Life after Loss Support Group........All Welcome :)

[iloveblue]

Fab news Nats! I'm glad you got your 2-3

My spotting has stopped now - which is good, although I have been feeling a bit crampy today.
I did a preg test last Friday (exactly 2 wks after we lost baby) to see if hormones had gone down and it was negative - so I'm assuming thats a good sign that my body is getting back to normal.

Had a few sad moments today - it feels like it has only just sunk in that there will be no baby for us in March.

On a more positive note DH and I were chatting earlier about TTC again and he is happy to start asap. He was umming and aahing about it to start with as he thought we should wait till next Summer (and the thought of that was making me a bit panicky).

 

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[Suze]

I've just signed your petition MaevesMummy...I too had quite a bad experience when I gave birth to my angel son and I'm pleased someone has started a campaign to change things, we're still deliberating a compliant against the hospital - let me know if there's anything more I can do.

Well I got a very very faint line today so everything crossed for a darker one tomorrow!

 

[MaevesMummy]

I've just signed your petition MaevesMummy...I too had quite a bad experience when I gave birth to my angel son and I'm pleased someone has started a campaign to change things, we're still deliberating a compliant against the hospital - let me know if there's anything more I can do.

Well I got a very very faint line today so everything crossed for a darker one tomorrow!

Thank you. I dont realy know whats going on with the hospital, not sure my appointment today was normal and husband doesnt think it was either!

So sorry to hear you had a rough time.
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[Imalia]

We've finally gotten the courage to ttc again after losing our son at 20 weeks in July.

I swore I would be causal about it, but I'm currently 4-5dpo and driving myself crazy with the tww, and honestly I'm not sure what result would scare me more. We've been ttc for 13 years and have had two early miscarriages, one ectopic and one 20 week loss, just hoping and praying for a BFP and a sticky bean soon.

 

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[iloveblue]

Congratulations Suze Keep us updated!

 

[iloveblue]

I've just signed your petition MaevesMummy...I too had quite a bad experience when I gave birth to my angel son and I'm pleased someone has started a campaign to change things, we're still deliberating a compliant against the hospital - let me know if there's anything more I can do.

Well I got a very very faint line today so everything crossed for a darker one tomorrow!

Thank you. I dont realy know whats going on with the hospital, not sure my appointment today was normal and husband doesnt think it was either!

So sorry to hear you had a rough time.
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What happened at the appointment Maevesmummy?

 

[iloveblue]

We've finally gotten the courage to ttc again after losing our son at 20 weeks in July.

I swore I would be causal about it, but I'm currently 4-5dpo and driving myself crazy with the tww, and honestly I'm not sure what result would scare me more. We've been ttc for 13 years and have had two early miscarriages, one ectopic and one 20 week loss, just hoping and praying for a BFP and a sticky bean soon.

Hi Imalia
I'm so sorry for your losses - hoping you get your BFP soon x

 

[Imalia]

I'm actually for once feeling fairly positive that it won't take us too long this time around. I'm due some good luck lol

Here's hoping we all get our bfp's sooner rather than later.

 

[MaevesMummy]

We were escorted from reception by the head bereavment nurse lady.
She was lovley but still no answers.
She took my bloods in a seperate room.
Not sure this is normal, and my husband thinks she was choosing her words very carefully.

He suspects they are investigating clinical negligence. i think its just because we complained about our care (I HOPE!) I cant even imagine what will happen to my mental health if my query about the clinical side is taken on as a complaint.
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[iloveblue]

I'm glad the bereavement lady was lovely - why are they taking bloods?

 

[Suze]

I've still got my faint BFP, I'm hoping the lines get darker but I' actually only 3+5 so I can't expect too much just yet.

Maevesmummy - Do you think they were trying to be over-caring by 'escorting' you but actually over did it and it came across as weird?
I know when we went back to get our results a nurse came and got us from the main hospital reception...I just thought they were trying to be extra professional? By the way I will reply to your PM and tell you what happened to us, it's quite long so I've not got round to it just yet but promise I will

 

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[iloveblue]

Cant wait to hear about your lines getting darker Suze

Have you got a date for your scan yet Nats?
I can understand completely how nerve-wracking it will be when you go - but hopefully everything will be fine and you will be able to put the bad memories behind you.
How are you feeling? Any sickness yet?

I have a bad day yesterday - at home all day on my own just moping really. I felt like I don't want to go anywhere, do anything, see anyone etc - I can't even get excited about Christmas at the moment, which is very unusual for me.
I'm feeling more positive today and got a busier day planned - my mum is paying for me to get my haircut for my birthday. Also, DH has taken a day off work as he was worried about me and is taking me out for a coffee.

 

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[xgem27x]

Hi ladies, I miscarried in my first pregnancy last year at 17 weeks, it's the hardest thing I've ever had to go through, and still everyday I think about my little one x

A few months later me and OH started TTC again, and I'm now sitting here, a very proud mummy of twin boys! Frazer and Maxxie were born a week before the anniversary of my miscarriage, so I spent the anniversary cuddling my beautiful sons!

I wish all the best to those of you TTC or pregnant again! Fingers crossed that everything goes well, and that sometime soon in the future you will be proud mummys to your little ones! xxxx

 

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