IVF February/March 2012

[jappygirl76]

Well, af just showed up, again only six days after my transfer. This was our last attempt due to finances and of course the emotional toll that it takes, we are no longer pursuing any fertility treatments. I really hope that just being together will be enough to keep me and my husband together, but only time will tell. Best of luck to everyone and may you be blessed with everything you want in life and more!!

 

[Mmleo]

Ohh SarahAk..i wish there was anything that i can say to make u feel better,i also wish i could say i know what u r feeling but i dont. and more
God is there though!U r in my thoughts and thank u so much for reminding us to be thankful with what we've got.Take care,dont destroy urself,not now,u need all the strength.

 

[babydrms]

Jappy - so sorry AF arrived, have you had a beta - I know our handouts say you can have bleeding with pregnancy

SarahAK - very sorry things have gotten so complicated. Such a stark contrast where you were at the beginning of the cycle. I hope you have support in your real life.

AFM - transfer tomorrow...

 

[Mmleo]

Well, af just showed up, again only six days after my transfer. This was our last attempt due to finances and of course the emotional toll that it takes, we are no longer pursuing any fertility treatments. I really hope that just being together will be enough to keep me and my husband together, but only time will tell. Best of luck to everyone and may you be blessed with everything you want in life and more!!

Jappy-am so sorry to hear that..u must be really disappointed right now.Do u hve any chance trying naturally at all?dont feel obliged to reply i'll c if i can get the answer from ur signature.
now am really scared,i'll test tmoro..i wanted to wait until 10dpo but i cant risk it.

 

[Pink gerbera]

Well, af just showed up, again only six days after my transfer. This was our last attempt due to finances and of course the emotional toll that it takes, we are no longer pursuing any fertility treatments. I really hope that just being together will be enough to keep me and my husband together, but only time will tell. Best of luck to everyone and may you be blessed with everything you want in life and more!!

Oh jappy

Sorry to hear about the af showing. Keep strong, keep believing.

Pink xx

 

[Pink gerbera]

Good luck tomorrow babydrums xx

 

[Mmleo]

All the best babydrms.how many r u replacing?

 

[babydrms]

We are going to put back 2...

 

[Mmleo]

We are going to put back 2...

gd luck to u!!am getting scared,i think i'll start testing tmoro..which is way too early i know..

 

[sienna1]

jappygirl and SarahAK- Thank you for sharing with us. Hope you take care of yourselves and find support from loved ones. It has to get better.

AFM, I'm shocked that this morning we transferred two blastocysts. We walked into the clinic not knowing if we were going to be allowed, but all seemed promising. I didn't get symptoms of OHSS during the last 5 days and everything else was lining up. This is such a turn-around from a week ago when my doctor was explaining to me the steps involved in a FET, since she had originally said we were going to free all. Am ecstatic to be at this point.

babydrms - Good luck tomorrow!

 

[jappygirl76]

Well, af just showed up, again only six days after my transfer. This was our last attempt due to finances and of course the emotional toll that it takes, we are no longer pursuing any fertility treatments. I really hope that just being together will be enough to keep me and my husband together, but only time will tell. Best of luck to everyone and may you be blessed with everything you want in life and more!!

Jappy-am so sorry to hear that..u must be really disappointed right now.Do u hve any chance trying naturally at all?dont feel obliged to reply i'll c if i can get the answer from ur signature.
now am really scared,i'll test tmoro..i wanted to wait until 10dpo but i cant risk it.

Hi mmleo, I don't mind replying. We are in the unexplained infertility category, so technically there is no reason why we can't conceive naturally, but I just can't keep trying month after month and thinking and hoping. We have been doing this for almost3 years. I think err are just going to focus on us a bit more and travel and just be married. I just feel bad for him because he is only 29 yrs old and I know how bad he wants children. I am just not ready to think about adoption. I might feel different in 6 months our I might not, but for now, no more ttc.

 

[Mmleo]

Well, af just showed up, again only six days after my transfer. This was our last attempt due to finances and of course the emotional toll that it takes, we are no longer pursuing any fertility treatments. I really hope that just being together will be enough to keep me and my husband together, but only time will tell. Best of luck to everyone and may you be blessed with everything you want in life and more!!

Jappy-am so sorry to hear that..u must be really disappointed right now.Do u hve any chance trying naturally at all?dont feel obliged to reply i'll c if i can get the answer from ur signature.
now am really scared,i'll test tmoro..i wanted to wait until 10dpo but i cant risk it.

Hi mmleo, I don't mind replying. We are in the unexplained infertility category, so technically there is no reason why we can't conceive naturally, but I just can't keep trying month after month and thinking and hoping. We have been doing this for almost3 years. I think err are just going to focus on us a bit more and travel and just be married. I just feel bad for him because he is only 29 yrs old and I know how bad he wants children. I am just not ready to think about adoption. I might feel different in 6 months our I might not, but for now, no more ttc.

i know exactly what u mean by waiting month after month but it'll happen,especially if when u rnt trying for it.Believe!It happens!Stay strong,take a break but dont give up.All the Best xx

 

[Goldy]

Jappy
Sorry that AF arrived, wait until beta though.

