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[TheTiebreaker]

Amber I am so very sorry. I know there is nothing I can say that will make your pain any less. But just know, God has the perfect child in mind for your family and he has perfect timing. I know it doesn't make this loss any easier. When I had my miscarriage I was devastated, but I am so thankful for my son that I got pregnant with after that. If I hadn't of lost the first, I wouldn't have him now. I know it's a weird way of thinking about it, but it helped me cope. I am praying for you.

 

[AmberDaisyDoo]

I appreciate you took the time to say something its hard to get emotions across on here. Yes I feel that way about my daughter I miscarried just before her, I understand, thanks. I just feel like if it wasn't for those awful temps and illness it would have been fine. It's sad.

 

[TheTiebreaker]

It is so sad. I am so sorry. I will continue to pray for you.

 

[Disneymom1129]

Thanks Disney mom yes they said the sack is empty is this a blighted ovum then? xx

By definition "An anembryonic gestation (also known as a blighted ovum) is a pregnancy in which the very early pregnancy appears normal on an ultrasound scan, but as the pregnancy progresses a visible embryo never develops or develops and is reabsorbed.[1] In a normal pregnancy, an embryo would be visible on an ultrasound by six weeks after the woman's last menstrual period."

I've also read that a blighted ovum only happens once in a women's life, since it has to do with the quality of the egg that was released. So that's a little reassuring.

Hang in there

 

[5starsplus1]

Praying Amber that God gives you peace about this

 

[.hopeful.one.]

So my new strategy of not tracking bbt to keep the stress away has been unsuccessful. I wouldn't say I'm stressed per se but I'm DEFINITELY getting antsy to test and it's still a week away! Plus who knows which day was O day... I'm guessing based on secondary signs it was CD 14 but it would be nice to know for sure. I won't make that mistake again

I know we have some tests coming up! I can't wait to see how they go. Hoping for a lot of s this month.

Anything new with the preggers?

 

[Pato]

It's happening. Doctor has given me permission to stay home and monitor myself because that's what I want.

There are no words

 

[Pato]

I appreciate you took the time to say something its hard to get emotions across on here. Yes I feel that way about my daughter I miscarried just before her, I understand, thanks. I just feel like if it wasn't for those awful temps and illness it would have been fine. It's sad.

As odd as it may seem perhaps the Temps and illness was your body's way of saying something was wrong....
before our daughter died a few months before she had some seriously high Temps that we couldn't control for two weeks. I couldn't understand how a perfectly healthy child who was never sick could so suddenly have such uncontrollable fevers for so long, for no reason. Then the fevers broke and we were relieved, then the nightmare began. I can't help but wonder if the fevers weren't her body's way of trying to fight or signal something is seriously wrong. Perhaps your Temps was a signal to tell you something is wrong with the ovum and your body tried to correct it. idk...I read that our bodies somehow disallow certain pregnancies if there's something wrong with the development, it sure doesn't make it any easier to lose the pregnancy but God knows best. The next one will be perfect

 

[Disneymom1129]

I appreciate you took the time to say something its hard to get emotions across on here. Yes I feel that way about my daughter I miscarried just before her, I understand, thanks. I just feel like if it wasn't for those awful temps and illness it would have been fine. It's sad.

As odd as it may seem perhaps the Temps and illness was your body's way of saying something was wrong....
before our daughter died a few months before she had some seriously high Temps that we couldn't control for two weeks. I couldn't understand how a perfectly healthy child who was never sick could so suddenly have such uncontrollable fevers for so long, for no reason. Then the fevers broke and we were relieved, then the nightmare began. I can't help but wonder if the fevers weren't her body's way of trying to fight or signal something is seriously wrong. Perhaps your Temps was a signal to tell you something is wrong with the ovum and your body tried to correct it. idk...I read that our bodies somehow disallow certain pregnancies if there's something wrong with the development, it sure doesn't make it any easier to lose the pregnancy but God knows best. The next one will be perfect

I am so sorry about your daughter . What happened if you don't mind me asking? How old was she?

