I had quite the weekend.
Let me provide some background info…About a year ago I found an email of on my husbands laptop him just having small talk with a girl….it’s nothing incriminating – my husband has a lot of friends he still contacts from college high school etc. So ofcourse I read further and he mentions that he misses the time in his life when he was younger and blah blah no responsibilities etc….and then I realize who this girl is!....its a ex of his who now live in another province….very far from us. So I ask him and he says that’s is a friend from school….so I confront his and he admits yes its an ex, I didn’t want you to get upset because we are just friends its been 6 years or whatever.
So whatever I said to him you shouldn’t have lied but whatever I can see nothing is going on just know that you lie, I wont trust you….
Fast forward to this Friday….out of the blue I get a random facebook friend request from what I find out is this girls fiancé. He says to me your husband is talking to my gf and there may be things they are saying that are hurtful do you want to know what they are?..>WTF!!!!!
So I lost it on him – wtf is this !!! How am I suppose to feel or think now…..so he shows me email and again and nothing to worry about….there is no hun, sweetie, sext or anything like that its…hey whats up blah blah blah. So I said him what does this guy mean…..”things that may be hurtful to me” he says well….i did tell her a couple weeks ago when we had a fight that I didn’t know why I wasn’t funny happy…etc….and I may have said I missed that time way back when. He fully admits this as a friend and that he would never persue anything it was friendly and im his life, his family and that he would die for me…etc etc.
Here is the thing I really want to believe him. I know he isn’t the type of guy to throw away his family and stuff. Except im hormonal and my mind is wandering
I need your help ladies….can someone give me some courage and some strength to get past this.
I know they are friends, I know she is an ex, but im scared at the same time I don’t want to be one of those wives that says you cant do this you cant do that – because lets face it they will find a way to do whatever If they want to. So that’s pointless and just me look like a crazy wife.
Is it possible and should I really be that worried….
Scared and Preggers
dreambaby i was very discouraged when af showed up aswell
! But I'm doing OPK's and they are getting darker so I am hoping by tomorrow I will have a positive. We've been bding every other night for the last week and I wanted to again tonight but I have to work of course...it seems work is always getting in the way! But anyways, I'm so hoping this is my cycle...just trying not to get my hopes up too much!
