February 2019 Testing Thread <3 Come on BFP’s!!

Wow, love all the BFPs. So exciting!

Sadly, my faint FRER positives disappeared and bleeding started. Onward and upward. Moving on to March. :-( I'll keep my fingers crossed for the rest of you hanging in there!
I'm so sorry, HUGS
 
So ladies I rang my doctors surgery and the doctor rang me back strait away.
Sadly she only made me feel more worried and not reausred. She kept saying over and over about me being 39 and that I'm at extremely high risk of a MC.
My symptoms the last 2 days have been pretty non existent.
Woke up yesterday breast tenderness gone again and no queezyness. Thought oh it's ok everything will come back tommorow (today) but it hasnt. Only thing I been getting today is very very very slight queezyness hardly anything and boobs still not as tender as 2 days ago. Dr didn't really reasure me about this and just said if you get any cramping or any blood to call back.
I asked her about the tests and told her how dark They are and I asked if it's a good sign and she said it can be.

She is going to write to the high risk preganacy consultant but told me not to get my hopes up for an early scan and that I will probably have to wait till 12 weeks which is still 7 weeks away.
I feel so upsett I've been crying all day. They don't even want to see me at the doctors because I'm to early.
I have to ring them back when I'm 7 weeks to book in with the midwife at 8 weeks.
This wait is gonna be hurendous.
I can't afford a privet scan and they won't so bloods.
Thought the 2ww was stressful well this is worse.
The tanned mukas has completly stopped and is now back to clear. I have lower dull back ache.
All I want is for everything to be ok and this is just so scary.
:sad2:

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Oh no! Well, sometimes doctors can be a little blunt. Maybe she just had a cold bedside manner. I'm sorry. The thing is, they/you don't know what will happen and you could have a sticky bean! Fingers crossed everything turns out okay. I understand how you must feel and I feel for you, love. Hoping for the best. xx
 
Thats awful.
How much is a private scan there???
You are really early for symptoms so try to be happy you have none. You will take it back when you have them full on.
I had my 7 mth old at 39 and am 40 now pregnant with no 5. Its normal now not overly old

Awww sweety so good to hear someone else in the same boat with being an older mummy to be. My aunty had my cousin her 6th baby when she was 41 years old. You always here about womon having babies much older now so I was so upsett when the Dr kept going on about my age and MC. I'll be 40 in December.
Privet scans are expensive here and were not a very well off family so looks like I just got to wait now and hope for the best.
I had very sore boobs from 10DPO right up till a few days ago and all was feeling so so queezy all day everyday. So for the symptoms to just go and for 2 whole days is such a worry.
 
Okay, I'm starting to get antsy. My CM is still lotiony and hasn't made the shift to EWCM yet. I'm CD15. I am supposedly in the fertile window. I'm not temping or charting, just monitoring cycle days and CM/CP. Last month O day was CD18 +/-, I think. I'm flying to Vegas tonight to be with my guy. Hoping to BD tonight and tomorrow so not a super great window this month but not too bad either (aside from the lack of EWCM, which is irritating). Sigh. Wish us luck!

He ideally wants to conceive in March anyway as he wants a December baby. Well, yeah, in a perfect world, right?! He acts like it's shooting fish in a barrel or something, lol.
 
Oh no! Well, sometimes doctors can be a little blunt. Maybe she just had a cold bedside manner. I'm sorry. The thing is, they/you don't know what will happen and you could have a sticky bean! Fingers crossed everything turns out okay. I understand how you must feel and I feel for you, love. Hoping for the best. xx

Hello sweety so good to see you back and hear from you. Thank you.
Yeah her English was a little off still good English but really had to listen. Understood every word she said but was thinking may where she comes from there more blunt.
All I have to give me hope is these tests they will not do bloods.
Today's test
I just pray pray pray this is all good signs pluss my temp is still elevated 37.4c today still low grade fever since I ovulated and have heard ure temp plummets if ure going to MC. All I can do is wait it out and hope that when the high risk consultant gets the letter from the doctor that she will want to see me b4 12 weeks and will want to have a early scan like the last time.
Just have to wait and see.
 
So guys some of you might remember me. I had problem after problem trying to get pregnant and was convinced I was infertile. So after 4 months of NTNP this happened. Didn’t even consider myself in the tww. Cramping lots and still checking for AF this whole day lol. So many symptoms it’s unreal! Good luck ladies!

