Hopefuls!!!!!!!

[phoebemum]

I'm definitely not gonna be BDing tonight - I got it last night and repeat nights are a rarity in this house with my husband. I think the only time I'll EVER get it 3 days in a row is if he is wanting to have a baby badly lol.

Just when I think my husband is dead asleep...I wake him up in a special way and that's all he needs to get down to it...works every time.

Haha love it!!!!

Men are so simple!! Well I got a smiley when I got home from work so the deed is done for tonight. I've to wake hubby in the morning again and go for round 2 before work.

We'll do Thursday and Friday too to try an catch it.

Then in officially in my 2ww.

Hope were all moving to 1st trimester next month together xx

From your lips to God's ears! When is AF due? I'm 9/12...it's gonna be a long 2 weeks.

Hi Babywhisperer

I think AF is due on the 9th too, that would be 28 days, last period was 27 and the one before was 29 so roughly then.

We go on holiday on the 2nd so at least that will take my mind off testing.

Ooh, both of us due on same day. Fingers crossed x

 

[phoebemum]

Hooray Pheobemum finally a smiley face...... I was going to ask if you had yet! Glad to hear you're getting down to business haha, fingers Xd for spermies + eggies!
You wouldn't believe it, it's like history repeating it's self......my DH was in such a foul mood last night I told him I didn't want him to touch me with a ten foot barge pole (which didn't make his mood any better, funnily enough) pfft we're laughing about it today, lol! It's not often he gets riled up like that, think I'll have to make him beg a little tonight (I can't help natural female revenge.....hehe) well no smiley face for me yet so I guess that's kind of lucky

Hope all thd BDing is going well for all you lovely ladies.....going to be on the edge of my seat for you all now xxxxx

OMG, they are so moody, and everyone says its women that are like that???!!!

That's good you don't have the smiley yet though. What cd are you on now?

We last night, not long after the first smiley. Woke hubby up this am to do it and turns out we must have gone for it a bit too strong last night. Poor hubby has burst a blood vessel down there

Couldn't believe it!!! He says it should be fine later tonight so we will just have to try again and see how we get on. I got another smiley this morning so I think as long as we keep going tonight, tomorrow night and possibly Friday too then we should at least be making every possible chance to make my next little

I think you should definitely make him beg for it

Not sure Lisarina about the fertility being hereditery. Im one of two, mum was one of three, dad was only child, husband one of two. So no real big families there to tell or not. I think that was probably a financial deicision to be honest though.

We conceived my daughter on our first the very first month we were ttc so will see what happens this month as I obviously got my ovulation dates completely wrong last month and the month before. It would mean me and hubby are very fertile if we conceived again so quickly this time

to all you ladies.

 

[Babywhisperer]

I'm definitely not gonna be BDing tonight - I got it last night and repeat nights are a rarity in this house with my husband. I think the only time I'll EVER get it 3 days in a row is if he is wanting to have a baby badly lol.

Just when I think my husband is dead asleep...I wake him up in a special way and that's all he needs to get down to it...works every time.

Haha love it!!!!

Men are so simple!! Well I got a smiley when I got home from work so the deed is done for tonight. I've to wake hubby in the morning again and go for round 2 before work.

We'll do Thursday and Friday too to try an catch it.

Then in officially in my 2ww.

Hope were all moving to 1st trimester next month together xx

From your lips to God's ears! When is AF due? I'm 9/12...it's gonna be a long 2 weeks.

Hi Babywhisperer

I think AF is due on the 9th too, that would be 28 days, last period was 27 and the one before was 29 so roughly then.

We go on holiday on the 2nd so at least that will take my mind off testing.

Ooh, both of us due on same day. Fingers crossed x

I'm actually due the 12th, 9/12 is Sept 12, we do dates with the month first here in the states Lucky you going on vacay...best distraction ever! We have the long weekend coming up for Labor Day and it looks like great beach weather. FX'd for both of us!

I was so shot last night when I came home from work, I went to bed right after 9pm and fell asleep before 10...I was crampy/achey all day. Today I feel good so ovu is over. Not I just wait...wait...wait

 

[DSemcho]

I'm excited about Labor Day weekend to! I haven't been off for a weekend in a while - maybe we'll go to Kizkalesi for a day or two. (Google it - it's gorgous with castles and stuff). I'm still getting cramps and I'm at 2DPO so I'm taking that as a good sign.

 

[Babywhisperer]

I'm excited about Labor Day weekend to! I haven't been off for a weekend in a while - maybe we'll go to Kizkalesi for a day or two. (Google it - it's gorgous with castles and stuff). I'm still getting cramps and I'm at 2DPO so I'm taking that as a good sign.

I was cramping yesterday like a mofo. Dull aches...but when I ovu I sometimes get like that. Today is cd15 and I think I ovu Sunday if I got a darker test line on Sat. I was still cramping last night but went to sleep at 9 so no bd for me. I'm hoping the 2x on the day we got the dark test line, and 1x the next day, and 1x the day after that is enough. So that being said I am either 2 or 3dpo. I am not expecting any symptoms until next week (implantation) if at all.

If I know my husband we will be at the beach every day this weekend as he is besides himself that Summer is ending.

 

[phoebemum]

Well ladies, I am officially furious!!

My d**k of a husband had a day off today and spent most of it in the pub so when it came to the bding he couldn't do it.

