Oh even more we have in common then, would be great to get a 4th at the same time LOL Yes at times I do wonder if I'm a little crazy, but I've never been completely sane anyway haha Musical beds definitely do not help with temping, this is the only time I've tried temping and charting etc so not had this problem before. I don't have good sleepers anyway and have always managed to give birth to the next before the last one sleeps through, though my eldest 2 would at least go to the early hours leaving plenty of BDing time before they would wake up, my youngest goes to around 11pm in his 1st stretch of sleep. Not leaving much time and once his settled down again DH has normally fallen asleep. Typical.
Oh well, we shall get there in the end. Got to stay positive.