Well, actually, I haven't done an official announcement on here yet, but here goes: just found out we are pregnant naturally, 14 months after DH's surgery...I was waiting on my period to call in to start procedures for IVF#2 in January, when, low and behold, AF never showed! Our last sperm count was at our failed IVF in October and it was 400,000 motile.
Looking back, I am SUPER happy we got the surgery, because even though Dh's sperm count is super low, he never had to have TESE's for our IVF cycle - he can provide a fresh sample - just need one, right? (I, too, was trying to avoid IVF at all costs - just ended up getting really impatient, losing hope and decided to do IVF anyways.)
And obviously now that we ended up with a natural pregnancy, I'm a bit biased and think a repair surgery is WELL worth it - I do caution though it takes TIME to get the surgery booked, time to see if successful, many many tries to get as LUCKY as we just did. So, I think in the end, it was great for us, but it may not be great for everyone. And you really don't know until you choose a path. I'm rambling but it's really not cut and dry with the path we decided to take.