I don't sodding care how cute your child was in the nativity or how well she did or how proud you are of her. I'm sure that is all true but you KNOW my situation. You've held me when I've cried about it many times in the last 7 years. What part of your brain thinks I want to hear about it. You're a lot of family and friends, go tell them about it. And here's a radical suggestion for you. When I get upset STOP TALKING.