Thank for that feel much better about it now... It was just a shock after the lack of care we recieved after Maeve's birth.
Did they not say what the bloods were for?
maybe they are to check HCG levels? to make sure they go back to 0.
Did u request a PM?
I was asked to have extra bloods about 2 weeks after i had charlie to check for a virus they found in my blood.... got me all worried, but it turned out not to be the cause of death, they just look into everything if u request a PM....
I was treated very gently before and after i had charlie, someone met me and took me where i needed to go... i think you were just be looked after..
Hope u are all well..xxxx
CONGRATS Suze... new bump buddy!! your lines are looking great
I'm having big wobbles about going for a scan...
I just keep thinking about the last time i went for one thinking everything was fine and being told charlie had died.... just makes my tummy churn... I want one cos i know i'll feel better about this pregnancy, it just makes me feel so anxious, the thought of lying on that bed...
I've still got my faint BFP, I'm hoping the lines get darker but I' actually only 3+5 so I can't expect too much just yet.
Maevesmummy - Do you think they were trying to be over-caring by 'escorting' you but actually over did it and it came across as weird?
I know when we went back to get our results a nurse came and got us from the main hospital reception...I just thought they were trying to be extra professional? By the way I will reply to your PM and tell you what happened to us, it's quite long so I've not got round to it just yet but promise I will
It feels kinda odd telling people i'm pregnant again....
I don;t want to keep it a secret as with my first 3 kids i told people straight away i was so excited, but with my last pregnancy i decided not to tell people till after the dating scan. i was a little embarrassed at being PG and worried what people would say... I was really happy and wanted our baby... anyway we all know what happened to my baby charlie...
So this time i don't want o hide or be ashamed that i'm pregnant .. i want to tell everyone,, be loud and proud.... but it feels disrespectful to charlie too... but i feel i need to tell as i want this pregnany to be different to charlies so the same thing doesn't happen.. IYKWIM?? i know its nothing i did that killed charlie its just i keep trying to do things different.. like we went camping the weekend before i found out he'd died.. i've told dh i won't go next year..just in case.....
i guess i'm just worried about this pg...
sorry for rambling i prob don't make any sense...
GOT my FX for a BFP for u!!!
When are you going to test?
It feels kinda odd telling people i'm pregnant again....
I don;t want to keep it a secret as with my first 3 kids i told people straight away i was so excited, but with my last pregnancy i decided not to tell people till after the dating scan. i was a little embarrassed at being PG and worried what people would say... I was really happy and wanted our baby... anyway we all know what happened to my baby charlie...
So this time i don't want o hide or be ashamed that i'm pregnant .. i want to tell everyone,, be loud and proud.... but it feels disrespectful to charlie too... but i feel i need to tell as i want this pregnany to be different to charlies so the same thing doesn't happen.. IYKWIM?? i know its nothing i did that killed charlie its just i keep trying to do things different.. like we went camping the weekend before i found out he'd died.. i've told dh i won't go next year..just in case.....
i guess i'm just worried about this pg...
sorry for rambling i prob don't make any sense...
wow u have more will power than me if u can wait till next weekend!!!
good luck!!!
Hi MissMaternal
I'm so sorry for your losses - can't imagine how it must feel to go through this twice. You sound very positive and brave. I am sure it is going to be third time lucky for you.
Are you going to wait for your first AF before you start TTC?
We lost our baby 3 weeks ago today (also at 20+3) - I've stopped spotting, am just waiting for AF to arrive, but am very impatient!!
I'm so sorry you have had to go through this twice, I couldn't even imagine it, I only just made it through once with my body and soul still mostly intact.
I'm currently waiting to test, but I have a gut feeling it's not our month this month.
Its too awful to contemplate losing a second baby.. my heart goes out to u!!! it is a very real fear i have about this pregnancy , that it could happen again...
Have u had an indication of why this has happened again?
Massive for you!!
Fx u get pregnant again quickly, are you waiting for a cycle or just going for it?
We won't find out why this has happened...this baby only measured 11 weeks even though i was 17 weeks, so it's too small to require testing. They found nothing wrong with Freya though when they tested on her.