Let's Help Each Other Out - TTC Immediately After Early m/c

[FutureBabyG]

I have heard some women report increase cm. the women thought that af was coming or had appeared bc of how wet they were. they we constantly running to the bathroom. a few days later they got their bfp.

I've heard the same!

Too bad it was only twice on Saturday...hoping it will start up again, I would love to get that bfp!

I dont think it matters how often or how much. i believe you have an excellent chance. ps now you have your grandmother looking over you. i have heard several stories of close family members passing and then couples getting bfp unexpectedly when they didnt think they would.

 

[ERosePW]

When you have to say goodbye to someone you love, you often get the surprise of getting to say hello to someone new.

 

[FutureBabyG]

When you have to say goodbye to someone you love, you often get the surprise of getting to say hello to someone new.

Thank you! you always know how to make what i am trying to say into something short and sweet.

 

[savvysaver]

Erin and FBG, thank you for your kind words.

 

[ERosePW]

Savvy, how are you feeling today?

 

[savvysaver]

Savvy, how are you feeling today?

You are so sweet to check in on me! I am doing alright a bit stressed though. My temp went down and I have a little bit of cramping today. How are you feeling on clomid this time?

 

[ERosePW]

Savvy, how are you feeling today?

You are so sweet to check in on me! I am doing alright a bit stressed though. My temp went down and I have a little bit of cramping today. How are you feeling on clomid this time?

Ugh, the dang dreaded cramping. Well, thats ok! As we've said before, I know a ton of girls who felt like AF was coming, only to end up getting a BFP. You should know soon, right? You said you normally have short cycles, around 26 days? That's assuming your body has gone fully back to normal after the mc.

I'm doing fine on the clomid. From what I remember, the last cycle that I took it (which was the first one of 50mg), the side effects hit right around my LH surge. It seemed like that's when I got super emotional, really bad headache, hot trying to sleep at night... But that only lasted like two days, and then went away right after I O'd. After that, I felt great! Except for the face breakout, of course, hehe! But it's all worth it for a BFP.

 

[savvysaver]

Ugh, the dang dreaded cramping. Well, thats ok! As we've said before, I know a ton of girls who felt like AF was coming, only to end up getting a BFP. You should know soon, right? You said you normally have short cycles, around 26 days? That's assuming your body has gone fully back to normal after the mc.

I'm doing fine on the clomid. From what I remember, the last cycle that I took it (which was the first one of 50mg), the side effects hit right around my LH surge. It seemed like that's when I got super emotional, really bad headache, hot trying to sleep at night... But that only lasted like two days, and then went away right after I O'd. After that, I felt great! Except for the face breakout, of course, hehe! But it's all worth it for a BFP.

Glad you are feeling good so far. At least two days of side effects isn't too bad, especially now you kind of know what to expect. Like you said, it is all worth it for a bfp!

I am kind of worried...I had 24-26 day cycles, then the m/c and the 1st cycle after the m/c were like 31 days. So I O'd on CD17 and I am 8dpo...which puts me at CD25, I really hope AF doesn't show tomorrow (CD26) because the LP would be way to short. Of course my temp dropped this morning. ugh. I am putting faith in my Grandma watching me from above...I totally have to get a bfp this cycle just for her. The cramping comes and goes and could totally be related to my stomach issues or stress. Not feeling much else but honestly I have been so busy I barely have time to even think about symptom spotting.

 

[Sabster]

HI ladies, Im joiningthis thread too. I suck at temping mostly becasue I forget, don't take it atthe right time and my chart is pretty whacky. HOWEVER, I plan to start charting as soon as my AF comes. Ive had 2 MC'S in the past 6 months and I want to try again, however I am also scared SH*tless of going through another loss.

I don't think charting would be a good idea right now becasue my body is still in crazy mode.....did any of you startright after the MC?

MERCI!

 

[brighteyez73]

Good morning ladies,

How is everyone doing this morning? I am ok, my ovulation detector came back this morning which was a great feeling because I thought I did something wrong. I have a bad headache today and even had to pull over this morning because I was feeling nauseated but nothing came up. Also, my mouth has been extra watery the last two days. Hope these are good signs although they are annoying but so worth it. I remember bad headaches in the beginning with last pregnancy. But we will see.

 

[ERosePW]

HI ladies, Im joiningthis thread too. I suck at temping mostly becasue I forget, don't take it atthe right time and my chart is pretty whacky. HOWEVER, I plan to start charting as soon as my AF comes. Ive had 2 MC'S in the past 6 months and I want to try again, however I am also scared SH*tless of going through another loss.

I don't think charting would be a good idea right now becasue my body is still in crazy mode.....did any of you startright after the MC?

MERCI!

Welcome Sabster, I am so sorry for your losses. Fxd that your next one will be a sticky bean!

