twiggy56
Mummy expecting #2
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Thanks for your reply Belle! Im glad its not just me...
I think its maybe just an aspect of having a larger age gap...we've had them all to ourselves for years and can give them 100%...so they will be old enough to realise mummys time has changed? If they were younger they probably wouldnt remember any different?
My DD is soooo good though. I know she'l be a fantastic big sister, she'l be very gentle and caring...and will be desperate to help with baby. I dont doubt how amazing she will be- i just feel terrible guilt *because* shes so good? If that makes any sense...
I think its maybe just an aspect of having a larger age gap...we've had them all to ourselves for years and can give them 100%...so they will be old enough to realise mummys time has changed? If they were younger they probably wouldnt remember any different?
My DD is soooo good though. I know she'l be a fantastic big sister, she'l be very gentle and caring...and will be desperate to help with baby. I dont doubt how amazing she will be- i just feel terrible guilt *because* shes so good? If that makes any sense...