Okay-
I'm so new to this so would appreciate feedback. Just had my very first scan for my IUI
and have 3 follies-two are 18mm and one is 19mm. I did Clomid 50mg 5-9 and on cd11. Dr. said lining is good, and we got Dh's SA back at 340 million/40%/excellent progression (136 live sperm this sample).
I was told to bd when I got home (which I did) & have to trigger with ovidrel tonight at 5pm and then go back on Wed. for 9:00 IUI (8:15 collection & wash).
I just wanted to give this first IUI a try so that I could finally just say we've done everything we can do and no regrets because after 3 years almost at our age I just haven't ever thought we'd get pg naturally-I had NO hopes of it actually working.
Now, I can't help myself. I'm shaking and crying and emotional (Clomid anyone?) with the hopes that maybe possibly we could be pg in two weeks..............this is going to be a hell of a roller coaster, I know it. : (
GL for you results tomorrow touch!
HI to everyone else! Welcome bluebird and crc, good luck with the IUIs!
I'm back in for another scan tomorrow morning, keeping FX for more follies. They upped my meds so hopefully my 6 have increased! Have been super tired all weekend must be from the meds, anyone else get super tired from stimming?
Hi Harvest, thanks for the welcome - I think perhaps I ''met'' you on another forum on baby and bump a few months ago? I recognise your name. Are you still on IUI and if so what round? Good luck today - hope you have lots of ripe follies!
Hi CRC, yes i totally remember you from another thread. We are done with IUI, tried 4 rounds and none worked. 3 with clomid and 1 with injectibles. We are in the middle of our first IVF. I have never been so exhausted!!! They upped my meds on Friday and I have been a zombie ever since. Scan went well today, I have at least 8 follies now. Starting the cetrotide tomorrow aswell and back for another scan on Thursday. ER should be this weekend. How are you? still trying IUI?
Titi-sounds like your scan went really well today too! Good luck with the IUI on Wednesday
August- So sorry you are having a tough time. Hang in there and I have everything crossed that this cycle works out for you
Hi to everyone else, hope you had a good weekend.
Okay-
I'm so new to this so would appreciate feedback. Just had my very first scan for my IUI
and have 3 follies-two are 18mm and one is 19mm. I did Clomid 50mg 5-9 and on cd11. Dr. said lining is good, and we got Dh's SA back at 340 million/40%/excellent progression (136 live sperm this sample).
I was told to bd when I got home (which I did) & have to trigger with ovidrel tonight at 5pm and then go back on Wed. for 9:00 IUI (8:15 collection & wash).
I just wanted to give this first IUI a try so that I could finally just say we've done everything we can do and no regrets because after 3 years almost at our age I just haven't ever thought we'd get pg naturally-I had NO hopes of it actually working.
Now, I can't help myself. I'm shaking and crying and emotional (Clomid anyone?) with the hopes that maybe possibly we could be pg in two weeks..............this is going to be a hell of a roller coaster, I know it. : (
Hi Titi and welcome! Have you now had the first IUI insemination? How are you feeling? We've all been there with making sure we can do everything right and it puts a massive strain on us and our hubbies. Ultimately there is nothing you can do ''wrong'' (other than go out and get completely drunk of course!), going to the gym, socialising and carrying on your normal life after IUI is said to be completely fine - its just up to you how you feel. The emotions you are feeling are completely normal - I have it too every month, its from the hormones in the Clomid and the pressure that we are putting ourselves through with these treatments. It is an emotional roller coaster but we have to all be hopeful that at the end of it is a lovely result and surely it can only make us all stronger as women and mothers eventually. I found keeping a diary helped - hopefully for you the first round will work, but if it doesn't you can look back on your diary during your next round and remember each day how you were feeling - chances are your symptons will be the same.
I really like Zita West - not sure if you have heard of her but she is a fertility expert in London practising traditional and non-traditional. I think its very expensive to see her (which we haven't done!) but you can buy her books and also her relaxation CD's are great - they have really helped me through my bad days. She has a website if you just google Zita West.
I also find accupuncture really helps. There are ton's of success stories with accupuncture and IVF, but now there are some with IUI too. They recommend a few sessions before the insemenation and one a week after - but don't take my word for it if you are going to do it please speak to an expert.
Try not to get too caught up on the size of the follies - I live in Amsterdam and they are very laid back. Their motto is they won't tell you information they don't think you need to know or worry about so they show me on the screen how big my follies are but they never go into the specific dimentions and I'm glad because I have so many other things to worry about if I started worrying about millimeters here and there I would completely fall of the edge of sanity as I'm almost there already!
I hope this has helped a bit and I hope you are doing ok now you are probably in your 2WW. Try and relax, eat some nice cake, call a friend, take a nice walk, stock up on cheesy chick flicks and books to take your mind off it and if you can do some kind of relaxation CD.
x
oh no! I'm having ovulation pains in my ovary 25 hours before IUI! Am I going to ov too early??? Trigger shot last night at 5pm with 18-19mm follies.
