Well, I just returned from my ultrasound appointment and again, there was absolutely nothing there not even a sac. She said that she did not see anything around my ovaries, my tubes, nor fluid which could signal a possible ectopic. Based on these two ultrasounds and my extremely slow rising hcg levels, the doctor has pretty much concluded that it was an anembryonic pregnancy. They took more blood today and expect/hope that the numbers will go back down quickly. If they go back up (which I seriously hope does not happen) then it may be an ectopic that is being missed, but honestly, my blood levels never really got that high. I had pretty much prepared myself for this but in my mind it was going to be so much worst.
She said that they would call tomorrow with the results of this blood test and they should be dropping. I should also expect a fairly normal, maybe slightly heavier than normal, period with a few blood clots, but not a lot of cramping or large amounts of tissue to pass. This really made me feel so much better because the unknown was terrifying to me. I had never experienced an early loss before and although Zoi's delivery at 21 weeks was horrific, I did have hospital staff, family and friends holding my hand every step of the way. This time I felt completely on my own so I'm relieved to know that it should be a fairly straight forward process.
What I am thankful for....
I am thankful that I was able to get pregnant again so quickly after losing baby Zoi.
I am thankful that I spotted last Tuesday which began the series of tests and ultrasound into motion. If it had not happened I would have shown up today for my very first ultrasound fully expecting to see a little bean baby with a strong beating heart and I would have been devastated!
I am thankful that through these tests it was discovered that my pregesterone level was low and a plan has been set into place to retest again, non-pregnant, and develop a plan going forth.
I am thankful for all of you lovely ladies who were here to support me through this experience.
I am so thankful to God for answering my prayer to accept this news with grace, dignity and to not feel bitterness.
Best wishes to the rest of you ladies. I sincerely wish you all a happy and healthy 9 months and an easy delivery!
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