It's great you want to congratulate her on her new baby, but why do it by saying you can't think of anyone who deserves it more. Why? Why does she deserve it more than me? More than anyone else living this hell?
No, wasn't my DH! Actually someone off here on facebook. Just hate the phrase used in congratulations. She does deserve her happy ending, but more than anyone else?! I don't know.
awifey - ask them to cover the cost of the fertility treatment! Maybe then they'll shut up.