Thank you jackdoll and October,the weekend should fly by as we have friends visiting from tomorrow, their baby boy is been christened here on Sunday and I'm godmother, they had ivf to have him, 3 eggs, 2 fertilised and only he made it to day 2 and was transferred, she had 4 days of heavy bleeding and a negative test and a week later a surprise bfp after feeling ill! That's definitely a story of hope
They're having a party and bouncy castle at a local golf club after so dd will love that
Hope all goes perfectly tomorrow October! I'll be thinking of you
Only thing now is its 4am, dd is sleeping through the night for the second night in a row In forever and I'm up with horrendous earache, I could cry right now it's so bad. My throat feels like razors blades and my ears are killing, been up for 2 hours, just took ibuprofen, paracetamol and hot milk but not a lot I can do until get to Dr's tomorrow, typical this would happen now before the christening and transfer Tuesday, if I need antibiotics going to ask for ones thst are safe in pregnancy as don't want anything in my body for Tuesday that shouldn't be there
Dh is at work until 8am too, sorry for the pity party, I'm never ill this bad and feeling sorry for myself!
Secret, I would transfer 1. Just because I've only ever transferred 1 and had 2 bfps out of 3 so far. I have read 2 doesn't give much of a higher chance and I would like to know I could have another go if needed. Also I wouldn't be keen on a twin pregnancy, I'm too much of a worrier!
I'm sure whatever you decide will be the right decision for you though, what does dh think?