Cycle Day One. Wait with me?

[mimdan]

I dont know, all these signs of AF STAY AWAY this ttc business is mentally torturing isnt it, talk about limbo land ! Lol I suppose it wouldnt be as bad if our symptoms didnt feel just like AF, but until the witch shows we are still both in with a chance, I just hope I dont wake up tomorrow and shes here !

Well I've not had anymore of that heavy crampy feeling I had yesterday which I'm glad about, cm is pretty dry..I've had a long sleep today so dont know about any other symptoms lol..yea too early too test MOST of the stories I read on this site I was on last night they didnt get bfp untill 11dpo but I'm defo testing in morning

 

[mimdan]

And I like your cake idea thats very sweet, maybe I should think of something more creative than just shouting TA DA !!!

keeping everything crossed for you hun !!

 

[ToughhGal]

Yes and so draining! I still have about six days till AF shows up. And keep having AF cramps around uterus area as well as vaginal area. I looked on my past threads I chatted on and my uterus cramping from last cycle didnt start till two days before AF. So I fear this will be a very painful AF for me. I just wish they would come full on with a "your not pregnant pain message" instead of light.

I'm glad your cramps have subsided and hopefully they stay that way. And I'm so excited for you!! This day needs to hurry. And I like your "ta da" approach. If I was you I would even say that when I showed it to him. And long sleep huh? Hmm..

 

[mimdan]

Yes it would be much easier to have a definate symptom either way lol..so these cramps have started really early for you ? I think that could still turn out to be a good thing you know

are you not even tempted to test lol I am but my OH is downstairs and its quiet here as my daughters are with their dad for a while (hence the reason I had a sleep, sleep is defo not a pregnancy sign for me lol) so yea, I dont want him to know what I'm up to I'm still holding my urine though just incase an opportunity arises

so do you have any baby names ready yet ? Or like me have you not planned that far ahead

 

[ToughhGal]

Yes I officially had a stabbing pain "down there" and I'm officially feeling out! So most likely the specialist is in my agenda.

Well it's good you are catching up on some sleep! I may need to get tips from you IF I end up having children. And I probably won't tell mine I tested either unless it forms into a BFP of course. Trying to be sneaky about this is always funny!

And I have a few names picked out but nothing really set and firm. I have a terrible time making decisions. And you haven't picked out at least a couple to choose from?

 

[mimdan]

Even if the specialist is on the agenda for you it could be just that little push you need to get that bfp ...it will happen, I know it !

I just read back through this post, this backache of mine started at 5dpo as I mentioned it was slight ! Now 9dpo its worse and its getting annoying, I'm getting to that stage now where if af is comming then just come !!

no haven't thought of any names as I thought it would be nice for OH to choose as his ex choose his daughters name and I choose my daughters name so its only fair

 

[mimdan]

I saw a window of opportunity and took it lol....bfn..I dont think this is our month as if i was pregnant enough to get backache like this then I should be pregnant enough to see a faint line at least, I'll try again tomorrow morning as will be 10dpo if nothing then I'm out

 

[ToughhGal]

I hope so. I guess I will just let whatever is supposed to happen, happen. And pray. That's all we can do sometimes. And that must be a killer back ache! Have you a shed OH for a nice rub down? Haha. I had to laugh at myself.

And that's very sweet of you. And usually men have all the perfect boy names if you end up having a boy like the readers told you. It's very fascinating hearing men's choices of baby names.

I wish I wouldn't have such bad gas pains. They are a downer of my day! I need to find out IF there is something for bad gas before AF.

 

[mimdan]

Well as they say (as annoying as it can be) what will be will be, our job is to try and be happy and keep positive ...who am I kidding ?? WHERES THESE DAMN BFPS !!

Lol Yea I have thought about a nice rub down although maybe a nice hot soak will do the trick or maybe AF getting her a** here already will help !! Lol

well google if you will but gas is a sign of pg ! Lots of women mention gas lol lovely !

 

[ToughhGal]

I'm feeling out right along with you. AF does need to get here. The annoyance of vaginal cramping everytime I get up is driving me insane! I get it I'm not pregnant! Lol. I may test tomorrow too. So I can go ahead and determine my future. And a soak may be good as well! I heard it helps start AF and I think it does work. I tried once when I was 6 days late. Woke up the next morning and wal lah! I just don't think gas would be a symptom for me as I get it after every ovulation. Which is a pain! I wish it was that easy for me but I get too many dang symptoms of AF!

 

[mimdan]

your post made me laugh ! "I get it I'm not pregnant " lol well atleast we can go on to the next tww together ! I hope we are around the same time again too !

We're in the same boat hun as far as symptoms goes, I think the cycle I'm heading for bfp I'll probably be one of those that gets no symptoms so from now on the slightest ache, cramp or twitch I'm counting myself out lol

 

[ToughhGal]

I know. At least hopefully we will be in this together. If we end up with two different results ill be terribly lonely. You are my greatest company right now! So we both are most likely testing tomorrow so we can only dream tonight.

Me too. And never using CM as an indicator again either. Maybe I should just stop symptom spotting but my mind won't let me!

Before my period I get sore breasts right after O, cravings, bloated, mods swings, gassy, cramps of course, acne, and sometimes I get constipated! Tmi. Lol

 

[ToughhGal]

So I may be over thinking things but I read vaginal pain around time of AF is a sign of endometriosis. Which causes infertility in 30-50% of women. This is just wonderful. Drug addicts and child abusers and even child predators can have children but I can't. Just wonderful......

 

[mimdan]

You wont be lonely because bfp or not I'm not going anywhere ! We can suppport each other until WE'RE both moaning about being pregnant lol like I said your the only one I've managed to stay in contact with on here so your my biggest comfort too, cant talk to OH about this obsessive ttc stuff lol

never tmi lol ok so I get : backache lol (suprise suprise)... sometimes cramps in uterus a day before Af, boobs hurt as in ache around the sides or tender to push on lol and emotional, I normally feel down in myself for no good reason a few days before then realize it must be AF..as for cm I'd say I'm normally drier than I have been but yep I agree cm is not reliable (unless a bfp does show, then I might change my mind)

 

[ToughhGal]

Oh I know. I told OH about this site and he just looked at me all crazy. He said "that's what I should do. Talk to a bunch of men about pregnancy". Men I swear. Lol. And yes! If you become pregnant again you have to share your symptoms while I'm still waiting around. Even though in a message above I said I think I really am infertile. I'm such a worry bee. But I know it could be a great possibility.

We both have a lot of symptoms of AF. Not cool and not fair! But at least we can easily determine if we hit the eggy each cycle.

 

[mimdan]

Just had more stretchy ewcm just now...what is going on

 

[ToughhGal]

Bun in the oven! haha. I'm getting some high hopes for you!

 

[mimdan]

Lol I'll be back on later hun, going to watch a film with OH, spose I better peel myself away from this site once this week

 

[ToughhGal]

Okay, talk to you soon!

 

[mimdan]

Hun, why dont you make an appointment with the doctor to discuss your concerns, maybe he can put your mind at rest of help with trying to conceive before going to a specialist

Of course if I become pregnant I'll stick around, I hope you do to

yea the ewcm is strange..maybe a new symptom of AF if so atleast if I see it in other cycles I know I can dismiss it rather than hoping its a sign lol had more cramping in uterus a while ago gone for the minute though..if I'm not pg this is one mad cycle for symptoms thats for sure lol