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Huge congratulations
 
Hey ladies! Just wanted to update you all on our current situation. Last I posted in here, I wasn't sure if AF arrived early or if it was something else. We did confirm a BFN for this past round. Since I had a very short and strange cycle, my OB has made a new plan. We are switching to Clomid (I am so happy, because my first child was a Clomid baby and so far the Letrozole has been a huge flop for us). I start 200mg Clomid on Monday (calling it CD3), also taking dexamethasone on CD 3-12. On Feb. 26th, I go in for my ultrasound and praying we have some mature follicles again that will allow us to trigger with HCG that day. Praying March is our lucky charm!

How is everyone else doing on their cycles? Anymore BFPs??!
 
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Okay, I'm starting to get antsy. My CM is still lotiony and hasn't made the shift to EWCM yet. I'm CD15. I am supposedly in the fertile window. I'm not temping or charting, just monitoring cycle days and CM/CP. Last month O day was CD18 +/-, I think. I'm flying to Vegas tonight to be with my guy. Hoping to BD tonight and tomorrow so not a super great window this month but not too bad either (aside from the lack of EWCM, which is irritating). Sigh. Wish us luck!

He ideally wants to conceive in March anyway as he wants a December baby. Well, yeah, in a perfect world, right?! He acts like it's shooting fish in a barrel or something, lol.

Fingers crossed for you @sweetchut !! Maybe the getaway with allow for you guys to relax and have some YOU time. :) Hopefully this is your month!!
 
I see lines on those millhaven

Thank you.. <3 I do not though. Not irl either.

We’ll see what happens. I have zero symptoms apart from period like cramping three days ago. AF due tomorrow. We’ll see...
 
Hi All,
Newbie here. Just joined 2 days ago.
Currenlty 5/6 DPO. Will be hopefully testing on Feb 17th or 18th..if I can hold out that long...8-[.
Af due Feb 20th.
 
Bfn again today. I am thinking I’ll just wait till Af arrives. If she doesn’t by Sunday I’ll test again. But I’m guessing I’m out this month. :(
 
Good morning and happy Valentine's day!
My test this morning was a BFN, but Fertilityfriend has moved my OV date 4 days later so, based on that, I am only 5DPO. No symptoms from me except a sensitive ovaries/uterus area and high body temp. (2nd day 37.1 while not being sick). And a slighly quicker heart rate (86-92) than my usual 82 BPM.20190214_055748.jpg
 
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So ladies I rang my doctors surgery and the doctor rang me back strait away.
Sadly she only made me feel more worried and not reausred. She kept saying over and over about me being 39 and that I'm at extremely high risk of a MC.
My symptoms the last 2 days have been pretty non existent.
Woke up yesterday breast tenderness gone again and no queezyness. Thought oh it's ok everything will come back tommorow (today) but it hasnt. Only thing I been getting today is very very very slight queezyness hardly anything and boobs still not as tender as 2 days ago. Dr didn't really reasure me about this and just said if you get any cramping or any blood to call back.
I asked her about the tests and told her how dark They are and I asked if it's a good sign and she said it can be.

She is going to write to the high risk preganacy consultant but told me not to get my hopes up for an early scan and that I will probably have to wait till 12 weeks which is still 7 weeks away.
I feel so upsett I've been crying all day. They don't even want to see me at the doctors because I'm to early.
I have to ring them back when I'm 7 weeks to book in with the midwife at 8 weeks.
This wait is gonna be hurendous.
I can't afford a privet scan and they won't so bloods.
Thought the 2ww was stressful well this is worse.
The tanned mukas has completly stopped and is now back to clear. I have lower dull back ache.
All I want is for everything to be ok and this is just so scary.
:sad2:
Oh, boy.. You do have an insensitive doc. Please don't worry so much about the symptoms going and coming.. I just read my older replies when I was pregnant with my 2nd baby - did not remember it 6 years later but now I do - I had absolutely no symptoms with my second baby until week 6. I was about to go in for a gyno surgery because my "uterus lining" (sorry, I don't know if it is the right name) was too thick and had to do a test before just in case. Well..that just in case was there. And I had no idea. :D So I believe everything will be just fine. Your lines are so dark! Can You go and do HCG and Progesteron blood tests by yourself, without doctor' s appointment? We have this option here, in my country, so I find out I am pregnant and progressing before going to see my doc.
 
Today is cycle 8, CD 28 and approx 13 DPO or so. And my temp slightly dropped. No signs of AF coming yet, but I’m sure she’ll be here soon. :( She’s due today.

Current mode: Why is it so hard to TTC #2 when #1 happened on the second try?
 

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