 

[AnnieMac2]

I am so sorry for your losses, Pato and Amber. It's so devastating and unfair. I am glad you have such a wonderful husband to give you big hugs, Amber. Take good care of yourself and know we're all thinking of you. xo

 

[jessalex]

Amber - I have been thinking of you and wondering how you are coping??? It really is the most painful and upsetting thing to go through, especially because you are reminded with every trip to the toilet!! Hang in there, and try to keep up the positive thoughts. Big

 

[jessalex]

Sorry I haven't uploaded a pic of my test - it keeps of the saying the file is to large?? Anyway, AF was due today and there has been no sign that she is on her way. I'm going to test again in the morning to see if the line has gotten any darker.
GL to everyone!! Corn - were you due for AF today?? How are things?
Hopeful - hoping to see a positive test from you soon xx

 

[pinkpassion]

Hi ladies, been mia this week as had friend's from out of state in, so been incredibly busy!!!!
Things are going pretty good, I don't feel pregnant except extreme exhaustion and certain ells sending me in to nausea, but otherwise I feel pretty normal, definitely not like my pregnancy with my dd.. I do worry sometimes if baby is ok, I pulled the doppler out last night and been staring at it, contimplating using it, but I think ive decided to use it next Tuesday before I go in for my next ultrasound , that way if I don't find it I won't be panicked for long before seeing what's going on on ultrasound .... I still worry because baby was measuring 3 days behind , although had a strong heartbeat , but that's what happened with our missed miscarriage and I wasn't very sick with that one either , kind of like this one, that's why I'm worried about this baby...

Also with my dd I had stretching and cramping pretty constantly through the first tri and not much with my mmc, I'm not having much again this time, so that's kind of stressful too... honestly this past week I haven't had much time to remember I'm pregnany I've been so busy , but now it's quiet and I have time to worry ... o well only a week and two more days to find out!!!!

 

[Pato]

I appreciate you took the time to say something its hard to get emotions across on here. Yes I feel that way about my daughter I miscarried just before her, I understand, thanks. I just feel like if it wasn't for those awful temps and illness it would have been fine. It's sad.

As odd as it may seem perhaps the Temps and illness was your body's way of saying something was wrong....
before our daughter died a few months before she had some seriously high Temps that we couldn't control for two weeks. I couldn't understand how a perfectly healthy child who was never sick could so suddenly have such uncontrollable fevers for so long, for no reason. Then the fevers broke and we were relieved, then the nightmare began. I can't help but wonder if the fevers weren't her body's way of trying to fight or signal something is seriously wrong. Perhaps your Temps was a signal to tell you something is wrong with the ovum and your body tried to correct it. idk...I read that our bodies somehow disallow certain pregnancies if there's something wrong with the development, it sure doesn't make it any easier to lose the pregnancy but God knows best. The next one will be perfect

I am so sorry about your daughter . What happened if you don't mind me asking? How old was she?

She suddenly started having fevers and then one morning she was talking to me, she was a very articulate child at two, asking about a color in spanish, and I looked at her and her eyes were crossed. I took her to her pediatrician thinking she needs glasses, and he sent me straight to the children's ward at the hospital for an emergency CT scan for suspected brain tumor. It was confirmed and they did a biopsy and it was stage 3 cancer. She passed away 4 months later, she had just turned 3.

 

[pinkpassion]

I appreciate you took the time to say something its hard to get emotions across on here. Yes I feel that way about my daughter I miscarried just before her, I understand, thanks. I just feel like if it wasn't for those awful temps and illness it would have been fine. It's sad.

As odd as it may seem perhaps the Temps and illness was your body's way of saying something was wrong....
before our daughter died a few months before she had some seriously high Temps that we couldn't control for two weeks. I couldn't understand how a perfectly healthy child who was never sick could so suddenly have such uncontrollable fevers for so long, for no reason. Then the fevers broke and we were relieved, then the nightmare began. I can't help but wonder if the fevers weren't her body's way of trying to fight or signal something is seriously wrong. Perhaps your Temps was a signal to tell you something is wrong with the ovum and your body tried to correct it. idk...I read that our bodies somehow disallow certain pregnancies if there's something wrong with the development, it sure doesn't make it any easier to lose the pregnancy but God knows best. The next one will be perfect

I am so sorry about your daughter . What happened if you don't mind me asking? How old was she?

She suddenly started having fevers and then one morning she was talking to me, she was a very articulate child at two, asking about a color in spanish, and I looked at her and her eyes were crossed. I took her to her pediatrician thinking she needs glasses, and he sent me straight to the children's ward at the hospital for an emergency CT scan for suspected brain tumor. It was confirmed and they did a biopsy and it was stage 3 cancer. She passed away 4 months later, she had just turned 3.