Okay-
I'm so new to this so would appreciate feedback. Just had my very first scan for my IUI
and have 3 follies-two are 18mm and one is 19mm. I did Clomid 50mg 5-9 and on cd11. Dr. said lining is good, and we got Dh's SA back at 340 million/40%/excellent progression (136 live sperm this sample).
I was told to bd when I got home (which I did) & have to trigger with ovidrel tonight at 5pm and then go back on Wed. for 9:00 IUI (8:15 collection & wash).
I just wanted to give this first IUI a try so that I could finally just say we've done everything we can do and no regrets because after 3 years almost at our age I just haven't ever thought we'd get pg naturally-I had NO hopes of it actually working.
Now, I can't help myself. I'm shaking and crying and emotional (Clomid anyone?) with the hopes that maybe possibly we could be pg in two weeks..............this is going to be a hell of a roller coaster, I know it. : (
Hi Titi and welcome! Have you now had the first IUI insemination? How are you feeling? We've all been there with making sure we can do everything right and it puts a massive strain on us and our hubbies. Ultimately there is nothing you can do ''wrong'' (other than go out and get completely drunk of course!), going to the gym, socialising and carrying on your normal life after IUI is said to be completely fine - its just up to you how you feel. The emotions you are feeling are completely normal - I have it too every month, its from the hormones in the Clomid and the pressure that we are putting ourselves through with these treatments. It is an emotional roller coaster but we have to all be hopeful that at the end of it is a lovely result and surely it can only make us all stronger as women and mothers eventually. I found keeping a diary helped - hopefully for you the first round will work, but if it doesn't you can look back on your diary during your next round and remember each day how you were feeling - chances are your symptons will be the same.
I really like Zita West - not sure if you have heard of her but she is a fertility expert in London practising traditional and non-traditional. I think its very expensive to see her (which we haven't done!) but you can buy her books and also her relaxation CD's are great - they have really helped me through my bad days. She has a website if you just google Zita West.
I also find accupuncture really helps. There are ton's of success stories with accupuncture and IVF, but now there are some with IUI too. They recommend a few sessions before the insemenation and one a week after - but don't take my word for it if you are going to do it please speak to an expert.
Try not to get too caught up on the size of the follies - I live in Amsterdam and they are very laid back. Their motto is they won't tell you information they don't think you need to know or worry about so they show me on the screen how big my follies are but they never go into the specific dimentions and I'm glad because I have so many other things to worry about if I started worrying about millimeters here and there I would completely fall of the edge of sanity as I'm almost there already!
I hope this has helped a bit and I hope you are doing ok now you are probably in your 2WW. Try and relax, eat some nice cake, call a friend, take a nice walk, stock up on cheesy chick flicks and books to take your mind off it and if you can do some kind of relaxation CD.
x
Thank you CRC! I appreciate all your feedback! I'm not quite in 2ww yet-going tomorrow for 1st IUI. It's going to be a LONG wait.
I like how you point out to not worry about the specifics-this is exactly what I've been doing and should put the energy somewhere else! I can't help any of it-and only use it to compare myself to bfns and bfps (which never works as everyone's so difference) so should focus on something else.
The diary does help-I kept a ttc diary for the first 10 cycles but then it got too painful to write in it anymore. Finally I started a journal on here to get out the emotions and keep track of symptoms to help with getting my hopes up over SS and it's been a lifesaver-that and the girls on bnb.
I did acupuncture late in the first year and didn't find anything positive as a result but it may be a good idea to try a new practitioner with next IUI as a boost because I too have seen those studies!
One thing that has helped with this IUI is that after the first two failed years of ttc#1 we went on an NTNP break for almost a year. We seriously needed the mental break, time to evaluate our situation/options/future and basically give all those people who say "relax it will happen" "take a holiday" etc. a chance to be right (ha-WRONG!). Going into this first IUI cycle after just having sex for fun instead of bd on demand and not actively doing all the ltttc hell we went through for a couple of years has at least made this like a fresh start. We actually were looking forward to our pre-IUI bd instead of it being a chore as so many were in the past year and my optimism is as high as it was the first month we ever ttc rather than the NO HOPE I've had last year+. I'm sure this won't last as we get back into the full TTC swing, but the break in between LTTTC and assisted conception has seriously helped tons.
and super to you and all other girls!!!
GL for you results tomorrow touch!
HI to everyone else! Welcome bluebird and crc, good luck with the IUIs!
I'm back in for another scan tomorrow morning, keeping FX for more follies. They upped my meds so hopefully my 6 have increased! Have been super tired all weekend must be from the meds, anyone else get super tired from stimming?
Hi Harvest, thanks for the welcome - I think perhaps I ''met'' you on another forum on baby and bump a few months ago? I recognise your name. Are you still on IUI and if so what round? Good luck today - hope you have lots of ripe follies!
