today. Need to find a way to snap out of it. In the plus side, AF still has not shown yet so at least my LP hasn't shortened... Though I conceived my son with a 10-11 LP in three cycles and had no problem, so would gladly go back to that if it meant having my baby!

 

[emma4g63]

mom2sam i know how worrying it can be after a d and c as i have had two chemicals since and i was too certain it had damaged me!!

i hoping this one is a sticky one but whos know.. only time will tell!
def get to the gp and see what they say.... sometimes the worrying from it all stops us concieving though!! can just be that simple... thats what happened with my DD i had just give up and bam lol!!!
fx for next cycle

sorry for your bfn cnsmwiilams .... fingers crossed for you!!

WAG how are you doing hun? i know youve been busy working.. me too .. trying catch up !!

hoping girl 2 ... really hoped this was your cycles too hunny!! its soo easy to fall in to a slight or full on depression after losses and TTC.. i was there not long ago.. i was having full on panick atticks and really wasnt helping me
keep taking the positive from each cycle.. and def keep looking on the plus sides
all our times for our rainbows will come XXXX

 

[Hoping girl 2]

Wag sorry I didn't answer before, had to wait til this morning to check

I take one tablet of 75mg of q-10 a day and one of 500mg maca root tablets a day

Don't know much about supplements but this I what I found on the net to take, as well as following the packaging instructions

Hun I was looking online and from my friend that just took,supplements and her friend that was told by a fertility specialist and this is what I found.

1. Bcomplex at the normal tub dosage

2. For Co Enzyme Q-10 for it to benefit needs to be 600mg

3. Royal Jelly me and hubby are going to take 1000mg each

4. Maca Root capsule vegetable 100% organic I'm going to take 3000mg he will take 1500mg/2000mg

5. I also take a vitamin d 25ug supplement incase I'm deficient not enough in my prenatal

6. He takes wellman conception I take pregnacare conception

Royal jelly I will only take to ovulation as your suppose,to take a break if on it a month at a time and start again when af arrives and the rest you stay on til pregnant

Phew

Oh my god!! 600mg of q-10 a day??? That's like 8 tablets!!!! My bottle only brings 30 lol, it would last me less than four days!!! Bottle also says one to two a day so not sure I'll be taking 8... I did have a look on the net and youre right, lots of places mention 600mg but I can't afford to buy that many tablets lol. And it's also meant to be in food so I'm hoping I can get some that way otherwise I'm going to have to do without!

Same with maca, less expensive but 3000mg daily is just so many tablets!!! I might have to wait a few more cycles before I up my doses so much...

Hope they do the trick for you though!!!!!!! And thanks for sharing your info

 

[wantingagirl]

Wag sorry I didn't answer before, had to wait til this morning to check

I take one tablet of 75mg of q-10 a day and one of 500mg maca root tablets a day

Don't know much about supplements but this I what I found on the net to take, as well as following the packaging instructions

Hun I was looking online and from my friend that just took,supplements and her friend that was told by a fertility specialist and this is what I found.

1. Bcomplex at the normal tub dosage

2. For Co Enzyme Q-10 for it to benefit needs to be 600mg

3. Royal Jelly me and hubby are going to take 1000mg each

4. Maca Root capsule vegetable 100% organic I'm going to take 3000mg he will take 1500mg/2000mg

5. I also take a vitamin d 25ug supplement incase I'm deficient not enough in my prenatal

6. He takes wellman conception I take pregnacare conception

Royal jelly I will only take to ovulation as your suppose,to take a break if on it a month at a time and start again when af arrives and the rest you stay on til pregnant

Phew

Oh my god!! 600mg of q-10 a day??? That's like 8 tablets!!!! My bottle only brings 30 lol, it would last me less than four days!!! Bottle also says one to two a day so not sure I'll be taking 8... I did have a look on the net and youre right, lots of places mention 600mg but I can't afford to buy that many tablets lol. And it's also meant to be in food so I'm hoping I can get some that way otherwise I'm going to have to do without!

Same with maca, less expensive but 3000mg daily is just so many tablets!!! I might have to wait a few more cycles before I up my doses so much...

Hope they do the trick for you though!!!!!!! And thanks for sharing your info

I'll share more tomorrow hun but I found decent prices on amazon when you run out buy the higher dose so less tablets that's what I'm doing I will post you links tomorrow xx

 

[cnswilliams]

So, lots of early bfp's but I haven't kept track of "when" those bfp's were. Anyone get a bfn on 10 dpo but later got a bfp or if bfn at 10 dpo then more than likely not Prego?

 

[Hoping girl 2]

So, lots of early bfp's but I haven't kept track of "when" those bfp's were. Anyone get a bfn on 10 dpo but later got a bfp or if bfn at 10 dpo then more than likely not Prego?

I think bfn at 10dpo and later a bfp is quite common. It becomes less so at 11-13 dpo though, but there are always the women who get late bfps. I know someone who never got a bfp before 15dpo so my logic is, don't lose hope until AF shows!

 

[cnswilliams]

So, lots of early bfp's but I haven't kept track of "when" those bfp's were. Anyone get a bfn on 10 dpo but later got a bfp or if bfn at 10 dpo then more than likely not Prego?

I think bfn at 10dpo and later a bfp is quite common. It becomes less so at 11-13 dpo though, but there are always the women who get late bfps. I know someone who never got a bfp before 15dpo so my logic is, don't lose hope until AF shows!

Thank you. I am trying to decide if I should test again or not. Part of me wants to test because I have been so depressed and a positive would flip that but at the same time I don't think I can handle any more negative tests. The TWW is cruel! If we could just know right away one way or the other we could make peace and move on but hoping for 2 weeks and then constantly finding out your are not pregnant is just so hard to handle

 

[Hoping girl 2]

So, lots of early bfp's but I haven't kept track of "when" those bfp's were. Anyone get a bfn on 10 dpo but later got a bfp or if bfn at 10 dpo then more than likely not Prego?

I think bfn at 10dpo and later a bfp is quite common. It becomes less so at 11-13 dpo though, but there are always the women who get late bfps. I know someone who never got a bfp before 15dpo so my logic is, don't lose hope until AF shows!

Thank you. I am trying to decide if I should test again or not. Part of me wants to test because I have been so depressed and a positive would flip that but at the same time I don't think I can handle any more negative tests. The TWW is cruel! If we could just know right away one way or the other we could make peace and move on but hoping for 2 weeks and then constantly finding out your are not pregnant is just so hard to handle

I'm so sorry you're having a hard time. I agree, the 2ww is the worst. I know for a fact in not pregnant and I'm still not able to sleep for more than two hours a night because I just can't shut my brain down Happens to me at the end of every cycle, my mind racing half the time trying to clutch at any straws hoping I'm pregnant when I know I'm not, the other half just overwhelmed with sadness at another failed attempt.

I know what you mean about being devastated at another bfn, but if it was me, I'd have to test. If i didn't, id spend all day wondering whether it would've been a bfp and it would just torture me. At least with every bfn I get incredibly sad, but more prepared for the arrival of the witch... But that's just me

Just know we're here for you whatever you decide to do, and we'll cheer you if it's a bfp and understand more than anyone else how you're feeling if it's a bfn...

Good luck!!!!

 

[InVivoVeritas]

I had a bfn at 11dpo and got my bfp this morning at 13dpo -- on a digi, so there's no doubt. You're not out until shows up.

Saying that, I deliberately didn't test until later this cycle because I don't like what seeing a bfn does to my mind.

It's up to you what works best for you, but whatever you decide be good to yourself.