Well... I got the wind sucked out of my sails last night ....
While laying in bed, going to sleep.. my OH drops a bomb shell .... He really doesn't wanna ttc again...
He only agreed to it because he knew how much I wanted to.... He says it will be too scary and even brought up the worries of how expensive it would be...
and has brought up his age... Says he thinks he really doesn't wants to be an older father .. (He's 45 now).
I am a bit baffled to be honest... He keeps me completely confused on this matter... One day he can't wait, then the next he doesn't want to at all....
So, if I didn't get preg this cycle, looks like I'm out ... Well see... Like I said, he's so all over the radar with this .. Just gonna take one day at a time....
I honestly think it's because he knows I stay sad.. (I don't show it, but he just knows) ... ecspecially with Thanksgiving being tomorrow ... and then Christmas... He is terrified that this will happen again and he says he worries about me , mentally....
Ugh...
I just want my Emma ....
Thanksgiving is tomorrow and we are having it at our house for the first time, having all our family here ...without Emma...
I think getting new carpet in Emma's "would have been" room has upset me as well, I hardly EVER go in that room, I just keep the door shut and pretend it isn't there... But while in there working I ran into Emma's clothes and things... When I seen her lil onesie that say "Baby's First Christmas" .. OMG...
That definatly done me in.... I hate that we are here girls.... hate this for all of us...
Thanks for listening to me whine and rant.... You girls are the best!