Pato, .... I can't even imagine ... you are such a strong woman !!!! Reading this breaks my heart !!!!! I have tears for you!!!! I'm so so sorry !!!!!

 

[AnnieMac2]

My heart aches for you, Pato. I am so sorry.

 

[jessalex]

Just heading out the door to work.....
Pink - keep thinking positive thoughts, I am sure that this pregnancy will be ok It might just be less heightened symptoms becuase you have been pregnant before,
Pato - there really are no words. I can not even imagine!!

Took another test this morning, and still just a faint line . 15dpo. Argh

 

[AmberDaisyDoo]

Pato, that is horrendous. I am so sorry your daughter got ill and died.

Echoing everyone else here but there really are no words. I am so saddened and sobered by your loss, you must have an amazing and strong marriage to have gone through such tragedy and still be an attentive and wonderful supportive person. I'm so sorry lovely. xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Disneymom1129]

Just heading out the door to work.....
Pink - keep thinking positive thoughts, I am sure that this pregnancy will be ok It might just be less heightened symptoms becuase you have been pregnant before,
Pato - there really are no words. I can not even imagine!!

Took another test this morning, and still just a faint line . 15dpo. Argh

What kind of test are you using? I know some dyes only get so dark. I'm sure everything is ok

I appreciate you took the time to say something its hard to get emotions across on here. Yes I feel that way about my daughter I miscarried just before her, I understand, thanks. I just feel like if it wasn't for those awful temps and illness it would have been fine. It's sad.

As odd as it may seem perhaps the Temps and illness was your body's way of saying something was wrong....
before our daughter died a few months before she had some seriously high Temps that we couldn't control for two weeks. I couldn't understand how a perfectly healthy child who was never sick could so suddenly have such uncontrollable fevers for so long, for no reason. Then the fevers broke and we were relieved, then the nightmare began. I can't help but wonder if the fevers weren't her body's way of trying to fight or signal something is seriously wrong. Perhaps your Temps was a signal to tell you something is wrong with the ovum and your body tried to correct it. idk...I read that our bodies somehow disallow certain pregnancies if there's something wrong with the development, it sure doesn't make it any easier to lose the pregnancy but God knows best. The next one will be perfect

I am so sorry about your daughter . What happened if you don't mind me asking? How old was she?

She suddenly started having fevers and then one morning she was talking to me, she was a very articulate child at two, asking about a color in spanish, and I looked at her and her eyes were crossed. I took her to her pediatrician thinking she needs glasses, and he sent me straight to the children's ward at the hospital for an emergency CT scan for suspected brain tumor. It was confirmed and they did a biopsy and it was stage 3 cancer. She passed away 4 months later, she had just turned 3.

Oh my goodness, I am so sorry. Childhood cancer is just not fair.

Hi ladies, been mia this week as had friend's from out of state in, so been incredibly busy!!!!
Things are going pretty good, I don't feel pregnant except extreme exhaustion and certain ells sending me in to nausea, but otherwise I feel pretty normal, definitely not like my pregnancy with my dd.. I do worry sometimes if baby is ok, I pulled the doppler out last night and been staring at it, contimplating using it, but I think ive decided to use it next Tuesday before I go in for my next ultrasound , that way if I don't find it I won't be panicked for long before seeing what's going on on ultrasound .... I still worry because baby was measuring 3 days behind , although had a strong heartbeat , but that's what happened with our missed miscarriage and I wasn't very sick with that one either , kind of like this one, that's why I'm worried about this baby...

Also with my dd I had stretching and cramping pretty constantly through the first tri and not much with my mmc, I'm not having much again this time, so that's kind of stressful too... honestly this past week I haven't had much time to remember I'm pregnany I've been so busy , but now it's quiet and I have time to worry ... o well only a week and two more days to find out!!!!

Try not to stress, I'm sure everything is fine as every pregnancy is different! .

 

[Disneymom1129]

Hope everyone is having a nice Fathers Day! We went and saw "Inside Out" which was a lot sadder than I was anticipating! Prego hormones had tears down my face and everything. It's a darn kids movie for goodness sake lol. I also got a 3+ on the digital this morning, so I'm officially done peeing on sticks.