Hi
I'm due with my second baby girl on 10th Jan.
We have 90% of the things we need due to already having a daughter, but we still need to sort certain things:
* Need to rearrange the house. We're in a one bedroomed place and need to move ourselves into the lounge so that our toddler has her own room. Trying to do it now so she doesn't associate the move with the new baby and think she's being turfed out. We have ordered our new sofabed (our lounge is small and we need extra seating, so our bed will go into storage and we will kip on the sofabed) and it will be arriving on Friday. Then the upheaval begins!
* Need to get things like the gliding crib, the bouncer etc out of storage and set up at home
* Need to locate and sort out our daughter's newborn clothes and have them ready for the birth
* Need to pack our hospital bags!
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Re birth plan; here wer'e told not to bother with them because labours very quickly deviate, and you may find things go totally different to how you anticipated. My first labour went smoothly until my waters broke, when there was meconium, so they whisked me through to the delivery room and it was just a case of getting the baby out ASAP. If I'd bothered with a birth plan, it certainly wouldn't have been followed after that!
This time around I've just told my OH anything I am certain I
don't want to happen. For example I've told him that I want to try every pain relief before going for an epidural. I'm so scared of epis (I know a number of people that have had permanent nerve damage and pain as a result and I'm just not willing to risk it). But the trouble is, when I'm in that much pain I ask for it (I did in my last labour, but couldn't have it due to lack of time). I'm so glad though, because me shouting for an epi was just me wanting pain relief; "epidural" was the only word I could muster