SaraAK
I understand you and sometimes we are with the wrong person but we want it to work so bad that we think we are with the right person.. My prayer is that you are able to move forward with or without him.

BABYDRMS
Goodluck for tomorrow

Michelle
all the best on your betas

AFM will be going for frosties April so am just relaxing

 

[Lucie73821]

SarahAK- Sorry you are going through such a rough time. I hope you are able to decide what is best.

Jappygirl- So, so sorry about the BFN.

Babydrms- Good luck tomorrow!!

Sienna- Glad you were able to put back 2!

Michelle- Good luck for beta!

:wave: Hope everyone else is doing well.

As for me, feeling pretty crappy. Got a nasty cold coming on. I've had the occasional twinge here and there, but otherwise, no real symptoms. I'm trying to decide if I will test the morning of beta or not.

 

[Seoul]

Jappy- So sorry AF came they say traveling is a great way to keep the mind of the baby making pressure I hope it happens to you spontaneously I've been at this for over 5 years and I don't blame you for being sick of the monthly disappointments it is devastating.

SaraAK- Sorry to hear that you are going through all of that. I will have you in my prayers and I'm sure God has something good planned for you!

Michelle- Good Luck!

Mmleo- I would love to be your testing buddy but my hubby is making me wait at least till he gets back from out of town on Wednesday and my best friend is doing everything in her power to convince me to wait till the day before my beta. Good Luck with your testing!!

Babydrms- Good Luck

Sienna- Glad two were transferred we didn't know if the doc would let us either it was a relief and I couldn't believe it after I got home. Hope their nice and sticky!!

Lucie- Hope you feel better soon! Get lots of rest!

AFM- Nothing new OHSS seems to have cleared up which is great and other than dull lower back pain and cramps not much else is going on.

 

[Mmleo]

Hello there.I just noticed that the huge cyst is finally disappeared.I am not sure the things i've bn feeling..it did feel like AF was coming but again it could be coz i keep reading it on everyone's post.I might or might not test tmoro
seoul-i prefer wed too,but am so terrified by af coming when am not prepared.i most def feel a bit weird,nothing i can exlpain but tha's how i always am b4 af.my husband cant even dare tell me not to test coz he knows i would anyway...Baby dust to all of u.
Sienna-happy for u.I felt the same way,i thought the moment the doc saw what i was feeling,there was no way h'd go ahead with transfer but he did.GL to u

 

[michelle01]

SarahAK - I am so sorry for what you are going through. I hope you have friends and family to help support you through this. And hopefully your DH will come around; maybe this is his way of coping with all this.

Oh Jappygirl - I am sorry that AF started, but like everyone else said, wait till beta!!! I had a friend that had AF for 3 months and was still pregnant! And who knows, maybe by traveling and enjoying time with your DH, it will happen naturally, never give up hope!!

Babydrms - GOOD LUCK today!!!!

Sienna - YAY on being PUPO!!! Fingers crossed for you

Goldy - will be keeping fingers crossed that you get some good frosties to transfer; April is right around the corner!!!

Mmleo - I know what you mean about being scared to test; the closer it got to my beta (today), the more nervous I got with testing!! Hang in there and think positive!!!

AFM....my beta is in a little over and hour and will have results this afternoon! It seems like I have been waiting FOREVER for this day; as my transfer was Feb. 28. I am feeling hopeful and my DH keeps telling me not to get my hopes up, BUT I took another digital this morning and the results showed pregnant; so its hard not to think good things....at least until my beta proves me otherwise!

 

[Mmleo]

i dont want to corrupt any of u ladies but there is no way i'll wait for my beta.In fact am gonna do it many many days in advance,AF w'd be expected btwn 15th-19th but if isnt here by then,am doing blood work on th15th.,official day was 20th..
michelle hang in there...u'll be just fine.Let us as soon as u get ur results

 

[Mmleo]

SarahAK - I am so sorry for what you are going through. I hope you have friends and family to help support you through this. And hopefully your DH will come around; maybe this is his way of coping with all this.

Oh Jappygirl - I am sorry that AF started, but like everyone else said, wait till beta!!! I had a friend that had AF for 3 months and was still pregnant! And who knows, maybe by traveling and enjoying time with your DH, it will happen naturally, never give up hope!!

Babydrms - GOOD LUCK today!!!!

Sienna - YAY on being PUPO!!! Fingers crossed for you

Goldy - will be keeping fingers crossed that you get some good frosties to transfer; April is right around the corner!!!

Mmleo - I know what you mean about being scared to test; the closer it got to my beta (today), the more nervous I got with testing!! Hang in there and think positive!!!

AFM....my beta is in a little over and hour and will have results this afternoon! It seems like I have been waiting FOREVER for this day; as my transfer was Feb. 28. I am feeling hopeful and my DH keeps telling me not to get my hopes up, BUT I took another digital this morning and the results showed pregnant; so its hard not to think good things....at least until my beta proves me otherwise!

anything yet on ur results michelle?

 

[michelle01]

I got my blood drawn and they said it would be a few hours; just depends on how much blood work the lab has to process, but they start checking for results around 11AM CST, so should know shortly! SOOOOOO anxious....