I think ahy time when you're waiting for something you really want and have no idea how long it'll take it can feel like its taking too long. Ds1 we conceived the first month. Dh had made me wait 6 months from agreeing to ttc to make sure it was definitely what I wanted as I had always said I didn't want kids ds2 took 7 months and that felt like a long time, until ds3 who took a full 12 months. Ds4 took 2.5 years. Ds5 we kept starting ttc then stopping, then starting again. When we did finally start properly I fell pregnant after 7 months, but had a miscarriage at 5 weeks, it then took another 3 years to even get a hint of a line. I thought I was broken we've only been trying since July, but we agreed we couldn't go through LTTTC again, we want a small gap, and age isn't on our side (I'm only 34, but dh is 52, he's ready to be done with the baby stage) so we said we'd try for 1 year only. I can feel that time slipping away.@AlwaysTheAunt @motherofboys I feel you on that mindset. This is the longest its taken me to conceive a take home baby. With my dd I had a chemical first month, and was pregnant with her the 3rd month. My ds I had a chemical 1st month, pregnant with him 3 weeks later. This time we started mid cycle so not sure if we missed egg or not, but then 2 chemicals in a row. Now on month 4. I know its not long and many are wayyyy longer, but for me its a bit disheartening. Worried that now Im a couple years older (only 33 but still) things arent working as good as they used to. I have all the goodies this month (opk, bbt, conceive plus) so really hoping this is it. I put March as my time limit for trying so I only have 2 tries left.
I’m 2 dpo and can’t wait to test
I got an email yesterday saying that they want me to come in for another ultrasound. After my surgery they checked my uterus with a standard ultrasound, but they have me scheduled for a 3D one now too just to be sure everything has been healing correctly. The date is the same day af is due, so I should hopefully know if I’m pregnant or not for the appointment as well.
Just seen your test. Looks fab!!Of course the drugstore was out of frers except rapid result!! Lame. Will have to stick with my cheapies for now!
Do you think my progression looks ok?
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The ladies with new bfps. Have any of you got very mild cramps? It’s been so long since I had a successful pregnancy I forgot if I’ve felt like this before.
Thanks. I’m stressing so much this time. With all of my others I just tested once or twice and that was it. Wish I could be that chilled now.That looks like great progression! Even on your frers that one day looks so much pinker than yesterday
@Tasha36089 those look great! Also, I know I'm not one of the newly pregnant but I remember from last time that I had cramps for a few weeks. Made me so paranoid.
Do you think my progression looks ok?
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The ladies with new bfps. Have any of you got very mild cramps? It’s been so long since I had a successful pregnancy I forgot if I’ve felt like this before.