Oh no. I'm so sorry to hear this. I know there's nothing anyone can say to make you feel any better but I'm thinking of youHi ladies, just popping in to say goodbye. I'm absolutely gutted to be leaving you all.
My bleeding became much heavier on Friday/Saturday, like a heavy period with a lot of pain. My tests went lighter too. So thats it then, another chemical I guess.... odd calling it that, seems so much more. Found it quite tough and I'm not sure if we will continue now.
Wishing you all lots of luck, miss you all xx
@patienceiav thanks so m much for your thoughts can I ask, was the bleeding a lot when you had your mc at 6 weeks? Sorry you don’t have to answer if it’s too sensitive. My bleeding has become like a light period, before it was so thick it wouldn’t come out without wiping (I know this is graphic so I’m really sorry if it’s too much). I really need to get some medical advice but it’s just so tricky in isolation in a hardcore lockdown, I am so over living like this! It’s full on with all the rules Australia. Kids can’t even go to the GP if they have any respiratory symptoms, makes me so mad.
@pipsbabybean picture perfect progression!
((TW)) It's alright, it was a conscious abortion (the cruel irony of not getting pregnant for 3years, getting divorced, thinking you're infertile, having a ONS....BAM, wow thankyou for nothing universe) so for me it was probably different since it was induced... but I was (TMI) pouring blood and chunks in the toilet every 30mins for the first few day, honestly felt like I was having vaginal diarrhea >.< then I still bled heavily for weeks. Everything after 2weeks kinda can't count cuz they put a coil in me at that point and my body wasn't done so it just kinda kept bleeding and struggling to get rid of stuff until I ended up in A&E :/ F you very much, body!
Your bleeding sounds scary still, have you been able to order more tests at least? I would think a mc would start decreasing test strength, even when you're this far along you may gauge if it's going the wrong way (I know my tests now just aren't changing, the tests are like "nope max capacity"!) Fingers tightly crossed for you
@BabyBrain80 I'm so very sorry take the time you need to be sad, then once you feel up to it, do something just for yourself could be as simple as new nail polish or your body weight in sugary snacks big hugs!
@Vukasin88 warm welcome, fx for your sticky bean!
@pipsbabybean ah I learned something new today happy 4weeks and great lines! How come you were on the pill if I may ask, since you had a mc last month also? Were you TTC?
Hey Lucy, have you had a scan yet? I wonder if the bleeding is an SCH or cervical erosion. I’ve had an almost 9 week mmc and was spotting for a few days but then went to a full on bleed for at least 2 weeks and it was on and off spotting for like 6 weeks tbh before I had a normal cycle again. Obviously every body is different. But I think at 9 weeks it would definitely end up being quite a large amount of blood.Thank you so much for the support - so lucky to have you ladies the bleeding has slowed right down, still scared to go to the toilet though. I have a pack of 7 frer coming (as well as a Doppler which prob isn’t a good idea) and will call the OB I’m booked into see. I honestly thought on the weekend there’s no way the little bean can survive this, but now I have more hope.
@patienceiav thanks for sharing your experience, sounds just horrid. I didn’t have any blood pouring out - gosh that must have been hard.
@BabyBrain80 i am genuinely gutted you are leaving this group. I think about you a lot! I have faith that this will happen for you and really hope you don’t give up. Sending you a big hug, it’s just not fair sometimes
@Bloblo looks like the ultrasound machine wasn’t the best quality? The image isn’t sharp which makes me think it’s the quality of the equipment. I had one at 8 weeks (measured 7+5) and the imagine was clear as in the black and white were bright. Then had one two days later with a student using a machine that was made for cardio not OB and the image was way less clear. It’s a pity the tech said something about being 5 weeks before they dug in deeper and saw the heartbeat etc, how scary! I think because there’s a little heartbeat you don’t need to worry, but I absolutely understand how the anxiety creeps in. Big congrats on seeing the little heart flutter, that is wonderful news!
@Rebaby do you have a recommendation for "bladder fullness" in relation to good picture? Is it better to have not pee'd? I have a scan on Fri at what should be 6+5, want to maximise my chances hehe
@pipsbabybean oh right I see now, the mc was a surprise on the pill, and now you stayed off it hoping maybe that lil mc was just a sign that you were ready my OHs youngest turned 5 a few months ago, it'll be super scary when it's time to tell them!
@Rebaby do you have a recommendation for "bladder fullness" in relation to good picture? Is it better to have not pee'd? I have a scan on Fri at what should be 6+5, want to maximise my chances hehe
@Bloblo super cute announcement boards did the little one know what was on hers? hehe!
I just got my first scan booked for this Friday where I should be 6+5, but considering how damn mild my symptoms are I'm kinda not holding out hope, can't shake that nagging feeling that the progesterone is keeping any bleed from happening...
What's clexane, is it a type of progesterone? Sounds rough having to use injections, and here I am mourning my ability to dtd because of progesterone suppositories!
Hi ladies, just popping in to say goodbye. I'm absolutely gutted to be leaving you all.
My bleeding became much heavier on Friday/Saturday, like a heavy period with a lot of pain. My tests went lighter too. So thats it then, another chemical I guess.... odd calling it that, seems so much more. Found it quite tough and I'm not sure if we will continue now.
Wishing you all lots of luck, miss you all xx
I had my first scan today - 7w3d. It was an elective scan and honestly I just wish we didn't go. In the end she saw the baby and saw the heartbeat, but couldn't take any measurements as it was too unclear
Before that, she spent 5 minutes looking and not finding anything inside the gestational sac. She told me it might be that my dates are wrong (which I know can't be, we only bd once this cycle. Plus after ltttc I know exactly when I ovulate.) And she told me that if its just 5w pregnant instead of 7, then it's normal to just see the empty sac... etc... my heart dropped and a million things went through my head. Then she repositioned and luckily she found my little bean! What a relief! I saw the heartbeat and cried. But now I just can't shake that feeling that something is wrong... why wasn't she able to measure stuff? Is this normal?
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@pipsbabybean oh right I see now, the mc was a surprise on the pill, and now you stayed off it hoping maybe that lil mc was just a sign that you were ready my OHs youngest turned 5 a few months ago, it'll be super scary when it's time to tell them!
@Rebaby do you have a recommendation for "bladder fullness" in relation to good picture? Is it better to have not pee'd? I have a scan on Fri at what should be 6+5, want to maximise my chances hehe
Generally, the fuller your bladder the better. I always go for a wee before leaving the house (don't think I'd manage otherwise!) but then drink plenty of water on the drive there / in the waiting room and by the time I'm scanned I'm usually needing a wee again! But I have had a couple of scans where I've been told my bladder is too full and getting in the way so I guess don't overdo it with the water