KrazzysGirl
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Ok, I am 29 and have 7, 6, and 3 year olds. We also had a miscarriage 3 months before the oldest at 8 weeks. We hadn't decided not to have anymore kids yet, just weren't planning to have any more right now. Youngest one is still a little attached! he he!
My last AF was around April 1 or 2 (I forgot to write it down for once!) but was much lighter then usual and only lasted maybe 2 days (so maybe not AF). I thought I ovulated on April 6, which seemed crazy. I've had mild cramps off and on all month (not typical for me). I have 25 day cycles. My last normal cycle was in March. Last normal AF was March 7, Ovulated March 19. I know when I ovulate because I feel like a truck hit me for 6-8 hours! Not fun but sure makes it easy to figure out!
We dtd March 14th unprotected, 20th with a condom, April 4th unprotected, and April 10th (ish- I forgot to write that one down) unprotected. AF was due April 27th based on normal cycles.
FRER April 20th (FMU) - negative
FRER April 27th (late at night) - faint positive?
https://i155.photobucket.com/albums/s286/jesusfreaks525/private/b41458d5-4714-4d9e-b142-f22d5cedaf44.jpg
FRER April 28th (FMU) - faint positive?
https://i155.photobucket.com/albums/s286/jesusfreaks525/private/549882b0-fe50-473b-8fcd-e370a7046c99.jpg
No symptoms except permanently short on patience, very tired (probably symptom of having 3 kids!), foggy brain (symptom of being tired!), and KILLER back ache! I pulled a muscle in my back in HS and just thought that was acting up, but this is day 3 of back ache and it usually only lasts for 1 day. Taking 3 tylenol and using a heating pad in case I am pregnant. If not, I'd like to know though, so I can take some ibuprophen!
I also don't really have a sensation to pee after having my first two that were 9.3 lbs. and 9.13 lbs. except when I'm pregnant. I noticed today I was starting to feel that again...BUT that could be my mind playing tricks on me. Symptom spotting is the worst!
I would just go to the doctor to know for sure, but my 3 year old would have to go with me and would definitely tell her daddy! I wouldn't mind DH knowing except he is depressed and I don't want to give him one more thing to stress about until I know it's for sure. I personally don't mind a surprise little one! But I'm not going to try to have one right now. Our space and finances aren't really conducive to another little one right now. Not to mention my husband's depression.
Soooo...here I am posting pics hoping you ladies can help me! I thought about buying more tests to double check with but FRER is the most sensitive, so if it's faint on those then it wont show up anywhere else right? I never use digital tests because they are more expensive and less sensitive, BUT for once I get the need to just have it spelled out for you! I'm so tempted to try a digital right now!
No sign of AF until an hour or so ago. I am now spotting ever so slightly. Because of the previous miscarriage, this scares me! I'm okay with being pregnant even though it's not the best time, or not being pregnant, but I don't want to lose another one!
Do you think there is anyway this isn't a positive? Do you have a suggestion of another test that I should try that might pick it up? If it's for sure positive and I keep spotting, I'll tell my husband and go to the doctor. I just don't want to jump the gun.
My last AF was around April 1 or 2 (I forgot to write it down for once!) but was much lighter then usual and only lasted maybe 2 days (so maybe not AF). I thought I ovulated on April 6, which seemed crazy. I've had mild cramps off and on all month (not typical for me). I have 25 day cycles. My last normal cycle was in March. Last normal AF was March 7, Ovulated March 19. I know when I ovulate because I feel like a truck hit me for 6-8 hours! Not fun but sure makes it easy to figure out!
We dtd March 14th unprotected, 20th with a condom, April 4th unprotected, and April 10th (ish- I forgot to write that one down) unprotected. AF was due April 27th based on normal cycles.
FRER April 20th (FMU) - negative
FRER April 27th (late at night) - faint positive?
https://i155.photobucket.com/albums/s286/jesusfreaks525/private/b41458d5-4714-4d9e-b142-f22d5cedaf44.jpg
FRER April 28th (FMU) - faint positive?
https://i155.photobucket.com/albums/s286/jesusfreaks525/private/549882b0-fe50-473b-8fcd-e370a7046c99.jpg
No symptoms except permanently short on patience, very tired (probably symptom of having 3 kids!), foggy brain (symptom of being tired!), and KILLER back ache! I pulled a muscle in my back in HS and just thought that was acting up, but this is day 3 of back ache and it usually only lasts for 1 day. Taking 3 tylenol and using a heating pad in case I am pregnant. If not, I'd like to know though, so I can take some ibuprophen!
I also don't really have a sensation to pee after having my first two that were 9.3 lbs. and 9.13 lbs. except when I'm pregnant. I noticed today I was starting to feel that again...BUT that could be my mind playing tricks on me. Symptom spotting is the worst!
I would just go to the doctor to know for sure, but my 3 year old would have to go with me and would definitely tell her daddy! I wouldn't mind DH knowing except he is depressed and I don't want to give him one more thing to stress about until I know it's for sure. I personally don't mind a surprise little one! But I'm not going to try to have one right now. Our space and finances aren't really conducive to another little one right now. Not to mention my husband's depression.
Soooo...here I am posting pics hoping you ladies can help me! I thought about buying more tests to double check with but FRER is the most sensitive, so if it's faint on those then it wont show up anywhere else right? I never use digital tests because they are more expensive and less sensitive, BUT for once I get the need to just have it spelled out for you! I'm so tempted to try a digital right now!
No sign of AF until an hour or so ago. I am now spotting ever so slightly. Because of the previous miscarriage, this scares me! I'm okay with being pregnant even though it's not the best time, or not being pregnant, but I don't want to lose another one!
Do you think there is anyway this isn't a positive? Do you have a suggestion of another test that I should try that might pick it up? If it's for sure positive and I keep spotting, I'll tell my husband and go to the doctor. I just don't want to jump the gun.