I am soooooooooooooo f*****g angry.

Then he says he isn't that bothered and he's just going with the flow anyway. Wasted a day of my ovulating. I am so angry at him.

 

[DSemcho]

He isn't bothered by what? And going with the flow of what?

 

[phoebemum]

He was just going with the flow of me having another baby if that's what I want and he wouldn't be bothered or disappointed if I didn't get pregnant. Probably spur of the moment talk but I'm so annoyed

 

[suzzie]

Oh s#*t Pheobemum!!! No wonder you're furious God, men can be sooooo insensitive at thd best of times, let alone when you're feeling in limbo ttc! BIG hugs to you XX I'm sure your DH was just saying he's going with the flow etc because he felt all defensive after not being able to BD.....?! It's so hard with the pressure of trying to catch the right time of the month, I totally know how you're feeling - my DH and I have had varying versions of that type of argument over the last year! I reckon you've done enough to catch your eggie......and if you make up you could have some well earned make up sex hope you're ok?
I'll be CD13 in the morning, I think you must be 4 or 5 days ahead of me
Hugs!! Xxxxx

 

[Babywhisperer]

He was just going with the flow of me having another baby if that's what I want and he wouldn't be bothered or disappointed if I didn't get pregnant. Probably spur of the moment talk but I'm so annoyed

Oh they can all be selfish little brats...I blame their mothers really.

 

[suzzie]

Haha Babywhisperer I'll second that!! x

 

[DSemcho]

OH geez I'm soo sorry! My husband flip flops to between not caring if it happens (as in if it happens it happens) and not wanting it at all. But that's only because he's scared of what might happen in the future. Long story that has to do with his ex-girlfriend and her being a manipulative whorebag. I swear I wanna smack a bitch.

Has anyone ever gone from using a regular thermometer (that tells degrees by .2) and then went to a BBT (which does it by .1) and noticed a huge difference in temp? With the regular thermometer I was between 95.6 & 96 right after my period (with .2 thermometer). Day of OV and today (3DPO) I'm ranging from 96.8 & 96.9 with the BBT. I admit I haven't been charting everyday, but that's still a big increase. I'm hoping to start officially charting today and hope I can keep up with it.

 

[phoebemum]

Thanks ladies!

I'm a bit calmer today but just can't believe after I finally get a smiley and we only do the deed once after 4 times last week!

Glad to hear its not just me. They just don't get it at all do they? They have this tiny little job to do and we do all the hard work yet it's still us stressing but managing to keep everything under control and do all the right things and they can't get their one job right!

Thanks suzzie, let's hope that one time was perfect timing and I've caught the little egg!

I know we could do it tonight too as its only 48 hours after my positive but I'm not sure I can face him later unless he begs and apologises hehe xx

 

[WannaBeAMumma]

You go girl! Make him beg for it!!

 

[DSemcho]

Eh sometimes my husband is just to tired to have sex because of his job. We did get it the day I OV'd and I had gotten my first positive OPK the morning before and still had a slightly positive one that morning. I'm hoping you caught your egg, and I'm hoping you get it again today!

 

[phoebemum]

He was just going with the flow of me having another baby if that's what I want and he wouldn't be bothered or disappointed if I didn't get pregnant. Probably spur of the moment talk but I'm so annoyed

Oh they can all be selfish little brats...I blame their mothers really.

Hahaha, I would love to blame his mum but actually shes the most wonderful mother in law in the world. I just love her to bits!! She doesn't defend him like some mothers in law do. She knows he can be a pain

And she takes my little one a lot when I'm at work so can't complain!!

 

[phoebemum]

You go girl! Make him beg for it!!

Hahaha!!!!! It will either be tonight or a and read my book.

DSemcho, I really hope you have caught your egg too.

Im on cd 19 now so I suppose that's me officially in my 2ww. I wish I could feel more excited but because we didn't go for it last night, I feel more annoyed/upset/mad !!!!

 

[DSemcho]

I'm hoping I got it to. With only one shot at it, I'm about 80% sure I'm not gonna get a BFP this cycle so I'm not gonna stress about it. I think this site is keeping me from talking to my husband about it all the time so it's keeping me sane and keeping my marriage from being stressed.

 

[WannaBeAMumma]

Update: cd16, still no pos opk... Feel like it's going to happen soon! Will just keep so there is a constant supply of for when that little egg decides to pop out!!!! No wonder I've had no success the last 3 months without opk... Obviously I had my ov days completely wrong!!! Here's hoping this changes my odds!!! Come on egg, I'm getting mighty impatient and all this is bloody exhausting!!!! Lol

 

[phoebemum]

Update: cd16, still no pos opk... Feel like it's going to happen soon! Will just keep so there is a constant supply of for when that little egg decides to pop out!!!! No wonder I've had no success the last 3 months without opk... Obviously I had my ov days completely wrong!!! Here's hoping this changes my odds!!! Come on egg, I'm getting mighty impatient and all this is bloody exhausting!!!! Lol

That's great, you're just going for it all the time. Perfect way to make sure thy egg gets harvested

Well I was cd17 when I got mine so hang in there!

Know what you mean, obviously last few days haven't been great for us but last month we did it every day for 8 days, to be honest I was knackered and couldn't really face it sometimes! Xx