Hi CRC, yes i totally remember you from another thread. We are done with IUI, tried 4 rounds and none worked. 3 with clomid and 1 with injectibles. We are in the middle of our first IVF. I have never been so exhausted!!! They upped my meds on Friday and I have been a zombie ever since. Scan went well today, I have at least 8 follies now. Starting the cetrotide tomorrow aswell and back for another scan on Thursday. ER should be this weekend. How are you? still trying IUI?
Titi-sounds like your scan went really well today too! Good luck with the IUI on Wednesday
August- So sorry you are having a tough time. Hang in there and I have everything crossed that this cycle works out for you
Hi to everyone else, hope you had a good weekend.
oh no! I'm having ovulation pains in my ovary 25 hours before IUI! Am I going to ov too early??? Trigger shot last night at 5pm with 18-19mm follies.
This is normal, I usually get them before my trigger shot even and the nurses say its a good sign - its the other medication you are on too which makes the eggs so my cramps start before I have the trigger shot. You are bound to feel symptons. Just try and relax. Good luck.
oh no! I'm having ovulation pains in my ovary 25 hours before IUI! Am I going to ov too early??? Trigger shot last night at 5pm with 18-19mm follies.
This is normal, I usually get them before my trigger shot even and the nurses say its a good sign - its the other medication you are on too which makes the eggs so my cramps start before I have the trigger shot. You are bound to feel symptons. Just try and relax. Good luck.
ahhhhh yes-relaxing! I obviously forgot all about that again already!!! LOL.
Do they also usually do an ultrasound right before the IUI to confirm that you didn't ov and doublecheck the size of the follies or will I go straight to IUI.?
oh no! I'm having ovulation pains in my ovary 25 hours before IUI! Am I going to ov too early??? Trigger shot last night at 5pm with 18-19mm follies.
This is normal, I usually get them before my trigger shot even and the nurses say its a good sign - its the other medication you are on too which makes the eggs so my cramps start before I have the trigger shot. You are bound to feel symptons. Just try and relax. Good luck.
ahhhhh yes-relaxing! I obviously forgot all about that again already!!! LOL.
Do they also usually do an ultrasound right before the IUI to confirm that you didn't ov and doublecheck the size of the follies or will I go straight to IUI.?
Thanks CRC for the tips and info. DH and I have our own business with a home office, so although I haven't officially taken the day off-I don't have much lined up and can take it easy if need be. I was preparing myself for feeling pregnant-last time I took Clomid my progesterone levels were over 100 which did me in by itself-and I imagine the trigger shot doesn't help. Looks like I'll have to get some good movies or maybe even get dh to play a game with me : )
eeeeks USAmom I'm way too excited for you! I've never in my life even got a HINT of a second line so hoping hoping hoping it's good news!!!
I'm going to test out the ovidrel trigger too-when was it gone for you?
GL for you results tomorrow touch!
HI to everyone else! Welcome bluebird and crc, good luck with the IUIs!
I'm back in for another scan tomorrow morning, keeping FX for more follies. They upped my meds so hopefully my 6 have increased! Have been super tired all weekend must be from the meds, anyone else get super tired from stimming?
Hi Harvest, thanks for the welcome - I think perhaps I ''met'' you on another forum on baby and bump a few months ago? I recognise your name. Are you still on IUI and if so what round? Good luck today - hope you have lots of ripe follies!
Hi CRC, yes i totally remember you from another thread. We are done with IUI, tried 4 rounds and none worked. 3 with clomid and 1 with injectibles. We are in the middle of our first IVF. I have never been so exhausted!!! They upped my meds on Friday and I have been a zombie ever since. Scan went well today, I have at least 8 follies now. Starting the cetrotide tomorrow aswell and back for another scan on Thursday. ER should be this weekend. How are you? still trying IUI?
Titi-sounds like your scan went really well today too! Good luck with the IUI on Wednesday
August- So sorry you are having a tough time. Hang in there and I have everything crossed that this cycle works out for you
Hi to everyone else, hope you had a good weekend.
Hi Harvest, its good to talk again although I'm sorry you are also still here. I'm glad to hear you've moved onto something else - I do feel they keep us trying the IUI for ages. In the Netherlands they won't let me start IVF until I'e done 6 rounds of IUI - I've tried to argue this many times but at the moment they won't budge. I'm really at the end of my patience because IUI with the meds is also exhausting me and if we do have to do IVF I want to have energy for it! I'm in the 2WW of my 3rd round of IUI - but I've had 4 months of the meds because one had to stop as there were too many follies. If this doesn't work I'm going to talk to them again - maybe I'll negotiate with them I'll do one more IUI or something! Good luck with the IVF, I can imagine you must be exhausted. Are you also working or did you stop with IVF? I always think I would need a month off for IVF - I can barely get through the working day now! Good luck with the ER - will be thinking of you. x