AQ my father is also paying for my IVF, it is a wonderful thing he is doing for my husband and I. But thinking about it not working I believe is a little more stressful for us because if it doesn't work we have to worry about disappointing someone else other than just ourselves. Prior to this cycle we did an IUI cycle and I told a couple different people other than my parents, for me that was a mistake. They would constantly ask if I was pregnant and what my symptoms I was having? So with this IVF we decided to only tell my parents. Although it has been hard not to tell my sister! Hope everything works out for you this time.