We won't find out why this has happened...this baby only measured 11 weeks even though i was 17 weeks, so it's too small to require testing. They found nothing wrong with Freya though when they tested on her.
I think was my biggest fear when we lost our son, that there would be no reason, and therefore nothing to fix for next time. We got half a reason I guess, a reason, but no reason for the reason, iykwim. Our problem was intrauterine growth restriction caused by a circumvellate placenta and hypercoiled umbilical cord, but those are just random things on their own and there's not really anything that can be done to prevent them, though they're not likely to happen again.
I think that either if there had been nothing wrong, or we already had other children I would have quit there and then, and not faced being pregnant again, but after 13 years of trying I'm just way too stubborn to admit the world has beaten me on this yet.
Hi everyone
How are you all doing?
I'm okay - still a bit up and down.
Seeing my GP tomorrow as due to go back to work on Tuesday and don't feel ready.
We were ntnp from as soon as we could, only really started trying this cycle. I'm starting to think it would just be easier on me and everyone around me if I just gave up and called it a day. Sometimes it feels like the sooner I accept I'm never going to be a mummy, the better off I'll be.
We were ntnp from as soon as we could, only really started trying this cycle. I'm starting to think it would just be easier on me and everyone around me if I just gave up and called it a day. Sometimes it feels like the sooner I accept I'm never going to be a mummy, the better off I'll be.
We were ntnp from as soon as we could, only really started trying this cycle. I'm starting to think it would just be easier on me and everyone around me if I just gave up and called it a day. Sometimes it feels like the sooner I accept I'm never going to be a mummy, the better off I'll be.
Dont give up Imalia.
I can't remember if you said - have you had any testing to try and ascertain why this keeps happening?
Yeah we've had testing, and after we lost our son in July they did a full pm and investigations. Apparently I'm just really unlucky. If there's a random chance of something going wrong, it will for me. There's no reason it should be so hard for me to get pregnant, and there's no reason I should keep losing my babies either. I just seem destined to always be in that small percent who crap out on the odds. It's the story of my life. There could be 100 tickets in a raffle, I'll buy 99 and still not win.
Yeah we've had testing, and after we lost our son in July they did a full pm and investigations. Apparently I'm just really unlucky. If there's a random chance of something going wrong, it will for me. There's no reason it should be so hard for me to get pregnant, and there's no reason I should keep losing my babies either. I just seem destined to always be in that small percent who crap out on the odds. It's the story of my life. There could be 100 tickets in a raffle, I'll buy 99 and still not win.
I'm sorry you're having to go through this Imalia - it must be extremely hard, especially when there are no answers.
But please don't give up hope - your luck has got to change soon
I dont think so we didnt do anything at the right time, I realised being pregnant again as quickly as possible wasnt going to make things easier just at the time when i would have ovulated.
I dont have any symproms either, last time as soon as I i was pregnant I just knew as my chest was so sore!
I guess it takes time for your body to get back to normal...
Will do a test if it hasnt arrived tommorow though to be sure.
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