I did start charting right after my m/c. I used the first day of bleeding as CD1 because I didnt really know how else to start. My temps were still high during those first few days (I guess I still had progesterone built up from being prego), and then they dropped back down to normal pre-O temps. But the whole cycle was a little wacky. I O'd a few days later than normal, and my temps also dropped for several days before AF finally showed (when usually AF shows on the first day of the temp drop for me). So it was definitely an "off" cycle for me, but the reason I temped is just because I've been temping for months, and didnt want to have a gap in between. Plus I wanted to know when I was going to O, because DH and I weren't taking a month off! We didn't get a BFP, but now I'm in my first "real" cycle since the m/c, and have just started taking my Clomid again (my Dr wouldn't let me take it until I got a real AF). So I have high hopes for this cycle.

GL to you Hun, and baby dust!!!

 

[ERosePW]

Good morning ladies,

How is everyone doing this morning? I am ok, my ovulation detector came back this morning which was a great feeling because I thought I did something wrong. I have a bad headache today and even had to pull over this morning because I was feeling nauseated but nothing came up. Also, my mouth has been extra watery the last two days. Hope these are good signs although they are annoying but so worth it. I remember bad headaches in the beginning with last pregnancy. But we will see.

GL brighteyez!! FXd crossed for you! Sounds like some similar symptoms, so could be a great sign for you.

 

[ferens06]

HI ladies, Im joiningthis thread too. I suck at temping mostly becasue I forget, don't take it atthe right time and my chart is pretty whacky. HOWEVER, I plan to start charting as soon as my AF comes. Ive had 2 MC'S in the past 6 months and I want to try again, however I am also scared SH*tless of going through another loss.

I don't think charting would be a good idea right now becasue my body is still in crazy mode.....did any of you startright after the MC?

MERCI!

I did.

Sorry for your losses I can imagine your fears

 

[kazine]

https://ovufriend.com/graph/9af5c059d73af68eb6446c0d1d4202f8

With my temp still above coverline (36.66) I don't think I'm going to ovulate on time this month if at all

 

[savvysaver]

Out this month

 

[kazine]

savvysaver

 

[adav18]

Hi Ladies,

Hopefully I am doing this right! Haven't been on the site for a while.

I miscarried on January 14, 2014. I bled for 8 days and we started BDing, 3 days after bleeding stopped. I do not use OPK's or temp and I was just curious on what CD would people typically receive a BFP? I'm currently on CD 24. The reason I was asking for CD is because I'm not sure when/if I ovulated. I also started my first CD with the first day bleeding from miscarriage. I also had some spotting (few hours, light pink) on CD 17, when wiping and just quarter sized on pad (sorry, tmi). Possibly implantation bleeding, if O'ed 3 days after I stopped bleeding? My breasts have also been VERY VERY sore the last few days. Any info would be greatly appreciated!

BTW: Went in Monday (2.3.14) and HCG levels were negative. 2 weeks prior to that, I was at a 12 (3 days after bleeding stopped).

 

[ERosePW]

Hi Ladies,

Hopefully I am doing this right! Haven't been on the site for a while.

I miscarried on January 14, 2014. I bled for 8 days and we started BDing, 3 days after bleeding stopped. I do not use OPK's or temp and I was just curious on what CD would people typically receive a BFP? I'm currently on CD 24. The reason I was asking for CD is because I'm not sure when/if I ovulated. I also started my first CD with the first day bleeding from miscarriage. I also had some spotting (few hours, light pink) on CD 17, when wiping and just quarter sized on pad (sorry, tmi). Possibly implantation bleeding, if O'ed 3 days after I stopped bleeding? My breasts have also been VERY VERY sore the last few days. Any info would be greatly appreciated!

BTW: Went in Monday (2.3.14) and HCG levels were negative. 2 weeks prior to that, I was at a 12 (3 days after bleeding stopped).

Unfortunately, figuring out a testing date usually does have to correspond with the day you O'd. BUT, since you dont know for sure, then you could always go on what the universe seems to consider a normal cycle, which would be testing on cd28. Right after my m/c, I started temping and using OPKs again, and I know I O'd several days later than my norm... I think it was around cd16 for me, so I tested 14 days after that, which would've been cd30 i think...? I always use that 14 dpo rule, since my Dr told me that is typically around the average timeframe that a woman will get an accurate HPT. However, we've all seen tons of women who get their BFPs super early too, so who knows! LOL GL this cycle, I'm pullin for ya!!!

 

[ERosePW]

https://ovufriend.com/graph/9af5c059d73af68eb6446c0d1d4202f8

With my temp still above coverline (36.66) I don't think I'm going to ovulate on time this month if at all

When I miscarried, my temps stayed above my average CL for about 3-4 days. I did the same as you, and used the first day of bleeding as cd1. Once my temps finally went below my usual CL, I started using the OPKs. I think you will definitely O this cycle, but it could take a little extra time... mine was several days later than my usual O day.

 

[ERosePW]

Out this month

I'm sorry Hunny. I know how bad you were wanting that BFP this month. I wish this didnt have to be so hard on us. Just look ahead to March, girly. Its what we do, right? We just keep on keepin' on.